Ever notice how when somebody says something, and everybody else laughs, even if you don't think its funny, you often laugh too? Happiness spreads. If you act like you are always having a good time, laughing at jokes, etc. it will instantly put all the people around you into a good mood. Everyone likes feeling happy, and you will develop a following, because you make people feel good.
Likewise, if you are always down and depressed, people will want to AVOID being around you, because your mood drags theirs down too. And honestly, who wants to be around someone who's busy feeling sorry for himself?
Happy, upbeat people usually control their social group. Everyone likes someone who makes them feel good. Everyone hates someone who makes them feel bad. Keep this in mind, and the rewards can be incredible.
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Likewise, if you are always down and depressed, people will want to AVOID being around you, because your mood drags theirs down too. And honestly, who wants to be around someone who's busy feeling sorry for himself?
Happy, upbeat people usually control their social group. Everyone likes someone who makes them feel good. Everyone hates someone who makes them feel bad. Keep this in mind, and the rewards can be incredible.
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