FR/VR:"Epic" Field Report (Transformation pt 2.) 3/29/09

Solomon

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This Fr is dedicated to Shezz!! you the standard for the field report man, "sarge on"!!! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

Intro: "Can Solo bounce back after a rough night?"

It was a rough night, I was sitting in my car. This chick I met on POF basically rejected me after our second date, I talked about my x, said a bit to much, shoulda kept my mouth shut, arrrrrghhhh. It stung, I mean yeah I didn't give a shhht but rejection still stings mayn, I can't lie about that. I'm in my car telling Kbot what happened, it sucks you gotta move on, my state and frame are all ****ed up, can i gain it back? I don't Know. I listen to some tunes to get me in the zone. I remember what A-unit said, so I put that Ne-yo "Boyfriend" on blast (aka The players song)


The Start Up


I always go to this bar to get things popping, I see this kid I use to be cool with. I open him up, him and his cousin "Culo" (lol in Spanish that means ass, but he aint spansih hah ah) his cousin is from Tampa Florida, we decided to go to this club that I was skeptical about, boy was I wrong. The first set Culo opens, he waves us over, we social proof him and wing for him, there some other chicks, the chick I'm dancing with is cool, but can't dance to save her life lol, the set goes nowhere. We all just cheesing Culo buys me a drink (that's love man), and one thing he tells me which alters my state is "have fun man, don't worry about chicks" I really needed to hear that, after that I see this chick, tall thick (not fat) nice ass, I open her up, by basically going in non-verbal and just dancing. It's fun her friends are digging me too, and are snapping flicks of us dancing. I give her a qualifier/**** test, she can't remember my name and keeps reinnarating that she isn't drunk. We dancing having a good time, her friend is actually feeling one of my boys, but he is being chodish, just standing there like an AFC(he did number close later though after I said something, geez). The teacher (the girl I'm dancing with, and yes she is a teacher lol) and I take a flick and Kiss close her, I spend a lot of time on that set (it musta been a 10 set total, just chicks) I keep building rapport/comfort so they know who I am(also stealing kisses here and there :cool: ). It came to a point that I couldn't open any other set in the club or......

Girl number 2
I would have gotton in trouble, plus I put in lot of time in that set. I go outside there are these fatties who are celebrating a birthday. They have a room at one of the hottest hotels in the city (five star) and want us to come party with them. They wanna hook us up with V.I.P wrist bands. I'm like sure why not? but my buddies wanna leave, and ain't feeling the situation, I don't blame them, but I just want the wrist bands not the fatties lol. This girl lets call her blondie, is standing there, she looks at me, I look at her, she walks down, I wave her over, my buddies are still tripping about us being there. Culo and I are sort of talking to her, I just say **** and go in for the kiss close

http://en.sevenload.com/videos/Lq1KWnH-Solomon-Kissing-on-the-field
^^:rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

Now I'm amped, my energy level is in another stratosphere, I number close her, and we keep it moving

Girl number 3

Kbot and Eric met us later on (read Transformation part 1, if you wanna know who they are) We at this other "hot" club, but it's eeeh. However, when I walk in, there are two girls by the stairs, they see me, I see them we connect just like that talking. I'm feeling Girl B, but Girl A is being the most receptive on top of that Girl B dancing is ass. They leave, I'm just checking the scene out, later on Girl A comes back and it's a wrap



^^"I'm sort of a big deal...."


^^^ha ha ha

anyway, I see kbot and I'm in the zone now, 3 kiss closes, the night is running to an end, we decide to go back to the other club, and see these guys on a bike, it's to crowded they tip over and well the tape explains the rest lol


^^ROFL

http://en.sevenload.com/videos/QdhOKon-Downtown-crazyness
^^"the field is crazy, you never know what you gonna see!!"

lol @ those guys asking for a refund when they broke that dudes ****!

Quick hits
  • The teacher wanted to ****, but logistics didn't help, she had people staying over, we suppose to hang out tomorrow will see how that goes.
  • I ran into Lauren, the girl who dissed me after the date, I was waiting in line, and she walked by, (this is the first bar I went into) she started laughing in disbelief, I was shocked at first because she said she would go home but it is what it is ( i still had a great night)
  • Frame/State is everything, I don't say anything, I just go with my instincts, my aura/vibe are always positive, even after a night where I got dissed, when I go with the flow of my instincts I always seem to end up at the right spots meeting the right chicks.
  • Less is more--I didn't over talk or anything, I went for the kisses, being alpha has helped my game crazy

In conclusion

This was a epic night, one of those I won't forget. I had fun, frame/state is so important. I was low key but energy still high. I'm smiling, projecting fun not neediness or lame choding by standing around hoping some girl will approach me. I just can't wait till it gets a bit warmer, I gotta remember to keep my standards high. There is no need to apologize for being a man, you have to go for what you want. Going out is so much more fun with friends/wings!!

Sarge on *****es!!!
 

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YO!!!! INCREDIBLE!!..
nice save bru...nicely done..ill write more when im free but quickly..DAMN!
 

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So I went on a date with the teacher last night, we just talking, having drinks, at happy hour, before I talked to her, I was in the car just getting to a happier state, I didn't wanna botch the date this time, like the night before, on top of that I talked to Kbot earlier that day, and he told me to stay from negative convo i.e. my ex

For a teacher she is quiet, I just go in talking asking her questions about her hobbies, passions, things like that, we talk about music/poetry, something I'm into big, I go in there and basically break it down. I talk for a minute but I know she is feeling it because she gets a glimpse of who I am, however i cut myself of by saying "oh I'm sorry I'm talking too much" and she is like "no that's fine I like that" I give her shht for not remembering my name after I told her 3 times, she feels bad. I talk about Sex indirectly and get her into state she has this look like "oh my gosh don't say that" but like she wants me too, like she wants it knamean

Indirect

Solo: You ever took Solo 101? It's hard class to take, there lot of pop quizzes and test

Teacher: Is there lot of homework?:D

Solo: no but there is a lot of extra credit, lots of extra credit;)

Teacher: Oh really?

Solo: yeah, on top of that there is Making out 101, did you know there 20 differen't ways to kiss (pulling shht out of my ass), I'm well versed in ten of them!

Teacher: No i didn't know that, are you saying I'm a bad kisser?

*look intently in her eyes*

Solo: No i'm saying there different ways to kiss, there is slow kissing, deep long kissing, shallow kissing, pucker kissing, sloppy doggy kissing

Teacher laughing

Teacher: sloppy doggy kissing, like face licking?

Solo: mmh-hmmm

*takes a sip of cranberry vodka, it's got anti-oxidants in it lol)

I then move unto Sexuality (think Gunwitch)

Solo: What kind of bed do you have?

Teacher:a bed with boxspring, and mattress

Me giving a no duh look

Solo: no what type of bed

Teacher: Oh i got a queen size

I grab a pepper and salt shaker, and take the small menu and say

Solo: if this is us me being pepper and you being salt, how much of the bed would get messed up?

I give her the pepper and salt shaker to demonstrate, she doesn't even use it and says "all of it"

We go back and forth, shorty is still giving me LMR. However she is in state, and is using "work" as an excuse, B_relentless from NLG told me this would happen and to be persistent.


Direct


She is going on about work and how she will be tired, and I flip it around and say what about me? and she says oh no it's all about me, lol typical female spiff

Teacher: So honestly what do you wanna do?

Taking a sip from my drink I look her in the eyes

Solo: honestly?

Teacher: yeah?

Solo: I wanna go home with you and cuddle ;)

rawness wasn't needed because she knows already that I cuddle naked only

Teacher: oh really? but I have to work why can't we wait?

more LMR, however I'm relaxed and not desperate, lot of guys would have giving up or been more desperate. Calm and relaxed I say

Solo: I'm having fun, I'm enjoying myself, it be a shame, if this evening had to end so soon, but I'm having fun aren't you?

Teacher: yeah I am of course, but why can't we wait?

Solo: I thought you were spontaneous? (I wish I had a slickaz line in my bag)

I know she is horny, it's just another shht test from her. I qualified her already she is "reserved" because society told her to be, but sh wants to have fun!!

Solo: Listen last time I checked it's only two people sitting here,

I point to her then me

Solo: Me and you are our own secret society, what stays here won't leave, it's private

Some more back and forth, and then I something I remembered hit me, as a man I have to lead and cut this shht out, even Pook said as men we have to have women mirror us not us mirror them!!

Solo: Look I'm gonna pay the bill go to the restroom, after I'm done I'm coming back with you to your place​

with that I got up and left, shorty looked shocked, I know Jon is smiling right now because this some shht he woulda done.

:cool:
We go to her place have something to drink, she puts this "Twilight" movie in, we aren't in the movie for 15 minutes and our clothes are already of. Now the rest is Rated Adult for you high schoolers reading this

But to reiterate what helped and will help is:

Building rapport/comfort--a chick has to be ready and comfortable taking you home it's a big deal to them and should be so.

Social Proofing--If it wasn't for me proofing it up to her friends, I probably wouldn't have got the day 2

Fun/positive energy
--I kept using the word "Fun" I even did some basic NLP, if that's what you wanna call it, having her recall a fun time and why it was so fun, my energy is positive, I made tons of eye contact

anyway I might take break from these FR's, I've been spoiling you guys, and yet yall still sleeping.

Peace out

p.s.

The other two chicks didn't respond to my text, which is ok because I didn't do the stuff with them that I did with the teacher, just charg'em to the game, thats all i can do and keep it moving, can't lay'em all

as Shezz would say

SARGE ON!!
 

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Nice FR man. I have a question though.

"I know she is horny, it's just another shht test from her. I qualified her already she is "reserved" because society told her to be, but sh wants to have fun!!"

what do you mean by that?? Are you like setting a standard for her or something? And if so, how does that help avoiding a later sh1t test?? Thanks man. Keep it coming!
 

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COOL MAN.

This is great field report to learn from it.

Saying that youll go over there to cuddle is a great way man. I like it.

Also , this is a killer line :
Solomon said:
Solo: Me and you are our own secret society, what stays here won't leave, it's private
If we can assure girls that what we do will be secret , we would get any girl we want. They all want d1ck :p.

Massive respect. Great examples on how to talk and behave when you're with women.
 

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Irs88 said:
Nice FR man. I have a question though.

"I know she is horny, it's just another shht test from her. I qualified her already she is "reserved" because society told her to be, but sh wants to have fun!!"

what do you mean by that?? Are you like setting a standard for her or something? And if so, how does that help avoiding a later sh1t test?? Thanks man. Keep it coming!

What I mean by that is

That society, the media tells her she is a slut for wanting to give in to her desires and have sex, the media says you are a slut for giving it to a man right away, but she desires it, because it's nature.

Johnny S breaks this **** down to a science in this thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153556 (a must read for anyone 18 plus)

Shht Test can't be avoided, but you will run into the same stuff with other women, the best thing you can do is build comfort and re-assurance, just like DTP said, show the woman that you respect her privacy (grown men don't speak on this, this is why I don't post flicks of the chicks I smash), The problem with cats is they wanna run around and tell everyone, show a woman that you can keep your mouth shut and she will show you what's what
 

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The game doesn't stop.....

Cr1msonKing said:
Nice read man.

I loved the part in the diner, took ****ing control.

The chicks were cute too.

You follow up with that chick you banged?

Yeah I banged her for a good week lol, she basically ended it because she felt we were "at differen't points in our lives" oh well, charge it to the game

Sarge on!!!

P.S. I just noticed on of the pics the chick has a ring on her finger wtfffffffffff
 
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