Jay Julio
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"Why be a Pick-Up Artist when you can be a Natural?" I ask time and time again.
Before I reveal the principles and exercises to do just that, let me share the honest confession of a woman when describing what her experience was like to come into contact with a man who displayed "Masculine Power".
Here's what she says:
Did you hear that?
Physically and psychologically overwhelmed by just his presence? His affect was so intense that it made it difficult for her to breath and remain standing? Feeling his power with every fibre of her being?
It felt as if he had a godlike power?
And all this without him even saying a single word and perhaps without even looking at her?
What is this power?
And more importantly, how can you develop it in yourself?
The Secret of Masculine Power
First...
Developing Masculine Power has NOTHING to do with women.
It has nothing to do with doing the "right thing".
It has nothing to do with techniques, tricks, or gimmicks.
In fact, it really has nothing to do with picking-up or attracting women.
No!
That's just an effect or a BENEFIT you receive after developing it.
See, it's really about freeing and then directing your mind and how it relates to "the world" and every other mind you come into contact with, which naturally includes women.
This is about living. I mean, really living and experiencing your life by absorbing as much from every moment as possible.
Simply, it's about learning to "be".
What that means is developing your mind and learning to guide your thoughts so that you experience your life at a heightened 'state of consciousness', which registers with women as Masculine Power.
This may, at first, sound metaphysical or "woo-woo", but I assure you, by the time you're done reading, you'll recognize it as practical on every level.
Now, when you learn to "be" — or to live, to exist, to move through the world — within this state of Masculine Power, women automatically and naturally gravitate to the energy you create around yourself.
You don't have to actively do anything like using silly routines, patterns, pickup lines, etc.
It's passive as far as the effort you have to put into it for the purpose of affecting a woman; she just has to come into your presence and she'll naturally key into your 'vibe'.
Here's the basic tools and principles on how it works:
The Nature of the Great Unfoldment
Before you can develop your Masculine Power, the very first thing you have to acknowledge and understand is the Nature of the Great Unfoldment and what your connection is with it.
The Great Unfoldment is the scene or action that's happening or "unfolding" before you during every moment of your waking life.
It's the 'outside world' of ongoing events that your senses perceive.
And whether you recognize it yet or not, your presence plays a part and alters the way in which the scene unfolds. Your presence influences everyone that you come into contact with the moment you enter their awareness.
This is happening all the time and it has been happening for your entire life.
And once you begin to understand how you currently influence the Unfoldment, you also begin to notice other ways you are capable of influencing it.
But let's leave the philosophy out of it as much as possible. Let's stick to the practical applications on how to develop the power to influence the Unfoldment in such a way that it unfolds according to your design.
So let's cut straight to the practical tools and the abilities you need to develop before you can effectively do that.
The Tools of Masculine Power
In Western culture, it seems the majority of people have no true concept of what power really is. Often, they mistake it for wealth, political influence, high status, dominance, having others "submit" to them, etc.
But if none of these things, what is true power?
The real meaning of power is this:
Having the ability to influence the Unfoldment in such a way that it conforms to your intentions or desires. Some would call this "creating your own reality".
To fully understand what that means, let's define each tool you need and then I'll share an illustration, revealing how they work in unity:
Awareness
Awareness is the scope of how much of the Unfoldment you are able to perceive at any given moment. Visually, this includes it's "width", "height", and "depth" — or the panorama.
Receptivity
Receptivity is the ability to stay fully connected to the Unfoldment during each and every moment. A high receptivity means there are little to no gaps of "going inside" that cancel or blank out the "stream" of the Unfoldment that your senses are registering.
Attention
Attention is the portion of your awareness of the Unfoldment that you consider to be the most interesting, important, or relevant. It may be divided between both fields (focus and periphery) or it may be given completely to either one.
Focus
Focus is the foreground field of your attention as it relates to your awareness of the Unfoldment. It's what your eyes are directly focusing on.
Periphery
Periphery is the background field of your attention as it relates to your awareness of the Unfoldment. It's what you notice without having to focus directly on it: movements, shapes, colors, and especially intentions or non-verbal cues.
A Shift
A Shift is an act of moving or "shifting" attention from one subject or object to another, either with your focused awareness, your peripherial awareness, or from one to the other.
A Blank
A Blank is a "break" in receptivity; an unconscious response to not knowing how to act or react. During that moment, all your attention goes "inside" and the connection to the "outside" is severed so that the "stream" is no longer received. Often, it takes the form of things like a stutter, an um, nervous laughter, adverted eyes, "freezing-up", a vacant stare, etc.
A Tag
A tag is a subject or object that you've consciously given your peripheral attention to. Most times, it's something you plan to eventually shift into your focused attention.
A Recognition
A (sexual) Recognition is the mutual understanding or acknowledgement of attraction made through eye contact where you and a woman both realize each other as sexual beings.
Masculine Power (or Character)
Masculine Power is the ability to use these tools to influence the Unfoldment while and as it's unfolding in the direction that you silently intend for it to play out. When functioning, people sense a strong "aura" about you. It shines through in the ease of your movements and it radiates in the music of your voice.
The key to Masculine Power lies in the quality of your receptivity. Without blanking, sexual recognition becomes inevitable when your eyes connect with a woman. But naturally, doing this well involves the use of the other tools.
Essentially, these are the tools of a hunter, fighter, or warrior. But don't we all know that the greatest warriors tend to be the most desireable lovers?
There's reason for that.
Before I reveal the principles and exercises to do just that, let me share the honest confession of a woman when describing what her experience was like to come into contact with a man who displayed "Masculine Power".
Here's what she says:
"Very occasionally I have found myself intensely affected by the mere presence of a particular man – so intensely affected that it has taken every ounce of self-control to appear unmoved.
"The effect is extreme, both physically and psychologically. Primal. Overwhelming. It feels as though the man has godlike power – the power of a man; masculine power. You feel totally held by this power. The desire to be taken by the man is so intense that it is frightening.
"It can be difficult to breathe, or difficult to remain standing, let alone maintain a conversation. Bone dry mouth, zero appetite, heart all over the place, the fear that you might faint, shaking like a leaf, body positively screaming to be taken, a reckless willingness and primal desire to do whatever that man wants.
"The masculine power of the man – you feel that power with every fibre of your being. Melting in a white-hot inferno of desire, out of your senses, so far out of control psychologically that you can't even imagine being in control, totally in his power.
"You feel owned by the man, totally his, totally submissive."
"The effect is extreme, both physically and psychologically. Primal. Overwhelming. It feels as though the man has godlike power – the power of a man; masculine power. You feel totally held by this power. The desire to be taken by the man is so intense that it is frightening.
"It can be difficult to breathe, or difficult to remain standing, let alone maintain a conversation. Bone dry mouth, zero appetite, heart all over the place, the fear that you might faint, shaking like a leaf, body positively screaming to be taken, a reckless willingness and primal desire to do whatever that man wants.
"The masculine power of the man – you feel that power with every fibre of your being. Melting in a white-hot inferno of desire, out of your senses, so far out of control psychologically that you can't even imagine being in control, totally in his power.
"You feel owned by the man, totally his, totally submissive."
Did you hear that?
Physically and psychologically overwhelmed by just his presence? His affect was so intense that it made it difficult for her to breath and remain standing? Feeling his power with every fibre of her being?
It felt as if he had a godlike power?
And all this without him even saying a single word and perhaps without even looking at her?
What is this power?
And more importantly, how can you develop it in yourself?
The Secret of Masculine Power
First...
Developing Masculine Power has NOTHING to do with women.
It has nothing to do with doing the "right thing".
It has nothing to do with techniques, tricks, or gimmicks.
In fact, it really has nothing to do with picking-up or attracting women.
No!
That's just an effect or a BENEFIT you receive after developing it.
See, it's really about freeing and then directing your mind and how it relates to "the world" and every other mind you come into contact with, which naturally includes women.
This is about living. I mean, really living and experiencing your life by absorbing as much from every moment as possible.
Simply, it's about learning to "be".
What that means is developing your mind and learning to guide your thoughts so that you experience your life at a heightened 'state of consciousness', which registers with women as Masculine Power.
This may, at first, sound metaphysical or "woo-woo", but I assure you, by the time you're done reading, you'll recognize it as practical on every level.
Now, when you learn to "be" — or to live, to exist, to move through the world — within this state of Masculine Power, women automatically and naturally gravitate to the energy you create around yourself.
You don't have to actively do anything like using silly routines, patterns, pickup lines, etc.
It's passive as far as the effort you have to put into it for the purpose of affecting a woman; she just has to come into your presence and she'll naturally key into your 'vibe'.
Here's the basic tools and principles on how it works:
The Nature of the Great Unfoldment
Before you can develop your Masculine Power, the very first thing you have to acknowledge and understand is the Nature of the Great Unfoldment and what your connection is with it.
The Great Unfoldment is the scene or action that's happening or "unfolding" before you during every moment of your waking life.
It's the 'outside world' of ongoing events that your senses perceive.
And whether you recognize it yet or not, your presence plays a part and alters the way in which the scene unfolds. Your presence influences everyone that you come into contact with the moment you enter their awareness.
This is happening all the time and it has been happening for your entire life.
And once you begin to understand how you currently influence the Unfoldment, you also begin to notice other ways you are capable of influencing it.
But let's leave the philosophy out of it as much as possible. Let's stick to the practical applications on how to develop the power to influence the Unfoldment in such a way that it unfolds according to your design.
So let's cut straight to the practical tools and the abilities you need to develop before you can effectively do that.
The Tools of Masculine Power
In Western culture, it seems the majority of people have no true concept of what power really is. Often, they mistake it for wealth, political influence, high status, dominance, having others "submit" to them, etc.
But if none of these things, what is true power?
The real meaning of power is this:
Having the ability to influence the Unfoldment in such a way that it conforms to your intentions or desires. Some would call this "creating your own reality".
To fully understand what that means, let's define each tool you need and then I'll share an illustration, revealing how they work in unity:
Awareness
Awareness is the scope of how much of the Unfoldment you are able to perceive at any given moment. Visually, this includes it's "width", "height", and "depth" — or the panorama.
Receptivity
Receptivity is the ability to stay fully connected to the Unfoldment during each and every moment. A high receptivity means there are little to no gaps of "going inside" that cancel or blank out the "stream" of the Unfoldment that your senses are registering.
Attention
Attention is the portion of your awareness of the Unfoldment that you consider to be the most interesting, important, or relevant. It may be divided between both fields (focus and periphery) or it may be given completely to either one.
Focus
Focus is the foreground field of your attention as it relates to your awareness of the Unfoldment. It's what your eyes are directly focusing on.
Periphery
Periphery is the background field of your attention as it relates to your awareness of the Unfoldment. It's what you notice without having to focus directly on it: movements, shapes, colors, and especially intentions or non-verbal cues.
A Shift
A Shift is an act of moving or "shifting" attention from one subject or object to another, either with your focused awareness, your peripherial awareness, or from one to the other.
A Blank
A Blank is a "break" in receptivity; an unconscious response to not knowing how to act or react. During that moment, all your attention goes "inside" and the connection to the "outside" is severed so that the "stream" is no longer received. Often, it takes the form of things like a stutter, an um, nervous laughter, adverted eyes, "freezing-up", a vacant stare, etc.
A Tag
A tag is a subject or object that you've consciously given your peripheral attention to. Most times, it's something you plan to eventually shift into your focused attention.
A Recognition
A (sexual) Recognition is the mutual understanding or acknowledgement of attraction made through eye contact where you and a woman both realize each other as sexual beings.
Masculine Power (or Character)
Masculine Power is the ability to use these tools to influence the Unfoldment while and as it's unfolding in the direction that you silently intend for it to play out. When functioning, people sense a strong "aura" about you. It shines through in the ease of your movements and it radiates in the music of your voice.
The key to Masculine Power lies in the quality of your receptivity. Without blanking, sexual recognition becomes inevitable when your eyes connect with a woman. But naturally, doing this well involves the use of the other tools.
Essentially, these are the tools of a hunter, fighter, or warrior. But don't we all know that the greatest warriors tend to be the most desireable lovers?
There's reason for that.
