I am an introverted, pretty quiet, very reserved guy. I have had girls say that I was "stand offish", "I never know how you feel", "I can't read you", etc. I almost never initiate contact with girls that I'm dating because I don't really feel like I need to. They always contact me first.
I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. The entire time we've been dating, I haven't initiated contact once. She instant messaged me a couple days ago and said "I feel like if I didn't talk to you I wouldn't see you for days" or something like that. I just laughed it off by joking about how I would get hungry after a couple days (she cooks for me a lot).
But I'm hearing things like this from girls a lot. I know you have to strike a balance between being too aloof and too needy, but how do I know if I'm leaning too far toward the latter?
I've been dating this girl for about a month and a half. The entire time we've been dating, I haven't initiated contact once. She instant messaged me a couple days ago and said "I feel like if I didn't talk to you I wouldn't see you for days" or something like that. I just laughed it off by joking about how I would get hungry after a couple days (she cooks for me a lot).
But I'm hearing things like this from girls a lot. I know you have to strike a balance between being too aloof and too needy, but how do I know if I'm leaning too far toward the latter?