FR: 10/18/08 With Bilogomja

Solomon

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Flashback to Friday 10/17/2008

I’m at the bar bullshh with 3 other dudes, who I opened up outside the bar, The dudes are very nice to say the least (hell i get a free drink out of the deal)and I chill wit them waiting for this “Bilogomja” to show up aka K-dub (I nickname my wings). Anyway some guy Comes in a coat asking me “Are you Solomon?” I was like Yeah and shake his hand. I’m not going to lie, prior to meeting this dude. I was anxious, anxious cause usually I don’t meet dudes off the net. I was also anxious because well hell, I cared to make a good first impression. K-dub and I had been talking on the phone a bit on and off about Game. I thought to myself what if this guy thinks I’m a fraud? He stands next to me; we are just watching the atmosphere for a bit. One of the guy’s(AfC1) who I opened up in the group, kept staring at these two blonds. I noticed they were shutting guys down left and right. I noticed how Afc1 was scared to approach, I told K-dub about how those two have turned guys down all night. Then I said, “If you want something you just go get it….” With that said I went to the dance floor and opened up a 3-set(with the two blondes, and another one who joined them), little did I know that night I was going to be one of those rare nights where I could say or do no wrong…..

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Fast Forward to Saturday 10/18/2008


I’m at this club called Valintinos. I’m there with two of my best friends waiting for K-dub to arrive. I see these two chicks next to me dancing. One girl looked like a hotter version Of Tina fey (glasses and everything, I’m a sucker for hot nerdy looking chicks). I wait for a couple seconds and instantly open her up. I don’t remember exactly what I said but she is receptive and smiling. I asked her to take a picture of my buddies and me, she cordially obliges. My buddy then decides he wants a flick with “Mrs. fey”

^^this picture honestly doesn't do her justice
as well. We walk around the club and post up in a spot downstairs. My best friends are the opposite of me. Where I am aggressive and always “making moves’ They like to stand at one spot and dance. (one of my buddies has a girl so right now he is retired from the game)

12:30
K-dub finally shows up. We grab a drink and scout the club. We head upstairs, and then on our way down there is a v.i.p booth. I instantly go to two ladies sitting down, ask them to take a flick of K-dub and I. I briefly introduce myself then K-dub. I see two girls across the booth; I tell dub to “open up the set”. He starts talking to the girls, I can’t hear what’s going on, but I noticed his body language is wavering, I instantly “crash” the set and introduce myself, turns out It was some girls B-day. Her boyfriend was sitting down watching us the whole time. We shook hands with him then we stood in the corner and left (The V.I.P booth was dead and lame)

Highlights of the night


The best highlight has to have been, when K-dub and I where at one point walking around the dance floor. I saw this girl and “accidentally*” bumped into her

Solo: “oh my bad” (call it a lame opener but it work wonderfully for that situation)
Hb7: “it’s ok”
Solo: “you having fun tonight?”
Hb7: “yeah”

We have some more fluff talk for a couple minutes. I instantly start dancing with her she is very receptive. Low and behold wouldn’t you know, this girl who had I had “Uber-one-ists” for; earlier this year (the reason why I went on a rampage learning about “seduction” and “confidence”) was across from us. I couldn’t believe it. K-dub meanwhile was talking to hb7’s hot Asian friend. I decided, “stunt”(or as yall would say DHV).

Solo:“Hey you wanna meet the DJ?”
hb:7 “sure”

As we are headed to the Dj booth, I can feel the one-ists girl eyes zooming in the back of my head like lasers. I’m walking up with the hb7 and were holding hands (I soo love kino!!)Now usually I know who the DJ is, but it was his off night, Once again to get to the DJ you have to get into the V.I.P booth(a different one from the previous). There is no security really, so it’s easy to crash. I introduce her to the DJ. She shakes his hand, I tell him he’s gotta play T.I. “whatever you like again”(super afc song but the beat goes hard). He says, “I see what I can do”. Hb7 and I go back on the dance floor dancing and talking and wouldn’t you know we are literally 10feet away from the “one-ists” girl. I kino the hell out of her and she kino’s me back. I eject several moments* later K-dub follows

We go upstairs, to the rest room. It reeks of Mary Jane, I must be catching contact lol. We come out and lo and behold, it’s those girls again. We instantly open them up. The hb7 I was talking to, is sloppy drunk by now you can just tell it in her eyes, she kinda resembles Fergie. I find out she is from Cali, visiting for the Asian girls b-day. I could have number closed easy, but what’s the point if she lives 3,000 miles away? We dance. The Asian chick is heavily “kinoing” K-dub. I’m watching this as I dance, I go behind him and say “Close” The girl hears me and looks at me with a “oh my gosh what are you doing” smile. I smile back. Moments later we leave the set. K-dub is telling me how the girl kept saying he reminded her of his brother. I told Him he just had to be a bit more assertive, and let her know that He would do things her brother wouldn’t (ya mean?)….

Low lights of the night


I was opening up a Asian girl at the end of the night, who I sorta opened up early. Honestly she was nothing special. She shut me down no problem, then my dumb ass goes in for the kiss on the check (lol, don’t know why I did) lo and behold her boyfriend was standing right next to us and he was pissed. I apologize and keep it moving. K-dub and I bounce.

Other Highlights of the night


  • I was dancing with this blonde I knew from back in the day, nothing special (# close for her she texted me an hour later saying she wants to “hang out” funny thing is she has a boyfriend…I’ll pass)
  • I re-opened “Tina Fey” at the end of the night, come to find out she was married
  • I opened up some random chick who was just a hot mess, she kept looking for her boyfriend and sweating profusely lol
  • I opened up a 2-set, by myself come to find out the chick lived 3 hours away (thanks but no thanks)
Overall it was an Ok night, the night wasn’t as great as Friday. The quality of the chicks weren’t even close. But I had my best homies with me (who were acting super afcish just standing in one or two spots dancing not really talking to chicks)

Things I did well
1. Having fun, if you don’t then what’s the point? I must have danced with 5 different chicks that night
2. Didn’t turn afcish, when I saw the “one-ists” girl. I didn’t even acknowledge her and honestly I’m glad she was close to me and hb7, call me vain But I wanted to make her jealous


Things I need to work on….


1. Not doing random stupid things like with that kissing thing
2. Find chicks that live in my state lol


* I bumped into the chick on purpose; you can’t bump to hard, instantly after I bumped her I put my hand on her shoulder, as I look her in the eyes to apologize. Works like a charm
**Reasons I ejected was, I didn’t wanna close on the dance floor, I’m glad I didn’t because I ran into her later and found out she didn’t live in my state anyway



p.s. more pics coming soon, my buddy was to lazy to upload all...eeh
 
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Bilogomja

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Oh hell yea Solomon that night was pretty good. Yea that one set I did in the VIP totally crashed and burned - I didn't have a high enough energy level and I don't think I really made EC when I was talking to them = lame. But whatever, it was my first set in a club atmosphere, so I'm not disappointed. You totally rocked it when you jumped in though! That two set you opened with the HBAsian kicked ass for sure. HBAsian and I were totally kinoing the hell out of each other, but I gave her my age without making her guess when she asked (bad idea when she's 4 years older than me), and I told her she was acting like my mom when she kept saying "we" should put my hair back because she kept getting lip gloss in it. Then she fired off with that "I feel like I'm your older sister" line - urgh... I should have isolated her before I started saying stupid **** like that. You were on fire with that one technique (I'm not gonna give it away :)), the digital camera, and on the dance floor.

Especially on the dance floor! I've always read that people should stay away from the dancefloors when trying attract women, but you're really good at vibing in that environment. Utilizing the digital camera as an opener = gold.

As always, it was awesome to see you open set after set so effortlessly. I still have to work on that lol. Either way, your method of having fun and planting seeds works well. Really really well!
 

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I want to know this digital camera opener...
 

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@ Bilo-- It's all about confidence and swagger. Women on the dancefloor wanna move and have fun. It's uber-easy to established kino, especially if you move right. Dancefloor closes in terms of #'s can be harder sometimes or even easier. It just depends (like anything else in life)

I'm glad you realized your mistake with the hbasian, just learn from it, trust me the same siutation on age will happen again and again and again. Belive me been there done that!


Vice said:
I want to know this digital camera opener...

aww the digital camera opener= GOld

It's fairly simple really, all you do is carry a digital camera to the club with you. You pick a target and say "hey can you take a picture of me and my buddy..." 90% of the time, people will take the pic no problem. After the picture is taking you usually I say "thanks, whats your name.." and shake their hands and plow away

Sometimes chicks (aw's) wanna even be in the picture, those are the easiset, or you can even take a pic, with a chick in general (depending on her comfort level) most chicks are usually down

try it, it works and has been field tested (many many many times by me)

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