Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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that's just wrong.Tiguere said:
I've liked your posts, but you are wrong in this case. I knew her husband. He was haunted by things in his past. He was prescribed lithium, and ordered to not drink at all. He got wasted one night, and she caught him drunk IMing an old fling in NY. They got in a fight, and he left their house, and stayed with a neighbor for a couple days. He belligerantly texted her saying he was gonna do it, and she called his bluff, then he actually he did it. She has to live with that now. He hung himself cuz of his own issues and mental imbalance. All of us men know that a girl is never a reason for that. They both have issues, and they were a great couple cuz they could handle each others issues. I know both of them, and they loved each other more than anything, but he had a serious dark side that eventually got the best of him.Rescue Mission said:
I know this chick very well. First of all, she's safe about it, secondly, she's not a hor... or at least a lot less of one that any of the other girls around. Her husband just died. She's not gonna go hor around. I know she's a female, but you gotta give a LITTLE credit as a human being. She called me cuz she was lonely and sick of her vibrator, and needed the real thing, and knew I would be cool about it. I didnt ask her what number on her list I was though, lol. I think I will when I see her next.nivapimpru said:
Have you ever dated a recent widow? I have. Everything is a comparison. Its like a girl who just got out of an LTR, except that when someone dies, people instantly forget about their bad points and only focus on their good ones. Basically, in a widows mind, her man was perfect. Try competing with that.Oxide said:
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
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Obviously! Who wouldn't?facadegeniality said:
It was 100% her idea, and I asked her if she was absolutely sure she wanted to, so I gave it to her. Whatever people think of me for doing it, I'll accept with a smile on my face.Thank you!Julius Seizeher said:
I hope to god this was not a serious post.facadegeniality said:
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.