What shud i do?

This is the situation guyz,

Im seeing this russian girl and weve been on one date which turned out well.

The problem is my twin brother also went on a date with her best friend n he it was ****ed up, they had the worse time.

Now, recently, ive talked to her n she hasnt been very responsive.
But then im gettin pissed so i tell her straight up if she wants to chill or not?

She tells me she does, but theres a reason why shes pulling back. She tells me shes shocked bout wat my brother did on the date, n he offended her best friend without apologising.

Afterwards she tells me if i wanna see her again my bro needs to apologise to her best friend.

So i reply, that okay.. ill talk to him but u need to promise me 2 things... 1 u wont compare me with ma bro, n 2 u dnt even bring him in our relationship.

Honestly guys, i wanna see her agian... but i also know that bro's come before ho's.

so help me out here....

just a lil additional info: my bro said her friend was a total ***** on their date.

hate girls when they stick together like that. Maybe insecurities.

Anyway... I have to just be straight up, "I'm not my brother, and what he does shouldnt affect me or what your decision to chill with me. I can ask him, but can't make him he is his own person"

If she doesnt, that forget it and move on. Afterall, if she DOES like you and lets this hold her back, that's just her loss.

Spade said:

This is the situation guyz,

Im seeing this russian girl and weve been on one date which turned out well.

The problem is my twin brother also went on a date with her best friend n he it was ****ed up, they had the worse time.

Now, recently, ive talked to her n she hasnt been very responsive.
But then im gettin pissed so i tell her straight up if she wants to chill or not?

She tells me she does, but theres a reason why shes pulling back. She tells me shes shocked bout wat my brother did on the date, n he offended her best friend without apologising.

Afterwards she tells me if i wanna see her again my bro needs to apologise to her best friend.

So i reply, that okay.. ill talk to him but u need to promise me 2 things... 1 u wont compare me with ma bro, n 2 u dnt even bring him in our relationship. This is very good that you stood your ground and mentioned this, but I have more to say below

Honestly guys, i wanna see her agian... but i also know that bro's come before ho's.

so help me out here....

just a lil additional info: my bro said her friend was a total ***** on their date.

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DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH ANY OF THIS CRAP. You have to tell this girl that your brother is a completely different person, and what he does with girls and what you do with girls are two very different things that neither of you get involved with the others business. Tell her that you will NOT accept being dragged into this drama, and that next time she wants to hang out, she has to let you know.

I would mention this situation VERY briefly to your bro, but DO NOT force him to apologize just so you can start seeing this girl again. That is very pathetic, and quite AFC. If he thinks she was being a b*tch, then just let it be. DO NOT get into big conversations with this girl about what happened, and you HAVE to tell her straight up and honestly that the next time she wants to hang out, SHE HAS TO LET YOU KNOW. Let her come back to you. DO NOT let her pull you on a string like this and leave you hanging.

What this girl is doing is putting her best friend before her "boyfriend". Not good at all. YOU have to be the main guy, NOT her friend.

Is this your actual bro, or a "bro"

Is this your actual bro, or a "bro"

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hes actually my brother