Are you a man? Do you take responsibility for where your life is now?

You know that every place your life is right now is your responsiblity. Not your parents, not your girlfriend who left you, not your pick up guru, but yours. If you are overweight, if you are broke,if you are lonely and have no women....that is on you. The question then becomes, what are you going to do about it.

Stop worrying about what other guys are doing. Or if ugly girls get laid. Or anything other than your own progress. It's time for some selfishness somewhere in your life. The sort of selfishness that drives you to get off your ass and make improvements.

So do you take responsibility for your life and where you are now? Are you ready to make the changes to move foward? Are you prepared to push pass the fear and try to make a change?

I'm away from home and have no transpo where I'm at and can't really ask for it either. But I'm having fun reading and posting on this forum and at the same time I have dates setup from online sites when I get back. I never waste time.

69 views and only one man anwsered. Now I understand. Those who feel they are on the path have no need to anwser and those that aren't justify why they will not anwser.

But those who are really ready for change, who are on the cusp need to think over this post. Think deeper than getting women, think deeper than being a DJ or a player.

Think about are you happy with your life and are you pushing your life in the direction you want it to go. Are you pushing hard enough?

Warrior74 said:

Think about are you happy with your life and are you pushing your life in the direction you want it to go. Are you pushing hard enough?

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Just found this post this morning. My challenge right now is losing weight. I need to drop about 50 lbs. I've lost it before - I can do it.

I like your post and I need motivation. I've set up some small goals in the coming months. Instead of looking at the big picture, I'm taking it 2 or 3 weeks at a time and meeting that goal, then moving on.

I'm honest with myself about my weaknesses my problem is that I have trouble facing them, doing something about it then staying disciplined enough to see it through.

Answer your own question.

Only a man who follows his own advice can be credible enough to lead.

I'll wait for your reply.

Everyone has to take responsibility for their lives. Everything you achieved or didn't achieve only look at yourself to blame because nobody is going to hold your hand through life. If you do not take responsibility for your life who will?

I seem to have most aspects under control. I just answered directly as to what I am doing as far as DJ'ing goes. Of course you have to be responsible it's part of being a man and not a boy. I have a secure job, secure future and I have the privilege to focus on the DJ part of it and have some fun.

A man's character is his guardian divinity. -Heraclitus

I agree.. Some guys on here only care about women and getting laid. While, the rest of their life is not on the right track. Guys need to stop focusing on women soo much and other people. Focus on yourself!

KarmaSutra said:

Answer your own question.

Only a man who follows his own advice can be credible enough to lead.

I'll wait for your reply.

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I have anwsered it, numerous times actually if you read my past posts. I'm not trying to lead, I'm trying to provoke deeper thought and self understanding. This is a question I have asked myself and I've done a lot of thought on, and I see a lot of changes I need to make and I'm making them to get where I need to get. I figured if its a question that has helped me to try harder, other people probably need to ask themselves the same thing. I'm here to grow and try to help anyone else I can. That's the point right?

I'm honest with myself about my weaknesses my problem is that I have trouble facing them, doing something about it then staying disciplined enough to see it through.

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Yah. You just have to keep focused. I have the same problem. Sticking to it to see it done. I try to keep my goals simple knowing that each small step gets me to a better goal. It's work. When I figure out the magic formula to make it easy I'll let you know! lol.