What do you guys think about this?

Too make this short, I have an ex-girlfriend that I want to **** no relationship. So lately she broke up with her ex and I was wondering what you guys thought about this I will go home in a couple of days and I want to see if I can get it done. What confuses me is she says she doesn’t want to “fall” for me or anyone who lives far but then she talks about her sexy panties???

[14:19] Her: ive decided i need to just enjoy being single and stop falling for guys who arent near by
[14:20] Path: i didnt mean it like that i meant that i have one of my good friends back
[14:20] Path: and i think thats smart of you
[14:20] Her: yeah it just skrews me over
[14:22] Path: thats what im doing... enjoying being single
[14:23] Path: its why i havent been trying to date you since i learned you were single
[14:24] Path: you probably wont do it the same way i do it though lol
[14:25] Her: nope
[14:26] Path: well
[14:26] Her: ****
[14:26] Her: i have to leave for class in 15
[14:27] Path: lol
[14:27] Path: lost track of time?
[14:27] Her: yep
[14:28] Path: dont be late lol
[14:32] Her: wow i feel great
[14:32] Path: lol great what happened
[14:32] Her: lol sexy panties. what else?

She was talking about wanting to drink beer, and I said id get her some if she liked cause were both underage and I have a hookup here. So I was thinking id just buy two 40’s and give her one. Any thoughts it sounds afc since I never bought here anything even while we were dating, but if I can get her alone with alcohol like she suggests, I am not sure I can lose… Oh and she just said when I asked if she wanted anything that she is a “beer chick”, so its gonna be a 40 of some cheap ass Mexican beer lol

[14:00] Path: two or three beers your dad would notice
[14:00] Path: unless he was already asleep
[14:01] Path: yeah i jsut checked its about 36 ounces of beer and then you might as well just drink a 40
[14:02] Path: and a 40 is enough to get my a little drunk
[14:02] Her: lmao
[14:02] Her: when dad isnt home not when he is

haha it wasnt such a short post after all :moon:
Thanks for your time

I think you did a good job by setting the context early on with, "I'm single and am having a great time being single. I don't make judgments about other girls who want to be single and have some fun too. Plus, I don't really want to date you or anyone else but am always up for a good time."

Hidden within that context is an assumption that you just want casual sex. And she seems to agree with it because she didn't object to your line of thinking.

I'm assuming she only lives with her dad? If so, then it sounds like she wants to get drunk and bang. I'm 99% sure that you will be able to because you are a guy that she previously dated and she can justify this random bang later with, "Well I had feelings for him" which may or may not be true, but it's just a chick's way of rationalizing casual sex. Also add the fact that you set a strong frame with, "I'm into casual sex and I won't judge you if you are too", and you, my friend, are guaranteed a casual lay.

Don't over-analyze this. You're doing just fine.

And get 40s of Coors light, at the least. They are only like 3 bucks and it is NOT AFC by any means if you are going to buy a 40 for her AND drink it with her.

I didnt realize this but when im at home, my home city has bad public transportation and im not sure when her dad wont be home. So im not sure i can really drink then drive home safely. Im also not sure if i can stick around her place cause of her dad... Damn, maybe ill bring a 6-pack and have her drink 3 and only drink 1 myself and then wait till it wears off.

I can't really ask her "hey lets hang out when your dad isn't home so we can get drunk together alone" without coming off exactly like it sounds

Edit: I think i wont sound like a creep if i say "Hey i am going to bring some beer down for you, but you should let me know a time when we can drink it together"