Progress Success ft. A Revelation (Finally a success story on this site)

I finally got to see some progress with myself last night. What made this so cool was that I got a revelation about myself. I saw who I wanted to be, become a reality right before my eyes. Let's get to it.

BACK STORY--
I've been gaming this girl on and off ever since I joined this site back in December of '09. Now I've made many failed attempts before, but that was way before I knew what I knew now.

I decided that if I couldn't get her, I'd practice stuff on her (dumb idea.) I rarely saw her. Very rarely. She wasa cowoker of mine, but headed off to college. It limited our contact, but she would contact me now and then.

Back in December, I had a big chance to do something. Every time I think about it, I get pissed that I missed an opportunity... So I wanted to make up for it last night.

STORY--
It was my friends birthday. I made plans to hangout with him later, and I notified my target about his birthday. We are all coworkers, so she wanted to come. This was the plan.

Later on in the day, I decided to head over to my friends house for his birthday. Get there and just have stupid amounts of fun. Then comes the phone call.

Coworker = CW

CW: Where are you?
Me: I'm at Bob's.
CW: Why didn't you call me back after I called you? You know I wanted to come.
Me: I didn't feel like it.
CW: Jerk!
Me: Thank you. You coming?
CW: I would but I don't know.
Me: B!tch, just come. If you don't want to, I don't care.
CW: Uh, ok. PICK ME UP! I can't use my car.
Me: Alright, but you owe me.

I pick her up and we talk about what she was up to. Now she has a boyfriend, so I made a joke about her being busy getting some booty. She was so shocked that I said that.

She said, "I can't believe you said that. I'm so use to you being a goody Christian boy."

I told her that I like getting my booty too. She was stunned the rest of the night.

We went to my b-day friends house and she just kept talking about how shocked was about what I said. She said, "your so different now."

Those were the words I wanted to hear.

She was all over me at my boy's house. That was the first sign of progress. She verbally made it aware that I had changed. I was becoming who I've been picturing in my head all along.

Anyways, it was late and I could tell she was tired. I told her I was gonna take her home. We head to the car and she rests her head on my shoulder. We headed out to her house, and she kept talking about how tired she was. About halfway to her house, she rests her head again. I knew what that meant.

We get there and I give her a hug and just move straight to the lips. Were making out, and she keeps saying, "Oh my God. I can't believe you. Your so different." Then she stops kissing me, and she starts laughing. She says, "I can't believe I am doing this... And with you. Dia, you shouldn't be doing this."

I say, "WE shouldn't be doing this." We go at it again. I move my hands down her back, down to her a**. She moans randomly. The she stops again and laughs. She's still in shock. She said, " I didn't think you were like this. You've changed." I said, "Is that supposed to be a bad thing?"

I go in to kiss her again. We make out a we seconds longer, then...

CW: No, haha, I can't be doing this. Your my friend. Were friends. This shouldn't be happening. Why did you kiss me?
Me: I wanted to.
CW: But you don't do than. You shouldn't. This is sooo...
Me: What?
CW: I don't know. I'm gonna go... Why are you laughing?
Me: Because your funny.
CW: Look, this can't happen again. I won't let it. I'm serious. Why do you keep laughing?
Me: Its funny. Ok, ok. Straight face... Hahaha! Wait, no look. I'm done, I promise. Serious mode. (I smirk from ear to ear.)
CW: Ok, I'm going inside now... Stop kissing me. We can't. Haha, Dia, stop. I'm going.

LMR!!!

It's ok. I don't care. I was so excited about what she said. I was different. I had changed. The mindset that I had set for myself had slowly become reality. I was progressing. I was becoming a man. A true Don Juan.

I don't care if we hook up again or not. That's not the point. I'm looking for growth, not pleasure. I wouldn't mind pleasure of it was given to me, but that's not what I'm after.

My next goal is to progress with my cold approaches. Time to get new numbers and get these women. Can't wait to put in more work.

Let's grow together y'all. Laters.

Diaforetikos said:

I finally got to see some progress with myself last night. What made this so cool was that I got a revelation about myself. I saw who I wanted to be, become a reality right before my eyes. Let's get to it.

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This is cool man. This is what it's all about....learning,growing,taking one step closer to being a "DJ" (or a MAN),and one step FARTHER FROM being an AFC.



It's one thing when you can began to see and feel the changes within yourself,but really sweet to the changes you've made in yourself reflected in the behavior of OTHER PEOPLE towards you.



The same changes that this girl sees in you I've seen in your threads.


You remember your thread called,"I saw the IOI,now what?"


Dude,your approaches in that thread were down-right HORRID,and I mean just AWFUL.



But looking at your interactions back then,and looking at this....

Diaforetikos said:

CW: Where are you?
Me: I'm at Bob's.
CW: Why didn't you call me back after I called you? You know I wanted to come.
Me: I didn't feel like it.
CW: Jerk!
Me: Thank you. You coming?
CW: I would but I don't know.
Me: B!tch, just come. If you don't want to, I don't care.
CW: Uh, ok. PICK ME UP! I can't use my car.
Me: Alright, but you owe me.

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...now,you'd never know that this was the same person in both interactions.

It's good to see that.....

1:Some people here actually do learn and take the advice that's given..

2:That some of the advice given here actually DOES WORK,and...

3:It doesn't take YEARS and YEARS and YEARS for this change to take place.



Good going man.

I commend you on your improvement OP I really wish you well. You don't know how cool it is to see one of these topics & not another sap fest with another chump cvnt.

I too am on a mission. I've phased girls out of my life completely to upgrade & re-invent myself...no rather to become my true self. To make my best moments a normal occurrence.

Be sure to report your future success as will I.

Dia, nice going. keep us informed on anymore contact with CW.

oh... and nice coaching DJ IGETIT. You've done it again!

I cant rep ya, cause I recently repped ya & the website wont allow it so soon.

I too am on a mission. I've phased girls out of my life completely to upgrade & re-invent myself...no rather to become my true self. To make my best moments a normal occurrence.

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I would love to see your progress. Post it up man! And thanks! Will post more for sure.

That's what it's all about man, giving up your old self to reinvent a new you. More people need to see that. Good luck man.

Dia, nice going. keep us informed on anymore contact with CW.

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Thanks! Will do.