Although I don't pretend to have all of the answers when it comes to women, I think I have obtained a pretty good grasp of the way things work when it comes to the mating game.
When I first found sosuave it was like wisdom pouring down from the heavens, purging me of the toxic sludge that had been building up in my psyche since I was a wee tot. It was quite refreshing, because although I had long since discovered the "secrets" of money, the secrets of women still eluded me. When I was growing up I was not taught the ways of women. It was like everything was now coming together.
At first I was like a sponge soaking up the vast amounts of information, filling in many of the pieces of the puzzle that had been keeping me from understanding my mistakes I was making when dealing with women. The words of Pook and Anti-Dump (among others) rang true and I knew i was on the path to enlightenment.
As time went on I made it a point to observe women's behavior through the stories of others and through my own experiences. I was fascinated by the psychology behind male/female interactions, and I would deliberately place myself in situations in order to more closely observe certain behaviors from a btter vantage point.
During this time I was also going through changes in my life. I worked as a bartender through my mid 20's, but dabbled in real estate and business until becoming fully self employed before age 30.
By the time I reached my mid 30's my business dealings were beginning to pay off. I found myself transitioning from the guy who women wanted to marry for his ambitious personality, to the guy women wanted to fukk for his alpha swagger, to the guy women wanted little to do when he faced an extremely challenging time in his life.
Having been both rich and poor, happy and depressed, slightly out of shape and fairly buff, a bartender and an entrepreneur, I had the privilege of experiencing both the best and the worst of human nature.
Which brings me to the point of this post....
Lately I have been getting frustrated. I feel like the kid in the Sixth Sense, like I can see stuff that other people can't see. It is as if I have seen things that I cannot "unsee". I feel as if I have outgrown sosuave. It's as if there exists some sort of dogma that men have adopted either due to the need to hold onto faith or more likely, a lack of perspective.
I have read some material written by guys from the PUA community who seem to corroborate many of my own observations of women.
I started thinking about this and came to the conclusion that only men who have been in the position of seeing women from many different angles have the perspective that allows them to know women for what they really are.
The only two things that seem to give men the proper perspective are-
1) Game
The guys who have the ABILITY to attract and bed many different women, from meek librarians to skanky bar trash, have witnessed women for what they are.
2) Wealth/Power
A corollary of game (or vice-versa) wealth and/or power has the potential to expose a man to an entirely different side of human nature.
What I propose is that unless you have seen women through the lens of wealth and power and/or "game", you haven't really seen women for who they really are.
I'm not trying to insult anyone here. It just seems like the guys who have seen women from many different angles have a much better perspective from which to formulate opinions on the nature of women.
Thoughts?
When I first found sosuave it was like wisdom pouring down from the heavens, purging me of the toxic sludge that had been building up in my psyche since I was a wee tot. It was quite refreshing, because although I had long since discovered the "secrets" of money, the secrets of women still eluded me. When I was growing up I was not taught the ways of women. It was like everything was now coming together.
At first I was like a sponge soaking up the vast amounts of information, filling in many of the pieces of the puzzle that had been keeping me from understanding my mistakes I was making when dealing with women. The words of Pook and Anti-Dump (among others) rang true and I knew i was on the path to enlightenment.
As time went on I made it a point to observe women's behavior through the stories of others and through my own experiences. I was fascinated by the psychology behind male/female interactions, and I would deliberately place myself in situations in order to more closely observe certain behaviors from a btter vantage point.
During this time I was also going through changes in my life. I worked as a bartender through my mid 20's, but dabbled in real estate and business until becoming fully self employed before age 30.
By the time I reached my mid 30's my business dealings were beginning to pay off. I found myself transitioning from the guy who women wanted to marry for his ambitious personality, to the guy women wanted to fukk for his alpha swagger, to the guy women wanted little to do when he faced an extremely challenging time in his life.
Having been both rich and poor, happy and depressed, slightly out of shape and fairly buff, a bartender and an entrepreneur, I had the privilege of experiencing both the best and the worst of human nature.
Which brings me to the point of this post....
Lately I have been getting frustrated. I feel like the kid in the Sixth Sense, like I can see stuff that other people can't see. It is as if I have seen things that I cannot "unsee". I feel as if I have outgrown sosuave. It's as if there exists some sort of dogma that men have adopted either due to the need to hold onto faith or more likely, a lack of perspective.
I have read some material written by guys from the PUA community who seem to corroborate many of my own observations of women.
I started thinking about this and came to the conclusion that only men who have been in the position of seeing women from many different angles have the perspective that allows them to know women for what they really are.
The only two things that seem to give men the proper perspective are-
1) Game
The guys who have the ABILITY to attract and bed many different women, from meek librarians to skanky bar trash, have witnessed women for what they are.
2) Wealth/Power
A corollary of game (or vice-versa) wealth and/or power has the potential to expose a man to an entirely different side of human nature.
What I propose is that unless you have seen women through the lens of wealth and power and/or "game", you haven't really seen women for who they really are.
I'm not trying to insult anyone here. It just seems like the guys who have seen women from many different angles have a much better perspective from which to formulate opinions on the nature of women.
Thoughts?
