Email Pick Up 1 (continued)
so I email the french girl today (she's 21 and like most girls I meet, taller than I am) with the following:
subject: have I told you how pretty I think you are?
body: well you are, very pretty.
the prettiest girl in France.
that was in the morning it's four days since I last talked to her I've received nothing.
I met her about two weeks ago. I approached her on the street while she was walking to someplace...
me: hi?
her: pauses.. hi (takes off her ear plugs)
me: how are you?
her: fine and you (in a think french accent)
me: fine thank you
note that we're walking then I stop she follows my lead and stops with me.
I make small talk tell her I like her accent and that I like her energy. I then put my hand hand out so she gives me hers then I start to read her palm. I see a freckle or birth mark on the palm of her hand then (I admit) I say some corny stuff, "this here means you're going to acheive all your dreams." she gives me a weird look but I remain unfazed and continue to read her palm then tell her to read mine. She does but is obvious she's just playing along. Anway, I notice that she's going with me touching her and not hesitating so then I ask if she was staying around here and she says she is so then I ask her if I can come visit her one day, she agrees. And I'll admit, I wasn't expecting it cause every time I've asked a girl that she's given a 'NO' answer but it never felt weird. In fact they take it normal as if having a guy come over to their place in commonplace.
So I get her email hold off 2 days until I email her that we should meet. When I do, she replies instantly..."Hey!Yes i can be good!let me know!" (actual message)
NOTE that I will be posting the actual replies women give me less any identifying information... I will hold very little back from you guys!
then I reply:
"I like your attitude. It's very attractive.
what's your address?
I can come over to your place tomorrow.
Looking forward to see you."
notice I try to go for the gold as quickly as possible by asking to come over there place without any first date. Hasn't worked yet.
four hours later she replies...
"Ahah!
I live in XXXX street ans XXXX but im in a homestay and i cannot have guest!
So maybe we can meet somewhere!
I give you my number its better i think XXX XXX XXXX
See you!"
so I'm thinking darn she either she was telling the truth or she didn't go for it! But I still felt happy anyway that we were exchanging messages (haven't have any real success since about two months ago when I met HB7 who I ended up not banging because I didn't have anywhere to take her... she even suggested I buy a car she really wanted it but had to drop her cause she had extra baggage: a 5 year old kid and some crazy dude who was stalking her who she use to bang so I was like HELL NO I am not risking being assassinated by some ex-crazy obsessed boyfriend ... puccy is not worth your safety.) I'm glad I qualified the girl firs ... something that I would have never done in my AFC days.
back to the story...
so then I think I messed up. here's what I sent her after
"Where will we foreplay??
OK, meet me outside the Starbucks/Barnes and Noble on XXXXXXXXXX at 3pm sharp today (Monday).
See you then, and don't be late."
I had doubts about asking her such a stupid question. I meant to be funny but I think it bac k fired on me because she took a day to answer...
"What is foreplay? [i think she was playing stupid here]
I dont think i could come today im kind of busy... sorry!"
"Fuvck!" I say to myself, "I screwed up."
30 minutes later I send her this:
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foreplay
just being funny though... don't take it too serious, it's too early for that anyway
I feel disappointed you can't meet me today.. I was looking forward to seeing you but looks like that won't happen
But since you're a cute French girl, I'll excuse it this time (so it's OK)
See you next time.
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well she never replies back so I decide to call her. No answer. I don't leave a message cause I'm too afraid I'll say something stupid or she'll be put off by my low toned, somewhat high pitched voice (I wish I had berry white's tone). I call her again a few hours later but nothing.
Why is it that we men get so worked up when women don't answer out calls? Well that's exactly what happed.. for some reason I felt she was ignoring my calls so I send an email saying that I don't know why she's not answering but I don't like it and I don't have time for it. Well, she replied about an hour later...
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Hey!
Im so sorry!
the first time I was on the shower and i didnt know the number so i didnt call back!
and tonight i was in the theater so i couldnt answer!
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I felt stupid.
so we start chatting via email for close to two hours. And it feels great (one reason why I like this game so much) cause I feel like we're vibing then I make a big mistake... I ask for her age she tells me then naturally she asks for mine!
remember I'm 28 and I'm thinking this girl might have a problem with it because she's only 21... to her it might be too old, I'm thinking. If she felt something for me then it would be different should could overlook the age difference but at this stage of the seduction it was just toooo risky I thought. And I think I was right because I never get an email from her again.
I'll admit. I got a little needy after I fear I made a mistake. The next day after not having received an email from her I call her to no avail she doesn't answer.
that was on the 16th today is the 19th... 4 days without a reply from her. In between that time I called and she answered... I immediately asked why she wasn't answering any of my emails. She said because she's been busy. She rushes me off the phone saying she can't talk and that she'll call me back later but she never does.
before right this post i sent her a second (for today) email
subject: I have a confession to make
body: I have a weakness for french girls
Honesty I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I'm hoping that by sending her these stupid emails she'll come around and start talking to me again before she takes off to france in about 3 months.
WOW this writing of field reports is really time consuming. I think I started writing this at 6:30 or 7pm it;s now almost 8:30 and I haven;t wrote much. I'm not sure it I'm going to make it to the end but I will try.
UPDATE
Email Pick Ups: 1 (even though I got it before I started this journal... sorry but I gotta give myself a push)
Still To Go: 99 (I won't count the actress... she never replied not even once.)