bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
For the most part – I have two pickup resources:
#1 thing that gets me women - Sexuality
I’m EXTREMELY SEXUAL. Example from this week. A new woman was back in my area at work. She was sending me “vibes” that I was picking up. It started off as playful flirting. But I escalate quick(strike while the iron is hot!) I do not hide my desire to fvck! Somewhere in the conversation she said something like “I bet you wish I was back here to keep you company all the time, don’t you?” and I responded, “only if the whole place was empty so no one could hear your loud moans”. She d@mn near passed out in disbelief that I would say that!
We went deeper and deeper into sexual conversation. I told her about how a lot of times when I fvck a woman all night my abs hurt for days and im useless then. She said “well, why don’t you just do it once then instead of a bunch of times?”. I didn’t answer her question, I just asked her, “So you’d rather have once a night with me all week? Or you’d rather have all night with me once a week?” She said “both” with a sly @ss smile, but that’s irrelevant. It’s the way I phrased it to her. By the end she said, “im glad im leaving, you got me not able to think straight.” And this is nothing new! Women are not used to men who can turn them on so fast.
Some of you are familiar with the phrase “push-pull” and I do that with sexual talks. I lay it on, then in the next sentence – I’ll switch the subject to something a lot less interesting. What this does is keeps the sexual tension from peaking and collapsing. So I might talk for 5 minutes in a sexual way, then go 5 minutes talking about how she likes her job, then I’ll wait for her to set me up to move back into sexual talks, then once it hits it’s peak, I’ll bring it back down to some celebrity gossip or anything really (it’s irrelevant; it’s just filler until we get back to the sex talk)
#2 thing that gets me women – Comfort
This one is hard to explain, but basically – I can talk to a woman for 30 minutes and have her comfortable enough to tell me just about anything. This is the one gift I have from my nice guy days, because I am an incredible listener. I wish I could explain it more, but I can’t really. I would have to observe people and tell them what they’re doing wrong, but I often just let people talk and lead them into going deeper and deeper with me. And I never judge anything they say; instead I relate to it.
#3 thing that gets me women – My reputation (=curiosity)
I’ve seen some guys say “you don’t want the reputation of being a player/womanizer” on here and other boards. I think I would AGREE but only if you’re a good looking, successful man. Me? I pull a rating of about 4.5-5 on pic rating sites. NEVER in my life heard myself referred to as hot (although I get plenty of cute and handsome). I have an oval face, fat cheeks, skinny body, receding hair line, suffer from mild adult acne, and have an ugly scar on my neck. I do have a very nice “Fight Club/MMA” body, but I weigh 160 so NO ONE can tell I have a nice body unless im walking around with my shirt off. I also dress nice. But that does not make me HOT. Yet, I regularly get women’s interest; good looking women with incredible bodies.
And part of it is a cycle caused by my reputation as a womanizer and women’s curiosity. Curiosity? Yep, they wonder how a man like me (average looks, less than average income) can keep so many women in my life and have such a reputation. I’ve had women tell me that part of their attraction to me was being curious about just this. “I just wondered how you had all these women chasing after you. I thought you had a big d!ck or something.”
Do I? Nope.
#4 Poetry
I will perhaps post one of my poems in this thread at a later date. It’s not really sappy normal poetry. It’s not even rhyming poetry. In fact – a lot of it would be prose (stories structured in poetry form). Guess what most of my poems are about? Sex and women. I like to consider my poetry “alpha poetry”. It helps women get interested in me. I’ve also used it to gauge women’s intelligence. Most women who don’t get my poetry – are quickly NEXTed; I’ve come to learn it normally says something about our compatibility. On the flip side of that – I’ve seen women tear up reading my stuff, and that’s when I know they get it and then I give it.
This poet persona I have lets me get away with not being extremely active (“im a writer baby, I drink and write in most of my freetime”). Most dates I have with women take place in my apartment (I’ll get to this later). I’m pretty reclusive.
#5 I entertain
Because most of my dates take place at my house, and because I’m reclusive - I become the show! There’s only so much you can do in your house. I have to be charming, I have to have wit, I have to lead. I teach women how to play games; I cook; or we just talk for hours – letting the tension build. Something I never do? Watch movies or anything that takes the focus off us.
“Oh you don’t know how to play blackjack? I’m going to teach you, it’s easy.”
You don’t know how much fun you can have teaching a woman something. Normally, they’re a little slow at picking up stuff and ask stupid questions; so, it’s quite easy to tease and neg them.
Bottom line – when they’re in my apartment – they are getting a show. I am a performer, and they are too (in their own way) and when the show is good – everything else falls into place.
#6 sex…
This is how I believe im able to keep so many women. A woman can probably have more fun out at a bar with her girlfriends gossiping and getting hit on than she can sitting around with me. But what she can’t get from them is AMAZING sex.
I’ve theorized on here that Sex can be used as social status and can stand toe to toe with money and looks. I believe this 100%! And so much of what I do in life is based on being able to provide sex.
- I run two miles 4 times a week and play basketball regularly so that I don’t run out of breath easy.
- I eat a lot of sexual health foods. Blueberries, broccoli, watermelon, whole foods instead of processed, etc.
- I keep my weight down! When I get up to 180-190 – there’s a lot of things that hurt a woman that don’t hurt her when im 160.
- I take test boasters, eat lots of meats, lift heavy weights, and play contact sports whenever possible (including backyard boxing) – this keeps my testosterone up, which helps me go and go again and go again and go again…
- Finally, I write erotic stories…. Not to show to the world, but simply to keep my imagination in sex mode, and keep my brain as horny as my body…
I see a lot of guys talking about “amazing” sex with women. I always wonder if their amazing sex is the same as mine. Mine is when you make the woman not know if she’s cuming or going. You make her legs shake. You go 3-4 times and then pass out after she can’t take anymore.
A quick note on sex drive and amazing sex: If the woman has low sex drive (LSD) – there’s very little chance she can experience amazing sex with you. These women can normally only go 20 minutes, and normally aren’t very easy to turn on.
#7 Other stuff…
- I lead and lead and lead and lead some more.
- I RARELY contact women. I let them contact me.
- I do a lot of email/facebook/text game (that’s not supposed to work though Is it? Lol)
- I never lie about there being other women in my life, but I won’t go into too many details about them.
- I am available whenever im available! Meaning – some guys on here say to not be too available. My rule is: If you want to come over, text or call me and ask if you can… 90% of the time – im not doing anything, so when they ask – I tell them to come on over. If she’s been coming around too much and it’s affecting our relationship – THEN I will pull back, but no reason to do that when it’s going good.
- I do not have exclusive GFs. I have FBs and MLTRs (which is essentially more than one GF).
- I am romantic! And it works for me. Except I lay on the romance early on, but have learned that it loses it’s effect as the relationship progresses – so I pull it back after 5-6 months and only give it to her when she deserves it.
- I LIVE BY: Punish bad behavior, reward good behavior.
- I LIVE BY: The person who cares less controls the relationship.
- I RARELY let a woman seeing another man or trying to bring jealousy into a relationship effect me.
- Sometimes a woman wants a spanking! Sometimes anger and hardcore punishment is what a woman needs. It took me many years of trying to be the rock to realize this…. Sometimes nothing will turn a woman on more than you yelling at her. It’s just figuring out when is the best time versus when you should be a rock.
- I refuse to chase. I will approach, I will show interest. But I will not play the “if you want me – chase me” game.
- I let them come and go. Often times they stop back in between boyfriends.
- If im no longer enjoying what a woman brings to the table – it’s “on to the next one”.
That’s about it.
- Work – I work in a call center. 80% of the employees where I work are collectors. Collectors have quotas. A lot of collectors can’t meet those quotas = A lot of collectors get fired. So, there’s a steady stream of faces, bodies, and breasts in and out... In the last 4 years – roughly 600 women have passed through the doors where I work. Only about 60 of them have been worth talking to – but I talk to them all. =)
- Social Circle – I have very few real friends, but a pretty full phone book. Women and men alike, who like to go out and like to have fun (not surprisingly – I’ve worked with most of them). I love going out with certain female friends because they always bring 6-7 other women with them. Gaming those women is beyond easy! Especially if they’ve gotten “warnings” about me and my womanizing ways.
#1 thing that gets me women - Sexuality
I’m EXTREMELY SEXUAL. Example from this week. A new woman was back in my area at work. She was sending me “vibes” that I was picking up. It started off as playful flirting. But I escalate quick(strike while the iron is hot!) I do not hide my desire to fvck! Somewhere in the conversation she said something like “I bet you wish I was back here to keep you company all the time, don’t you?” and I responded, “only if the whole place was empty so no one could hear your loud moans”. She d@mn near passed out in disbelief that I would say that!
We went deeper and deeper into sexual conversation. I told her about how a lot of times when I fvck a woman all night my abs hurt for days and im useless then. She said “well, why don’t you just do it once then instead of a bunch of times?”. I didn’t answer her question, I just asked her, “So you’d rather have once a night with me all week? Or you’d rather have all night with me once a week?” She said “both” with a sly @ss smile, but that’s irrelevant. It’s the way I phrased it to her. By the end she said, “im glad im leaving, you got me not able to think straight.” And this is nothing new! Women are not used to men who can turn them on so fast.
Some of you are familiar with the phrase “push-pull” and I do that with sexual talks. I lay it on, then in the next sentence – I’ll switch the subject to something a lot less interesting. What this does is keeps the sexual tension from peaking and collapsing. So I might talk for 5 minutes in a sexual way, then go 5 minutes talking about how she likes her job, then I’ll wait for her to set me up to move back into sexual talks, then once it hits it’s peak, I’ll bring it back down to some celebrity gossip or anything really (it’s irrelevant; it’s just filler until we get back to the sex talk)
#2 thing that gets me women – Comfort
This one is hard to explain, but basically – I can talk to a woman for 30 minutes and have her comfortable enough to tell me just about anything. This is the one gift I have from my nice guy days, because I am an incredible listener. I wish I could explain it more, but I can’t really. I would have to observe people and tell them what they’re doing wrong, but I often just let people talk and lead them into going deeper and deeper with me. And I never judge anything they say; instead I relate to it.
#3 thing that gets me women – My reputation (=curiosity)
I’ve seen some guys say “you don’t want the reputation of being a player/womanizer” on here and other boards. I think I would AGREE but only if you’re a good looking, successful man. Me? I pull a rating of about 4.5-5 on pic rating sites. NEVER in my life heard myself referred to as hot (although I get plenty of cute and handsome). I have an oval face, fat cheeks, skinny body, receding hair line, suffer from mild adult acne, and have an ugly scar on my neck. I do have a very nice “Fight Club/MMA” body, but I weigh 160 so NO ONE can tell I have a nice body unless im walking around with my shirt off. I also dress nice. But that does not make me HOT. Yet, I regularly get women’s interest; good looking women with incredible bodies.
And part of it is a cycle caused by my reputation as a womanizer and women’s curiosity. Curiosity? Yep, they wonder how a man like me (average looks, less than average income) can keep so many women in my life and have such a reputation. I’ve had women tell me that part of their attraction to me was being curious about just this. “I just wondered how you had all these women chasing after you. I thought you had a big d!ck or something.”
Do I? Nope.
#4 Poetry
I will perhaps post one of my poems in this thread at a later date. It’s not really sappy normal poetry. It’s not even rhyming poetry. In fact – a lot of it would be prose (stories structured in poetry form). Guess what most of my poems are about? Sex and women. I like to consider my poetry “alpha poetry”. It helps women get interested in me. I’ve also used it to gauge women’s intelligence. Most women who don’t get my poetry – are quickly NEXTed; I’ve come to learn it normally says something about our compatibility. On the flip side of that – I’ve seen women tear up reading my stuff, and that’s when I know they get it and then I give it.
This poet persona I have lets me get away with not being extremely active (“im a writer baby, I drink and write in most of my freetime”). Most dates I have with women take place in my apartment (I’ll get to this later). I’m pretty reclusive.
#5 I entertain
Because most of my dates take place at my house, and because I’m reclusive - I become the show! There’s only so much you can do in your house. I have to be charming, I have to have wit, I have to lead. I teach women how to play games; I cook; or we just talk for hours – letting the tension build. Something I never do? Watch movies or anything that takes the focus off us.
“Oh you don’t know how to play blackjack? I’m going to teach you, it’s easy.”
You don’t know how much fun you can have teaching a woman something. Normally, they’re a little slow at picking up stuff and ask stupid questions; so, it’s quite easy to tease and neg them.
Bottom line – when they’re in my apartment – they are getting a show. I am a performer, and they are too (in their own way) and when the show is good – everything else falls into place.
#6 sex…
This is how I believe im able to keep so many women. A woman can probably have more fun out at a bar with her girlfriends gossiping and getting hit on than she can sitting around with me. But what she can’t get from them is AMAZING sex.
I’ve theorized on here that Sex can be used as social status and can stand toe to toe with money and looks. I believe this 100%! And so much of what I do in life is based on being able to provide sex.
- I run two miles 4 times a week and play basketball regularly so that I don’t run out of breath easy.
- I eat a lot of sexual health foods. Blueberries, broccoli, watermelon, whole foods instead of processed, etc.
- I keep my weight down! When I get up to 180-190 – there’s a lot of things that hurt a woman that don’t hurt her when im 160.
- I take test boasters, eat lots of meats, lift heavy weights, and play contact sports whenever possible (including backyard boxing) – this keeps my testosterone up, which helps me go and go again and go again and go again…
- Finally, I write erotic stories…. Not to show to the world, but simply to keep my imagination in sex mode, and keep my brain as horny as my body…
I see a lot of guys talking about “amazing” sex with women. I always wonder if their amazing sex is the same as mine. Mine is when you make the woman not know if she’s cuming or going. You make her legs shake. You go 3-4 times and then pass out after she can’t take anymore.
A quick note on sex drive and amazing sex: If the woman has low sex drive (LSD) – there’s very little chance she can experience amazing sex with you. These women can normally only go 20 minutes, and normally aren’t very easy to turn on.
#7 Other stuff…
- I lead and lead and lead and lead some more.
- I RARELY contact women. I let them contact me.
- I do a lot of email/facebook/text game (that’s not supposed to work though Is it? Lol)
- I never lie about there being other women in my life, but I won’t go into too many details about them.
- I am available whenever im available! Meaning – some guys on here say to not be too available. My rule is: If you want to come over, text or call me and ask if you can… 90% of the time – im not doing anything, so when they ask – I tell them to come on over. If she’s been coming around too much and it’s affecting our relationship – THEN I will pull back, but no reason to do that when it’s going good.
- I do not have exclusive GFs. I have FBs and MLTRs (which is essentially more than one GF).
- I am romantic! And it works for me. Except I lay on the romance early on, but have learned that it loses it’s effect as the relationship progresses – so I pull it back after 5-6 months and only give it to her when she deserves it.
- I LIVE BY: Punish bad behavior, reward good behavior.
- I LIVE BY: The person who cares less controls the relationship.
- I RARELY let a woman seeing another man or trying to bring jealousy into a relationship effect me.
- Sometimes a woman wants a spanking! Sometimes anger and hardcore punishment is what a woman needs. It took me many years of trying to be the rock to realize this…. Sometimes nothing will turn a woman on more than you yelling at her. It’s just figuring out when is the best time versus when you should be a rock.
- I refuse to chase. I will approach, I will show interest. But I will not play the “if you want me – chase me” game.
- I let them come and go. Often times they stop back in between boyfriends.
- If im no longer enjoying what a woman brings to the table – it’s “on to the next one”.
That’s about it.
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