Accension
Senior Don Juan
This guide is designed to help the inexperienced and those that use this place for help.
The issues in this post include:
Incoporate this in your game or you will always be dependant on other people for insight.
Unbiased self assessment is hard to do, some aren't even confident enough in themselves that they'll 'get it right'.
This is more complicated by the individuals emotions.
2. Identify HER problem and how it relates to you.
Wow, this one is huge.
Half the threads on this site would disappear if posters followed this guide.
What every one here has to realise, is that if the girl is giving you problems it's not your buisness to be trying to 'fix it'.
This means, have standards and boundaries so that you aren't a classical poster trying to 'fix it' when there are plenty of functional women.
Take this absolutely typical example:
Including:
My point being, running around with your tool-box of DJ tools trying to fix a broken girl is pointless.
Almost every guy here does that, they persist and persist when they could actually be persisting with a girl WORTH THE CHASE.
This is huge, ask your self 'Hmm, this girl is giving me trouble. Who's the one at fault here?'
Look at your self.
Did you stand her up, did you not return her calls, do you take forever to reply to her messages, are you always busy, are you flirty with other girls in front of her, do you mention other girls?
How, about her?
Every god-dam thing that annoys you about her, which people make threads about trying to 'fix' as if it's their fault needs to answer this question truthfully.
3. Lastly, address your issues and hers; THEN make a thread.
By now you've decided if this girl is even worth chasing.
From the issues you have identified, you can see that they are not unique in the slightest.
You will find hundreds upon hundreds of threads addressing your concerns.
You will also find that half the time, was wasted time, on a cra7py girl but because you have no others..
You don't want to lose her and will therefore waste lots of energy on 'fixing it'.
Every one here needs to concentrate on abundance.
Now is your issue unique? Is she worth it?; Yes, yes.
Ok one last thing before your thread:
*sigh*.
- Identify your problem.
Im essence Trent used to be a nice guy and two years later he's less of a nice guy and has a previous failed-plate interested in him.trent81 said:
The issues in this post include:
- Possibly having only one girl in rotation; 'Now how do I play this so that she keeps having sex with me?'.
- Inexperience, particularly sexually; ' I am really bad at this part.'
- Sticking points; 'I can get a girl into bed a few times but keeping them, is another story.'
Incoporate this in your game or you will always be dependant on other people for insight.
Unbiased self assessment is hard to do, some aren't even confident enough in themselves that they'll 'get it right'.
This is more complicated by the individuals emotions.
2. Identify HER problem and how it relates to you.
Wow, this one is huge.
Half the threads on this site would disappear if posters followed this guide.
What every one here has to realise, is that if the girl is giving you problems it's not your buisness to be trying to 'fix it'.
This means, have standards and boundaries so that you aren't a classical poster trying to 'fix it' when there are plenty of functional women.
Take this absolutely typical example:
Beside the guy being needy and obviously having no other plates in rotation, the girl is actually the one at fault here.909pua said:
Including:
- 'Then recently she started acting weird like she don't wanna kick it with me anymore.'
My point being, running around with your tool-box of DJ tools trying to fix a broken girl is pointless.
Almost every guy here does that, they persist and persist when they could actually be persisting with a girl WORTH THE CHASE.
This is huge, ask your self 'Hmm, this girl is giving me trouble. Who's the one at fault here?'
Look at your self.
Did you stand her up, did you not return her calls, do you take forever to reply to her messages, are you always busy, are you flirty with other girls in front of her, do you mention other girls?
How, about her?
Every god-dam thing that annoys you about her, which people make threads about trying to 'fix' as if it's their fault needs to answer this question truthfully.
3. Lastly, address your issues and hers; THEN make a thread.
By now you've decided if this girl is even worth chasing.
From the issues you have identified, you can see that they are not unique in the slightest.
You will find hundreds upon hundreds of threads addressing your concerns.
You will also find that half the time, was wasted time, on a cra7py girl but because you have no others..
You don't want to lose her and will therefore waste lots of energy on 'fixing it'.
Every one here needs to concentrate on abundance.
Now is your issue unique? Is she worth it?; Yes, yes.
Ok one last thing before your thread:
- Only include relevant information.
- Include specifics.
- Try to write with proper spelling and grammar; paragraphs!
- Don't write a word-pasta (this thread is an example).
- And take the advice that seems the most beneficial, not the easiest and most compatible with your emotions (I mean we aren't women).
*sigh*.
