How to's: How to pick up girls in your class...(100% Success rate)

In College, it's easy as hell. I'm a frosh and it's easy as hell to talk to chicks in your class. It's even easier when it's early in the semester. Here are some real life examples of some of my situations..

(During Class after students were called up to get tests, girl sitting behind me is sexy as hell)

After she gets her test and sits down....

Me: How did you do? (really enthusiastic like I already know her

Her: I got an A, what about you.

Me: I got a C, I see you must have studied hard huh..

Her: Yeah, I was up all night bla, bla, bla

(We ended up studying together for the next test)

Asking how a girl did on her test is a great Ice breaker b/c it's so harmless. No girl has ever gotten mad at me for asking how she did on a test and I always ask that to break the ice.

Or..If it's you walking real fast after class and you sense that you're gonna pass the girl up, just ask how she's doing.

then you can follow up with....


"Excuse me, can I walk with you?"
or "can I walk with you to your car?"

How are you doing in the class so far?
What's your name? Do you wanna know my name?Where are you from?
Where do you stay?
So what are you about to do?
How did you do on that test?
Talk about the teacher, like say stuff like, "he's cool" or "he's strict" or whatever.
How was your weekend?
I bet you didn't even study this weekend huh?
"hey what's up"
"how are ya"
"have you started studyin' for the final"
"how did you do in psychology"
"What's your name by the way"
If she looks foreign, "What nationality are you"

Or on the first day of class after the weekend, you can "accidentally" sit by her and say a casual "what's up girl", "How was your weekend", "did you go to that frat party, MAN IT WAS TIGHT" (show emotion when you say that, even if you didn't even go to the party.

Heres a funny one that you have to have some guts to pull off

Walking behind her, go up to her and put your hand behind her back and start talking like you know her, then as soon as you look at her say
"Oh $hit, my bad, I thought you were my girlfriend, my fault" and look really sincere too. They usually giggle at that.

I'll make that a separate tip.

If the conversation ever starts to go dull, just say "I'm about to head on out, so I'll talk to you later", "well, I'll see you later"

And these are just Ice breakers, you can take the conversation in any direction you want to after that.



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Always remember to GET HER NUMBER! Apart from that, great post!

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Great post! A lot of these questions have come up lately. Hitting on college girls is SO easy, I can't believe these guys are having a hard time taking advantage of it. I think your post will really help.

Mind if I include this post in a larger piece I'm working on?

T Dog

Originally posted by T Dog:
Great post! A lot of these questions have come up lately. Hitting on college girls is SO easy, I can't believe these guys are having a hard time taking advantage of it. I think your post will really help.

Mind if I include this post in a larger piece I'm working on?


T Dog

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Be my guest T-Dog. I just had to do this piece after seeing all the posts of people wih problems on how to talk to girls in their class.

Look for some more How to's in the future.

Tips Forum.

Question, how do you separate yourself from all the other guys who ask, what's your major, what classes you're taking etc?

Originally posted by StuartScott:
Walking behind her, go up to her and put your hand behind her back and start talking like you know her, then as soon as you look at her say
"Oh $hit, my bad, I thought you were my girlfriend, my fault" and look really sincere too. They usually giggle at that.

I'll make that a separate tip.

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Thanks! I'm going to use that! I don't think I will be able to look sincere while doing it, but it may work anyway.

I'm looking forward to your follow up tip. Do you have some technique to make the approach look sincere?

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/Turbobird

Originally posted by StuartScott:
In College, it's easy as hell. I'm a frosh and it's easy as hell to talk to chicks in your class. It's even easier when it's early in the semester. Here are some real life examples of some of my situations..

(During Class after students were called up to get tests, girl sitting behind me is sexy as hell)

After she gets her test and sits down....

Me: How did you do? (really enthusiastic like I already know her

Her: I got an A, what about you.

Me: I got a C, I see you must have studied hard huh..

Her: Yeah, I was up all night bla, bla, bla

(We ended up studying together for the next test)

Asking how a girl did on her test is a great Ice breaker b/c it's so harmless. No girl has ever gotten mad at me for asking how she did on a test and I always ask that to break the ice.

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I don't think that would work all the time, meaning if I got an A+ on my test it might sound like I'm bragging by asking her what she got and expecting her to ask me back. I use to ask this in the past more out of curiosity, but since my grades are usually pretty high I feel bad about asking, especially if it turns out they recieved a ****ty grade.

Come to think of it, why is a DJ getting C's anyways!? Work on your mind and not just your moves.

hehe Stuart, nice post! i really liked the last tip!

Originally posted by Drew:

Question, how do you separate yourself from all the other guys who ask, what's your major, what classes you're taking etc?

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You separate yourself from all the others by the MOOD you create from those types of questions. Those types of questions are used mainly because of the context of the approach/conversation. In this case, you two are in college, and thus it would be natural to start out talking about college…and making things seem “natural” is one of the major components in making her feel more comfortable talking and expressing her feelings.

But doesn’t everybody start out that way? Yes, many guys do, however women weed out the chumps from the pimps by the way in which guys respond to and use their responses. This is where improvisation comes into play aka. Pimpin. The key to sweeping her off her feet is to create a playful and slightly sexual mood by the types of follow up questions and comments you say during the body of the approach/conversation.

Here’s an short example of creating the type of playful mood that gets their panties wet; this will focus on the subject/question of her major…

You: What’s your major?

Her: Psychology

You: What made you decide to major in Psychology?

Her: Well I was going to major in Political Science but I decided to major in Psychology instead. [She used a little mystery on you there]

You: You look more like the Political Science type. [These are the type of key comments that lead the original witty conversation]

Most women will respond with…

Her: Why do you think that? [Her interest has been sparked and she is now starting to think more in sexual terms]

You: Well you don’t look like the Psychology type. [You’re the one who’s now using the mystery]

Now this is where you’ll start to see a change in her attitude and she will become more open and enthusiastic when talking to you. This also usually brings out their playful side and she will make an effort to keep the conversation in whichever mood that you have established. Remember, the types of things she tells you mainly depend on the state or mood she is in or is put in. The more original and spontaneous her comments are, the easier it is to keep the conversation in any state you wish.

StuartScott, the list of questions you have are excellent to start out with when in a college environment, the only exception is the “Do you wanna know my name?” question. You need to either wait for her to ask, or you introduce yourself when you ask for her name…usually in the beginning of the approach.

Dr.


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Originally posted by Drew:
Tips Forum.

Question, how do you separate yourself from all the other guys who ask, what's your major, what classes you're taking etc?

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First of all, I don't ask "what's your major" unless it just comes up in the conversation but when you ask how you separate yourself, that's just how you do it, by talking to the girls.

How often do you see all the guys in the class talking to that one fine a$$ chick in class, I don't, maybe on campus but definitely not in class. I remember having an english class where I promise, the finest white girl that I've ever laid my eyes on was in my class, she was Italian-American, (I made a post a LONG, LONG time ago about it, I think it's been erased)
and I'm black, I was the only black guy in my class. Everyone knew she was fine but only ONE other dude in my class talked to her, maybe 2 and that was only at the beginning of the semester and during a group project for the other one. All I did was say what's up to her in the cafeteria one day (That was it)and then she was nice to me from then on.

ALl I did was say "What's up Jessica" then she said "hey", that was it, then after that I would talk to her or she would talk to me (like the next time after that, she came up to me and started talking to me) and hug her or whatever.

Check it out, I transferred to another college but I went back up to my old College during spring break and chilled at her dorm for a while and all these other girls remembered me and gave me hugs (gave me a lot of love) and I promise, for the most part, all I said to break the Ice was "how are you" then proceeded to small talk with them and then we were cool the rest of the year. I got 5 phone numbers over the 3 days I was there.

I don't mean to ramble on but I'm just saying, that's how you separate yourself from the other shy guys....by talking to them.

Now to answer your question in general, to separate yourself from the other folks that talk to her depends on the way you talk to the girl. Don't go up to that same girl everyday asking the same boring @$$ questions like "how did you do on that quiz", "how did you do on that essay", "how did you do on that group project", She will start getting irritated , One time before I knew how to really keep a conversation going (a long time ago), I blew it with this one girl that liked me by asking those same DUMB@$$ questions. She started giving me the cold shoulder after a while. I tried to figure out what went wrong but I didn't figure it out until I talked to this one girl and she told me that Girls don't like it when you ask the same boring questions all the time It's okay if it's part of the conversation but just don't talk about that, wheres the fun in that. Talk about stuff like, what clubs do you go to, do you have a man, or just by being funny
what kind of man do you go after, Have you ever been with a black man before, when can I spend the night at your house, or go up to her and say "How's my baby doing", stuff like that is what separates you from the other folks.

Like one time with this Latin chick, I started talking to her about spring break, like what she did, then all of a sudden I asked her if she ever went to Cancun over the break (Cuz she said she's been to Mexico), she said no, then I started talking to her about how I see it on TV with half naked girls everywhere not giving a phuck and how I wish to go sometime, then she started talking about how they are a little to wild for her out there, then I started taliing about how you only live once and you can't knock it till you try it (going to Cancun, getting wild and drunk over the break)and then I started talking to her about how boring she was and she started denying it, then I started saying she was boring that she has no fun, then after a couple of minutes she opened up, saying she does crazy things like how she made a porno with one of her guy friends in high school, I was like, "I gotta see that one" then she said she burned it....you know what I mean, stuff like that that keeps the convo interesting not stuff like "Well, I got a B on my first test and an A on my last one so I think I'm getting the hang of the subject" Thats boring...

PEace.

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StuartScott, the list of questions you have are excellent to start out with when in a college environment, the only exception is the “Do you wanna know my name?” question. You need to either wait for her to ask, or you introduce yourself when you ask for her name…usually in the beginning of the approach.

Dr.


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I don't know about you but that "Do you wanna know my name?" question works wonders for me. It basically weeds out whose interested and whose not if you ask me.

When I ask a girl what her name is, they usually say their name and ask me my name about 99% of the time. A couple of times, the girl never said anything after she said her name, maybe she was shy or whatver but when I say "Do you wanna know my name?" they usually say "What is it?" I'm not just gonna say my name without them not wanting to know it you know.

Stuart, the reason why you don’t ask them if they want to know your name is because it shows them that you’re not confident enough to just tell them your name if they don’t ask you quickly enough. Saying “Do you wanna know my name?" is one of those questions she can’t say “no” to…she’ll say yes whether she’s interested or not, so you might as well just tell her. It comes to the same outcome no matter what. The only difference is that one way shows confidence and the other way does not. Take it from me Stuart, the experience is there, I make an effort to approach on average 7 women a week just for practice even though I’m already involved in multiple relationships. I can tell your experience is there too, but if you want to perfect your skills, you’ll have to be on point with all aspects of your game.

Dr.

Originally posted by Turbobird:
Thanks! I'm going to use that! I don't think I will be able to look sincere while doing it, but it may work anyway.

I'm looking forward to your follow up tip. Do you have some technique to make the approach look sincere?

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When I say look sincere, I mean look like you actually really thought that she was your girl, like don't laugh or look goofy when you do it.

Like after you do it. look at her reaction for a second. If she looks all serious like a B!tch, then leave her be, but if she laughs or whatever, follow up with something like this

You: (Approaching her)Dang, I've been looking for you all.....Oops, my bad, I thought you were my girl..

Her: giggling

You: (Looking at her reaction)No for real, from the back, you look like this girl I know........What's your name anyway (or you're cute/pretty just like her)....
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There you have it.....

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I got a high school girls number on Friday using the same strategy.

This is biblical material. Moderators, how about it?

Man, I wanna go back to uni!

nice stuff StuartScott
i will employ some of this when i go to uni