Now I was just browseing through the DJ archives for tips to refine my game-and I stumbled across this article by Basic Instinct dealing with how to raise a woman's Interest Level. the post reads as follows:
4 Words Guaranteed to Raise Her Interest Level
Alright, I am about to divulge four words that I guarantee will raise the interest level of a girl. If this girl has even the slightest romantic interest in you, these words will immediately raise it, and, if the proper follow-up is used, they will lead to sex.
I've tested this out and have gotten laid many times by saying this. The lowest effect I've had with these words is a girl calling me for a week.
Ok, so what are the four little words you ask?
During a conversation with the girl, you need to casually and nonchalantly say these words. DO NOT LOOK AT HER WHILE SAYING THIS. Look behind her, look at a wall, but say these words without any hint of emotion, as if you were telling her the weather:
"I'm bored with sex."
The minute you say these words, bells are going to go off in the girl's head. What does he mean he's bored with sex? Aren't all guys obsessed with it? What could be wrong with him?
But subconsciously what she is really going to be thinking is, "Why aren't I turning him on?"
The girl will respond to you by saying something like, "What do you mean?"
Now here, the follow-up is very important, perhaps more so than the initial four words. You need to choose your words carefully and give the impression that:
a) you are so "above" sex that you couldn't care less about it, and
b) you're looking for something (or someone) challenging.
Do not try to give her the impression that you are a player or that you've had sex with a lot of women. That is self-defeating and will be counter-productive to your goal. Here is an example of a good follow-up:
"Well, what I mean is that most of the women I've seen have all been the same. I'm looking for something (pause) a little more challenging and different. It seems like I haven't met anyone who has that certain (pause) energy that I'm seeking."
At this point, most girls who are interested will respond by saying something like, "Well, maybe you just haven't met the right person yet."
If she responds by saying this, DON'T LOSE YOUR COOL YET. Keep the aloof image and simply reply with a simple "maybe". This will make her try to prove to you that she is different and does have that energy that you're seeking.
In other words, she will try to validate her sexuality by seducing you.
If, however she wants more info from you, simply change the subject. This means you've raised her interest level, but you're going to have to work on it a bit more to get her. Either way, though, this is a great way to raise her interest in you and differentiates you from the rest of the wusses out there.
Now I dont know if I really agree with this article-if you bring up sex she is going to think thats all you want from her is an sexual adventure-and that might be cool if you dealing with a whacked out nympho-but usually a woman would laugh and say,"thats too bad" and write you off as a dude who couldnt resist talking about sex-what do you guys think?
4 Words Guaranteed to Raise Her Interest Level
Alright, I am about to divulge four words that I guarantee will raise the interest level of a girl. If this girl has even the slightest romantic interest in you, these words will immediately raise it, and, if the proper follow-up is used, they will lead to sex.
I've tested this out and have gotten laid many times by saying this. The lowest effect I've had with these words is a girl calling me for a week.
Ok, so what are the four little words you ask?
During a conversation with the girl, you need to casually and nonchalantly say these words. DO NOT LOOK AT HER WHILE SAYING THIS. Look behind her, look at a wall, but say these words without any hint of emotion, as if you were telling her the weather:
"I'm bored with sex."
The minute you say these words, bells are going to go off in the girl's head. What does he mean he's bored with sex? Aren't all guys obsessed with it? What could be wrong with him?
But subconsciously what she is really going to be thinking is, "Why aren't I turning him on?"
The girl will respond to you by saying something like, "What do you mean?"
Now here, the follow-up is very important, perhaps more so than the initial four words. You need to choose your words carefully and give the impression that:
a) you are so "above" sex that you couldn't care less about it, and
b) you're looking for something (or someone) challenging.
Do not try to give her the impression that you are a player or that you've had sex with a lot of women. That is self-defeating and will be counter-productive to your goal. Here is an example of a good follow-up:
"Well, what I mean is that most of the women I've seen have all been the same. I'm looking for something (pause) a little more challenging and different. It seems like I haven't met anyone who has that certain (pause) energy that I'm seeking."
At this point, most girls who are interested will respond by saying something like, "Well, maybe you just haven't met the right person yet."
If she responds by saying this, DON'T LOSE YOUR COOL YET. Keep the aloof image and simply reply with a simple "maybe". This will make her try to prove to you that she is different and does have that energy that you're seeking.
In other words, she will try to validate her sexuality by seducing you.
If, however she wants more info from you, simply change the subject. This means you've raised her interest level, but you're going to have to work on it a bit more to get her. Either way, though, this is a great way to raise her interest in you and differentiates you from the rest of the wusses out there.
Now I dont know if I really agree with this article-if you bring up sex she is going to think thats all you want from her is an sexual adventure-and that might be cool if you dealing with a whacked out nympho-but usually a woman would laugh and say,"thats too bad" and write you off as a dude who couldnt resist talking about sex-what do you guys think?
