First, my mentality is that I can get any girl I want if I play my cards right, and if she doesn't want to get with me, then something is wrong with her. This helps me from getting depressed when I'm rejected.
I'm sure there's nothing new under the sun when it comes to the game...
How can I maintain my confident/sexual frame ALL THE TIME? Currently, I have to tell myself that I will be alpha, funny, sexual, etc. If I know that I'm going to a party, I psyche myself up. However, in my day to day activities...I'm a complete AFC in random interactions with women. For example, if a hot chick asks for the time, I would give her the time and that's it. I'm very witty and it annoys the **** out of me that I totally lose it in random situations.
How do the real players treat girls on the first "date"? How can I make a cheap date sound interesting? I'm kinda seeing a girl now (who's beginning to think I'm her boyfriend) but I'm still dating. I'm tired of spending $30+ on a date. That adds up when I have multiple dates in a month. Basically, when I'm meeting up with a girl for the first time, I want to know more about her (basically where she's at in life, and how she views sex) and see how quickly I can escalate to sex.
And lastly, would you say for the average guy (not a 6'2'' muscular dude, or Brad Pitt) must engage a girl in conversation to gauge her interest level and not read a girl from afar? I'm about a 7. I ****ed chicks on the first date (one chicked ****ed me at a nightclub without me even hinting at sex). I know that I'm not ugly, but no chick would call me hot or break their necks when I walk past. But more often than not, chicks generally seem cold to me. Should that bother me?
I'm sure there's nothing new under the sun when it comes to the game...
How can I maintain my confident/sexual frame ALL THE TIME? Currently, I have to tell myself that I will be alpha, funny, sexual, etc. If I know that I'm going to a party, I psyche myself up. However, in my day to day activities...I'm a complete AFC in random interactions with women. For example, if a hot chick asks for the time, I would give her the time and that's it. I'm very witty and it annoys the **** out of me that I totally lose it in random situations.
How do the real players treat girls on the first "date"? How can I make a cheap date sound interesting? I'm kinda seeing a girl now (who's beginning to think I'm her boyfriend) but I'm still dating. I'm tired of spending $30+ on a date. That adds up when I have multiple dates in a month. Basically, when I'm meeting up with a girl for the first time, I want to know more about her (basically where she's at in life, and how she views sex) and see how quickly I can escalate to sex.
And lastly, would you say for the average guy (not a 6'2'' muscular dude, or Brad Pitt) must engage a girl in conversation to gauge her interest level and not read a girl from afar? I'm about a 7. I ****ed chicks on the first date (one chicked ****ed me at a nightclub without me even hinting at sex). I know that I'm not ugly, but no chick would call me hot or break their necks when I walk past. But more often than not, chicks generally seem cold to me. Should that bother me?