DJ Quest Log (Things I learned So Far)

Hey guys for this post Im gonna be telling you whats been going on..and things I learned this week.Maybe some input would be cool too but Ill keep updating as I learn things over time.Starting with my DJ quest.I stictly want to just put my tips here..Not really any problems and stuff.Kinda like an online DJ journal.Any replies or comments send to my email guys.Its Blackshadowone@hotmail.com.Thanx.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

8-06-01:

Wow..Heres a great thing I think I better try out.The DJ's here would probably want to alsk well it started this morning when I was delivering newspapers since Im still a paperboy at this time.I was at a house and I was delivering a paper,and there was a cat around.I really wanted to pet it.I motioned my hand and tried to get it over to me.The cat acted like it was gonna nudge against me so I can pet it and stuff.Instead it walked over but it sniffed my hand...walked off a bit and looked at me.I still pet it though..cuz I really wanted to.

Tip:1 Being a tease

From this I came up with an idea to get women.Basically you act like you really want a woman more than you actually do.This gets the girl thinking..oh man he is in my fingertips.Girls really like attention and theyll do whatever they can to get it.Well this is when you make things bigger than it actually is while it doesnt really effect you...but instead it takes its magic on the girl.

Take this for an example.It should work...hmm well you want a girl to like you.Ok now you just act like youre so interested in her..when you actually arent that interested in her as it seems.You are merely stretching her horizons by acting.So you basically have the ability to back out whenever.Lets say then sometime she wants to kiss ya.Well be the cat now.Act like youre gonna go up to her and kiss her...go up to her..be real close...just keep your distance.Then leave her.Remember.Dont let your feelings phase you till you pull off some challenge.What Im gonna do is try this sometime.Leave like I say..then sit somewhere else and motion her to me with a nice smile.Then Ill probably let her kiss me.See the cat today pretty much looked at me...taunting me to pet it.You taunt the girl too.

In conclusion..getting this to work,You need to control your urges.Act more interested in something than you actually are.This clouds reality...probably making things more imaginable.Be a challenge...this kinda goes with acting.You seem like you want her...but you make her work her share to get her to want you too.Challenge also seems to bring confusion.These things must like work all together.In essence...learn to be stronger than the cat.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

8-07-01:

Ok Its like 9:57 this morning.Things can be tough for me.Like I Always walk on eggshells for people.I seem to want to try new things out but I never do it at optimal strength.. Like I never feel strong when I do these things.I seem to just get scared but I still do some of these things...even if I was on eggshells...cuz I never bother to let myself feel strong.I just let things slide by even if it makes me do things I dont wanna do...specially round girls.Alright heres something I better apply to myself.

Tip 2:Try to do everything with some strength.

Its time to start feeling strong...and crush some eggshells.Time to put on some steel toed boots and intentionally step on them.Walk right past them and not let it mind you.Those shells cant cut ya now.They only make noise when you step on them.Yeah wear the steel toe boots of strength and march on.

Consider the eggshells a trap but you step on it without being phased.The girl will probably be so damn surprised.Be strong...yes I must be strong.With strength comes confidence.I have courage...but lets not do things with a cowardly feeling.hehehe ex:Courage the Cowardly Dog Hes cool...but not a good rolemodel for what I wanna accomplish here.Today...I better apply this principle or Ill never be able to pass the eggshells(take memo).

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

Damn, I wanted to continue reading, but I had to leave. I'll be sure to come back to it.

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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam

Hey MOA, this looks like a pretty good idea you have! But since most of your entries seem to be really tips, I think this thread is better suited in the Tips Forum.

So to the Tips it goes.

Well Hot damn!!Its moved to the tips section.

8-08-01:

Hmmm today Ill need to remember this..it is important that I do things with strength...but it is lacking in a field.Here it goes.

Tip 3: Do not work too hard on anything.

It is important that I have grace..when I act or when I go about things with a strength.We must make things seem easy.Also we must not put much aggression.Give it a tough feeling though.It shall impress and surprise.Get angry or mad..and it may embarass myself and scare others.So I guess it puts up to another tip then.

Tip 4: Dont get mad or angry during hard times...just be rough and friendly.Times are really hard for me lately...and it looks like Itll be ok if I take my own advice.heh..yeah.

Guys..I think this is completely gonna make me take another turn in life.This journal..wow.I never knew I could create something like this.Well until tomorrow...I hope that whoever reads this..something here may help them out.Later buddies.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

[This message has been edited by Man Of Adventure (edited 08-07-2001).]

Ahhh its not fair!!!my watch was set off when I made the dates.Cursed.hehehe

8-08-01:

OK well this is a Wednesday...wow.3 days have passed.Alright here is some advice ive read about in a book.Its also been mentioned on this site before...but this will help me out.

Tip 5: Less means more literally when it comes to talking.Its worth skyrockets.

That means keep your wording down to pretty minimal if you are wanting yourself to seem important.The more you say..the more common youre gonna be.People just have the tendency to talk.You talk less then what you say will have...more value.You can compare this to currency and inflation.Playstation 2s can go along with this.Also the rare commodity saying can be related to this.So it will be worth my time to shut the trap more often.Not only will your talking seem more important..but you will be considered more important with more worthy things you say.Plus the less likely youll say something stupid.

As long as you are made known...you can be acknowledged well and things will be accomplished.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

8-11-01:

Its my last day on the quest for improvement.Things are doing good.Its hard to try to incorporate new things in life.I learned that this week...but I must remember that this week was meant to help me and not hurt me.If I never wanted to help myself..I could use the excuse of being myself to get away with it.My tip today.

Tip 6: Do not do things that can hurt you...but instead help you.

That means the just be yourself saying can just be a misserable excuse to be lazy...and I learned that from Allen's article in the newsletter.If I never wanted to help myself..I would stay the same guy as I was before.A nice guy who was infactuated with a woman constantly.Ever since Ive been to the site ive like developed from dud to more of a stud by the days.In conclusion...give yourself help and encourage it...not to be lazy but to be successful.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

[This message has been edited by Man Of Adventure (edited 08-16-2001).]

I think this is quality for the Dj bible. Anyone else agree??
Excellent job MOA (hehhe, a new name ?)
It's been an interesting week. I am thinking about doing the same thing. It's good to just sit back and look at things
Thanks for the insight.

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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam

Well im back from my quest.Thats cool.Its time to get back to being the DJ.I really feel different and wiser in that week...but there should be improvement all the time.Not just one week.Time I keep on learning more. For me and my improvement...and for all the DJ who want to be successful.Time to come back.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

See, this is what I love about this site. It isn't really about the women. It's about finding ourselves. (aww... how cute!) And as for the women, well, to paraphrase a classic movie quote, "If you build it, they will come."

Great job, MoA!

lol...hey thanx.I just hope that it helped people as much as it helped me man. Its nothing.Hopefully Syncmaster will make a great book.I think Ill keep this journal going.

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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

Good posts Man O

It shows us that the answers we seek are usually inside us all along. We just have to be brave enough to listen and act upon them.

8-16-01:

Alright..well sometimes I dont always keep mystery..and it really shows.Heres a tip from a book that can help me out so this wont happen.

Tip 7: Dont play all your cards.Hold back some.

This leaves bits of mystery and excitment.But this is something I can pick up outside of the book.

Tip 8: When you play your cards...play them at the right time..so you dont hurt yourself.

I have been picked on in the past cuz..I hold back all my good cards.I know you can let the other guy run out of cards...but youll feel empty when you become victor.Hell be so weak.Basically stand up for your ass now!!...and just laugh at him...and if he gets all pissed.Hes the one who looks all weak.If he retaliates....make him do something for you or call the cops.Dont put up with the ****.Its time to not be afraid.This leads to tip 10.From Red-xl.Im gonna modify it though.

Tip 9: Dont command respect in women but also in jerks too.


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Whats this Man going to do now???Lets just find out. - Man Of Adventure

[This message has been edited by Man Of Adventure (edited 08-16-2001).]

Aww man, I was seriously enjoying this.. Lol you had something going here. But good read anyway :-D