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Every January, I write a list and post in the tips section. This is year three for this series.
2008: 21 points of advice!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137507
2009: 22 points of advice!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=156347
Now for 2010, I thought I'd write 23 points of advice (# of points I write is my age.), but I switched it up.
I got 99 things that women find attractive for you fellas, and being a b**ch ain't one!
Geaux Saints! Super Bowl XLIV against the Indy Colts!
1. Well fitting shirts. Baggy shirts are out! Shirts should complement your body and show off your features. Now I’m not talking about spandex, but regular well fitting shirts. You know why suits look good? Because they are tailored to fit you perfectly. This is attractive to women.
2. A deep, commanding voice. Your voice says a lot about you, literally. The next time you strike up a chat with a woman, don’t sound squeaky.
3. Body posture. Within one second, just from how you stand, women will judge you as attractive or not. Good body posture indicates that you are a healthy mate and is very attractive to women. Lean back.
4. Human smell. Sweat, at a very basic level, is very attractive to women. It triggers feeling of arousal in women. However, don’t go too far and stink. That’s repelling.
5. Some light, musky cologne. These smells will mimic the natural smell that males produce and used lightly, will arouse some females.
6. Leadership. Being a leader is very attractive to women, it demonstrates social status and importance. Make decisions, lead the pack.
7. Being dominant. Women are naturally submissive, and men should be naturally dominant. Unfortunately with all our yoga classes and hormonal milk, this has changed in the past century.
8. Being dangerous. Danger is hot, exciting, energizing and can be very addictive. Women love the bad boy.
9. Being intelligent. Intelligence, demonstrated by high grades, an impressive line of studies or career is very attractive.
10. Being good with animals. Being good with living things indicates that you will be a good mate, capable of protecting and caring for any offspring you could potentially have. This is very attractive.
11. Being good with kids. Same as above.
12. Being genuinely interested in her. People love people whom are interested in them. If you genuinely want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive.
13. Being the best, in a group of men. If you are the best out of the competing men, then out of that group, you will be the most attractive to women.
14. Being disciplined. People want to be surrounded by competent individuals. If you are able to control yourself when she can’t, she will see you as having a lot of willpower. This demonstrates that you are in control of your life.
15. Not taking life too seriously. Having the gift to be able to laugh at life and embrace it as an enjoyable experience. You don’t have to think about marriage every time you talk to a girl.
16. Being positive. Positive people are attractive. If you can show her the sunny side of things, she will thank you for it.
17. Being a little selfish. Being slightly selfish indicates that you care a lot about yourself and your well being. This relates to confidence and importance which are attractive. Don’t be a martyr.
18. Being generous. The complete opposite of being selfish, being generous can be attractive as well because it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy. Note! Being generous does NOT mean you should buy things for people so they like you… this is not attractive. A good example of being generous would be, if you’re with friends, you could purchase the pitcher of drinks. This subconsciously communicates that you are in charge, dominant and wealthy.
19. Spontaneity. Very attractive, alludes to excitement.
20. Good hair. Having nice, healthy and well groomed hair shows that you take care of yourself.
21. Trimmed nails. Women notice, if you take care of yourself, she’ll appreciate it
22. A slight tan. These days, a tan indicates that you wealthy and physically healthy.
23. Relaxed attitude. Being relaxed shows a lot of confidence.
24. Being driven. If you know what you want in life, and you’re pursuing it, this is attractive.
25. Nice teeth. It is very important to have nice teeth, women think about it every time they consider kissing you.
26. Having nice possessions, such as a car, house or a boat. These indicate wealth, excitement and power, all of which are attractive.
27. A sense of adventure. If you’re curious about life, and are willing to take risks. You can lure her into your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits.
28. Honesty. Being able to speak the truth is difficult and shows that you have accepted who you are as a person. It also shows that you don’t care what others think, which is very attractive.
29. Whispering in her ear. The sense of secrecy, mysteriousness and excitement that comes from a whisper is very attractive.
30. Being busy. If you are busy, then you are important, independent and have a life.
31. Being a man. Women love men who do manly things, stop doing yoga and go play a sport, hit the gym and get dirty.
32. Having a nice butt. A sexy fitness indicator, attainable through the gym.
33. Pre-selection. If other women want you, then there must be a reason. Having many people want you makes you attractive. You aren’t a guy who has time to look at personals.
34. Being genuine. Say what you mean and do what you say. This is hard, but attractive.
35. Physically picking her up. Ever heard of sweeping her off her feet? This is it.
36. Touching her hair. There is something about having your hair touched that is relaxing and arousing at the same time.
37. A nice face. Women love men with an attractive face. That’s what she’ll be kissing and you better believe it makes a difference.
38. Originality. Women crave excitement, originality provides that. Seduction is never the same and being original is an essential part of it.
39. Experience. Maturity can be very arousing; if you know what you’re doing she’ll appreciate it and you’ll get laid more often.
40. Speaking to her true self. If you can see past the walls that most people put and truly speak to the real person inside of them, you’ll be one of the few that understands them. This makes you very important.
41. Independence. People don’t like neediness, being independent shows that you are self sufficient and can take care of yourself.
42. Teasing her. Playfulness, excitement, she loves it.
43. Composure. If you can keep your cool under stressful situations, she’ll notice.
44. Being selective. If you are selective, then it implies that you aren’t needy and are valuable enough to want many people want you.
45. Being challenging. Playing hard to get is as true for women as it is for men. People want what they can’t have, and if they have to work for something, they’ll appreciate it much more.
46. Focus. If you know what you want, and are determined to get it, then that’s attractive.
47. Modesty. No one likes a show-off. Being modest is great, and attractive. There is nothing better than a girl finding out something good about you through a friend.
48. Muscular abs. An indicator of health.
49. Being natural. If you’re genuine about how you feel, without caring what others think, then that’s attractive. You want to know if people can handle the real you.
50. Charismatic. If your spoken words and gestures can warm up a room, she’ll notice and be warmed up as well. If she doesn’t, her matchmaking friend will tell her about you.
51. Sensual. Some people are frigid and cold. Some people are warm and very alert to their senses. If you are in tune with your body, you’ll likely be in tune with hers as well.
52. A man that loves to have fun. Everyone wants to be around a guy who enjoys himself, be that guy.
53. Goes against the rest of society. No one likes a follower. If you have a conviction about something, stick with it. Make up your own mind about things and people will respect you.
54. Caring. Compassion and caring show that you will be a good father and is therefore very attractive.
55. Persistent. If you go after your goals, other will notice. This is very attractive as it shows will power that not many people have.
56. Being respected. If your entourage respects you, then she will as well.
57. Loyal. People do not want to get hurt, and will avoid you if aren’t loyal. It is better to remain single than to get into a relationship you don’t plan on staying in.
58. Romance. Spicing it up in a relationship is critical and attractive. Don’t always do the same thing because it will get boring really fast.
59. Drama. Ever wonder why women love soap operas? It is because they crave drama, gossip, secrets. It is exciting and attractive. If you have an eventful life, people will be attracted to it.
2008: 21 points of advice!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137507
2009: 22 points of advice!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=156347
Now for 2010, I thought I'd write 23 points of advice (# of points I write is my age.), but I switched it up.
I got 99 things that women find attractive for you fellas, and being a b**ch ain't one!
Geaux Saints! Super Bowl XLIV against the Indy Colts!
1. Well fitting shirts. Baggy shirts are out! Shirts should complement your body and show off your features. Now I’m not talking about spandex, but regular well fitting shirts. You know why suits look good? Because they are tailored to fit you perfectly. This is attractive to women.
2. A deep, commanding voice. Your voice says a lot about you, literally. The next time you strike up a chat with a woman, don’t sound squeaky.
3. Body posture. Within one second, just from how you stand, women will judge you as attractive or not. Good body posture indicates that you are a healthy mate and is very attractive to women. Lean back.
4. Human smell. Sweat, at a very basic level, is very attractive to women. It triggers feeling of arousal in women. However, don’t go too far and stink. That’s repelling.
5. Some light, musky cologne. These smells will mimic the natural smell that males produce and used lightly, will arouse some females.
6. Leadership. Being a leader is very attractive to women, it demonstrates social status and importance. Make decisions, lead the pack.
7. Being dominant. Women are naturally submissive, and men should be naturally dominant. Unfortunately with all our yoga classes and hormonal milk, this has changed in the past century.
8. Being dangerous. Danger is hot, exciting, energizing and can be very addictive. Women love the bad boy.
9. Being intelligent. Intelligence, demonstrated by high grades, an impressive line of studies or career is very attractive.
10. Being good with animals. Being good with living things indicates that you will be a good mate, capable of protecting and caring for any offspring you could potentially have. This is very attractive.
11. Being good with kids. Same as above.
12. Being genuinely interested in her. People love people whom are interested in them. If you genuinely want to know what makes her tick, this will be attractive.
13. Being the best, in a group of men. If you are the best out of the competing men, then out of that group, you will be the most attractive to women.
14. Being disciplined. People want to be surrounded by competent individuals. If you are able to control yourself when she can’t, she will see you as having a lot of willpower. This demonstrates that you are in control of your life.
15. Not taking life too seriously. Having the gift to be able to laugh at life and embrace it as an enjoyable experience. You don’t have to think about marriage every time you talk to a girl.
16. Being positive. Positive people are attractive. If you can show her the sunny side of things, she will thank you for it.
17. Being a little selfish. Being slightly selfish indicates that you care a lot about yourself and your well being. This relates to confidence and importance which are attractive. Don’t be a martyr.
18. Being generous. The complete opposite of being selfish, being generous can be attractive as well because it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy. Note! Being generous does NOT mean you should buy things for people so they like you… this is not attractive. A good example of being generous would be, if you’re with friends, you could purchase the pitcher of drinks. This subconsciously communicates that you are in charge, dominant and wealthy.
19. Spontaneity. Very attractive, alludes to excitement.
20. Good hair. Having nice, healthy and well groomed hair shows that you take care of yourself.
21. Trimmed nails. Women notice, if you take care of yourself, she’ll appreciate it
22. A slight tan. These days, a tan indicates that you wealthy and physically healthy.
23. Relaxed attitude. Being relaxed shows a lot of confidence.
24. Being driven. If you know what you want in life, and you’re pursuing it, this is attractive.
25. Nice teeth. It is very important to have nice teeth, women think about it every time they consider kissing you.
26. Having nice possessions, such as a car, house or a boat. These indicate wealth, excitement and power, all of which are attractive.
27. A sense of adventure. If you’re curious about life, and are willing to take risks. You can lure her into your world and she’ll be happy to follow you past her limits.
28. Honesty. Being able to speak the truth is difficult and shows that you have accepted who you are as a person. It also shows that you don’t care what others think, which is very attractive.
29. Whispering in her ear. The sense of secrecy, mysteriousness and excitement that comes from a whisper is very attractive.
30. Being busy. If you are busy, then you are important, independent and have a life.
31. Being a man. Women love men who do manly things, stop doing yoga and go play a sport, hit the gym and get dirty.
32. Having a nice butt. A sexy fitness indicator, attainable through the gym.
33. Pre-selection. If other women want you, then there must be a reason. Having many people want you makes you attractive. You aren’t a guy who has time to look at personals.
34. Being genuine. Say what you mean and do what you say. This is hard, but attractive.
35. Physically picking her up. Ever heard of sweeping her off her feet? This is it.
36. Touching her hair. There is something about having your hair touched that is relaxing and arousing at the same time.
37. A nice face. Women love men with an attractive face. That’s what she’ll be kissing and you better believe it makes a difference.
38. Originality. Women crave excitement, originality provides that. Seduction is never the same and being original is an essential part of it.
39. Experience. Maturity can be very arousing; if you know what you’re doing she’ll appreciate it and you’ll get laid more often.
40. Speaking to her true self. If you can see past the walls that most people put and truly speak to the real person inside of them, you’ll be one of the few that understands them. This makes you very important.
41. Independence. People don’t like neediness, being independent shows that you are self sufficient and can take care of yourself.
42. Teasing her. Playfulness, excitement, she loves it.
43. Composure. If you can keep your cool under stressful situations, she’ll notice.
44. Being selective. If you are selective, then it implies that you aren’t needy and are valuable enough to want many people want you.
45. Being challenging. Playing hard to get is as true for women as it is for men. People want what they can’t have, and if they have to work for something, they’ll appreciate it much more.
46. Focus. If you know what you want, and are determined to get it, then that’s attractive.
47. Modesty. No one likes a show-off. Being modest is great, and attractive. There is nothing better than a girl finding out something good about you through a friend.
48. Muscular abs. An indicator of health.
49. Being natural. If you’re genuine about how you feel, without caring what others think, then that’s attractive. You want to know if people can handle the real you.
50. Charismatic. If your spoken words and gestures can warm up a room, she’ll notice and be warmed up as well. If she doesn’t, her matchmaking friend will tell her about you.
51. Sensual. Some people are frigid and cold. Some people are warm and very alert to their senses. If you are in tune with your body, you’ll likely be in tune with hers as well.
52. A man that loves to have fun. Everyone wants to be around a guy who enjoys himself, be that guy.
53. Goes against the rest of society. No one likes a follower. If you have a conviction about something, stick with it. Make up your own mind about things and people will respect you.
54. Caring. Compassion and caring show that you will be a good father and is therefore very attractive.
55. Persistent. If you go after your goals, other will notice. This is very attractive as it shows will power that not many people have.
56. Being respected. If your entourage respects you, then she will as well.
57. Loyal. People do not want to get hurt, and will avoid you if aren’t loyal. It is better to remain single than to get into a relationship you don’t plan on staying in.
58. Romance. Spicing it up in a relationship is critical and attractive. Don’t always do the same thing because it will get boring really fast.
59. Drama. Ever wonder why women love soap operas? It is because they crave drama, gossip, secrets. It is exciting and attractive. If you have an eventful life, people will be attracted to it.
You'll have to see! Stay tuned!