Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
I've been seeing this chick for just over a couple of weeks now that I did have start having oneitis for her after the first date but now I'm getting a bit fed up with whole thing.
Her interest seems to have remained high. She will text quite a bit, if I don't reply when shes asking if I'm free and what my plans are she calls that evening.
Yesterday, she even called saying shes going out food shopping asking if she could get me anything.
She lives just down the road from me, less than a 5min walk. The only time we have slept together was on the second date (we ended up in our local at the end of the date and I walked her home, she invited me in). Annoyingly she refused sex, while she was happy to make out, strip down to her underwear and take her bra off, she pulled my hand away each time I placed it anywhere between her legs.
When we first walked in her house, it was like she hasn't taken a man back before and just froze, not even asking if I want a drink or anything like that (shes only 22 and just moved out of her parents home to live on her own around 8 months ago). She just left it to me to lead her around her own house.
Since then her interest went sky high constantly asking what my plans are for the week ahead before I even get chance to arrange anything. The next time I saw her, was when I invited her over to mine to watch a film when she asked if I'm free. It was kinda hard to get the kino going again. While she was very open to escalating I could sense she felt a little hesitant at first (I guess cos she was soba this time). It wasn't until about an hour into the film when she came out of her shell and started cuddling up fully. As we ended up in a spooning position I couldn't really get to kiss her much. We kissed properly when she left, but she was again very hesitant but then when we did, she didn't wanna stop.
The thing is to initiate anything at all, its like she doesn't feel fully comfortable and a bit unsure (never rejects), unless I show her a load of green flags to move on from hand holding etc. Only after then she seems to really enjoy it and opens up as if its new to her. Which is the exact opposite of her personality, shes really chatty and comfortable socially.
Another thing that's odd is apart from the first date she doesn't really try to make herself look attractive. Fair enough if she is just round mine I'll let her off but the second date we were out in public she wore no make up and had her hair tied back looking like a 6. While on the first date she had her hair straight, wore more feminine looking clothes and looked like a cute HB7. One of my friends knows of her (his mate was her friends b/f for about a year). He was saying he was suspicious back then.
Don't get me wrong she is very cool and we always have a laugh teasing/joking at each other. Its all very nice to have a bit of female company round a couple of nights a week when am just at home chilling, but seriously this is going nowhere.
The problem is she has work at stupid o'clock each morning, including Saturdays, and leaves to go to sleep by 10pm. I feel the sexual tension will soon be drifting as shes getting more used to being physical with me.
While I really want to get a proper date sorted out again soon to clear up this mess, its not going to be until another couple of weeks. I've arranged to meet another chick Friday night for a second date (but shes a long distance away) and this local girl is out with her friends on the Saturday. Then we are back into that boring Sunday/a week night thing where she doesn't want to go out and just come over to mine as shes not back till late as she drives to far to work, but has to take an early night to be up early. Suggesting to her upfront to stay over would just sound plain weird for saying we haven't fvcked yet, it would seem more logical as she lives so close, its just getting over this hurdle seems like a massive task and I don't if its cos shes a virgin or what. I don't want to be dating her for a month without sex.
Her interest seems to have remained high. She will text quite a bit, if I don't reply when shes asking if I'm free and what my plans are she calls that evening.
Yesterday, she even called saying shes going out food shopping asking if she could get me anything.
She lives just down the road from me, less than a 5min walk. The only time we have slept together was on the second date (we ended up in our local at the end of the date and I walked her home, she invited me in). Annoyingly she refused sex, while she was happy to make out, strip down to her underwear and take her bra off, she pulled my hand away each time I placed it anywhere between her legs.
When we first walked in her house, it was like she hasn't taken a man back before and just froze, not even asking if I want a drink or anything like that (shes only 22 and just moved out of her parents home to live on her own around 8 months ago). She just left it to me to lead her around her own house.
Since then her interest went sky high constantly asking what my plans are for the week ahead before I even get chance to arrange anything. The next time I saw her, was when I invited her over to mine to watch a film when she asked if I'm free. It was kinda hard to get the kino going again. While she was very open to escalating I could sense she felt a little hesitant at first (I guess cos she was soba this time). It wasn't until about an hour into the film when she came out of her shell and started cuddling up fully. As we ended up in a spooning position I couldn't really get to kiss her much. We kissed properly when she left, but she was again very hesitant but then when we did, she didn't wanna stop.
The thing is to initiate anything at all, its like she doesn't feel fully comfortable and a bit unsure (never rejects), unless I show her a load of green flags to move on from hand holding etc. Only after then she seems to really enjoy it and opens up as if its new to her. Which is the exact opposite of her personality, shes really chatty and comfortable socially.
Another thing that's odd is apart from the first date she doesn't really try to make herself look attractive. Fair enough if she is just round mine I'll let her off but the second date we were out in public she wore no make up and had her hair tied back looking like a 6. While on the first date she had her hair straight, wore more feminine looking clothes and looked like a cute HB7. One of my friends knows of her (his mate was her friends b/f for about a year). He was saying he was suspicious back then.
Don't get me wrong she is very cool and we always have a laugh teasing/joking at each other. Its all very nice to have a bit of female company round a couple of nights a week when am just at home chilling, but seriously this is going nowhere.
The problem is she has work at stupid o'clock each morning, including Saturdays, and leaves to go to sleep by 10pm. I feel the sexual tension will soon be drifting as shes getting more used to being physical with me.
While I really want to get a proper date sorted out again soon to clear up this mess, its not going to be until another couple of weeks. I've arranged to meet another chick Friday night for a second date (but shes a long distance away) and this local girl is out with her friends on the Saturday. Then we are back into that boring Sunday/a week night thing where she doesn't want to go out and just come over to mine as shes not back till late as she drives to far to work, but has to take an early night to be up early. Suggesting to her upfront to stay over would just sound plain weird for saying we haven't fvcked yet, it would seem more logical as she lives so close, its just getting over this hurdle seems like a massive task and I don't if its cos shes a virgin or what. I don't want to be dating her for a month without sex.
