“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So I pretty much hate flirting, I feel like it puts a girl on a pedestal that she does not deserve and is overall demeaning towards a man of my caliber. Yeah I'm a bit of a narcissist, not knocking you fellas who do it but ain't my cup of tea. Anyhow if I want some action I know I have to do it a little bit just to reel her in. My assumption is that if I go out of my way to talk to a girl, regardless of the situation she knows I'm on some level interested. I don't need to tell her she's hot or some stupid **** like that (Oye, I use to do that, felt like a *****). So basically I just am taking the strategy to have normal conversation and then have her give me her number at my leisure. Advice? I'd like to take the laid back approach in dating from now on but I could use a few tweeks to my game.
 
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I should not be giving advice, but let me put this out there and maybe this will help you, or help me for being criticized.

I would just make a detached causal conversation and gauge her interest level and what kind of connection she and I might have. Maybe I will make some off the wall comment, and then go from there, pointing out something interesting that she is doing, or I am doing, or maybe even something in the environment.

Example:

standing in line in a grocery store and picking up a food item or magazine and show her something healthy or unhealthy, and then going from there.
 
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Todd_Ingram said:
So I pretty much hate flirting, I feel like it puts a girl on a pedestal that she does not deserve and is overall demeaning towards a man of my caliber. Yeah I'm a bit of a narcissist, not knocking you fellas who do it but ain't my cup of tea. Anyhow if I want some action I know I have to do it a little bit just to reel her in. My assumption is that if I go out of my way to talk to a girl, regardless of the situation she knows I'm on some level interested. I don't need to tell her she's hot or some stupid **** like that (Oye, I use to do that, felt like a *****). So basically I just am taking the strategy to have normal conversation and then have her give me her number at my leisure. Advice? I'd like to take the laid back approach in dating from now on but I could use a few tweeks to my game.
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Flirting is a back and forth thing. You put in some work sometimes then you pull back and let her put in some of her own work.The point is she's supposed to know that you are on some level interested and that way she can reciprocate. Remember the opposite of being an AFC who pours his feelings out is an AFC who's too scared to be sexual and too scared to show intent.
 
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Thers nothing wrong with showing interest, i just also show her im not willing to give up anything for it and its meaningless in my life.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Todd_Ingram said:
So I pretty much hate flirting, I feel like it puts a girl on a pedestal that she does not deserve and is overall demeaning towards a man of my caliber. Yeah I'm a bit of a narcissist, not knocking you fellas who do it but ain't my cup of tea. Anyhow if I want some action I know I have to do it a little bit just to reel her in. My assumption is that if I go out of my way to talk to a girl, regardless of the situation she knows I'm on some level interested. I don't need to tell her she's hot or some stupid **** like that (Oye, I use to do that, felt like a *****). So basically I just am taking the strategy to have normal conversation and then have her give me her number at my leisure. Advice? I'd like to take the laid back approach in dating from now on but I could use a few tweeks to my game.
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I really love and enjoy flirting, I feel like I can dominate a whole conversation while having a lot of fun. Its not about putting her on a peddestal. Actually, to me is trying to knock her off to put me on it. To me flirting if trying to have fun with the girl, talk, joke and tease her, have her smile and laugh, touch or grab her, and recieving one of those girly hits in the arm (Its 1UP). My assuption is that most guys dont enjoy flirting and go all systematic. So basically Ill just continue to do that and try to get better and better at it. And yes!, it has all to be done in a laid back, chilled, non needy or desperate kind of way.
 
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If you are a strong, confident and possibly also somehow attractive man, I believe it's hard to give a girl too much attention. Show her that you want, but don't need her is maybe the most straightforward advice.
 
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