Ok so anyone having trouble with building confidence read this.
As you know, it is very easy to think "I'm going to be confident" but it is extremely hard to actually be confident. You have failed at many things in life, not many things have really worked out for you, and you rarely succeed at whatever you try. This makes it very difficult to wake up and expect that your body and mind will act the same as the body and mind of a succesful, confident man. How can you be confident when your selfesteem is so low?
Well the answer to build confidence is to Be Positive.
But R0cky, you say, how can I be positive when there are so many negative things going on in my life?
heres how: For today and tomorrow you must only think positive thoughts. This requires that all negative thoughts be recognised and eliminated from your head. If anything bothers you, eliminate it from your mind. Worries, sadness, fears, anger, frustrations, anxiety, all must be eliminated. Oh, and feelings that begin with "I dont want.." count as negative thoughts, like "I dont want to be alone tonight". You will be amazed at how much negativity your mind holds. Replace these negative thoughts with apreciation of anything you posses, friends, job, abilities, etc. Think of all the things that bring you happiness. It may be hard but remember you have to do it only for today and tomorrow!
Ok so you're becoming a positive thinker, now lets try something to give you confidence.
Wish for something. Just ask the universe for something that can come true right away. For example, ask for finding a sweet parking spot today, or ask for your test to be easy, or to get a sit on the train, heck ask to get a hot girl to sit next to you in your next class.
The next step is believeing that this will happen. Just sit back and think "I'm confident I will find a close parking spot", and have no doubt that this will happen. Act like its already there. Trust in the power of positive thinking.
Unless you have doubts, your wish will come true. If it didn't happen feel free to message me and I can help you.
Once you've gotten enough wishes to know that this is not coincidence, you will be feeling confident. Because now you know how to attain anything you want. You may go ahead and ask for more. Wish for a fun night, a phone call from that someone, a job interview. As they come true, you will feel more confident, and you can ask for even more. This is my secret to how I have become a confident person and how I have improved my life in a few days.
Now, at the beginning I said you had to do this for today and tomorrow only. But when your wishes are coming reality at your command, why stop?
Go ahead ask for bigger and better things, the bigger, the longer they may take, but have confidence they will happen!
As you know, it is very easy to think "I'm going to be confident" but it is extremely hard to actually be confident. You have failed at many things in life, not many things have really worked out for you, and you rarely succeed at whatever you try. This makes it very difficult to wake up and expect that your body and mind will act the same as the body and mind of a succesful, confident man. How can you be confident when your selfesteem is so low?
Well the answer to build confidence is to Be Positive.
But R0cky, you say, how can I be positive when there are so many negative things going on in my life?
heres how: For today and tomorrow you must only think positive thoughts. This requires that all negative thoughts be recognised and eliminated from your head. If anything bothers you, eliminate it from your mind. Worries, sadness, fears, anger, frustrations, anxiety, all must be eliminated. Oh, and feelings that begin with "I dont want.." count as negative thoughts, like "I dont want to be alone tonight". You will be amazed at how much negativity your mind holds. Replace these negative thoughts with apreciation of anything you posses, friends, job, abilities, etc. Think of all the things that bring you happiness. It may be hard but remember you have to do it only for today and tomorrow!
Ok so you're becoming a positive thinker, now lets try something to give you confidence.
Wish for something. Just ask the universe for something that can come true right away. For example, ask for finding a sweet parking spot today, or ask for your test to be easy, or to get a sit on the train, heck ask to get a hot girl to sit next to you in your next class.
The next step is believeing that this will happen. Just sit back and think "I'm confident I will find a close parking spot", and have no doubt that this will happen. Act like its already there. Trust in the power of positive thinking.
Unless you have doubts, your wish will come true. If it didn't happen feel free to message me and I can help you.
Once you've gotten enough wishes to know that this is not coincidence, you will be feeling confident. Because now you know how to attain anything you want. You may go ahead and ask for more. Wish for a fun night, a phone call from that someone, a job interview. As they come true, you will feel more confident, and you can ask for even more. This is my secret to how I have become a confident person and how I have improved my life in a few days.
Now, at the beginning I said you had to do this for today and tomorrow only. But when your wishes are coming reality at your command, why stop?
Go ahead ask for bigger and better things, the bigger, the longer they may take, but have confidence they will happen!