FR: My Identity Decoded...Three Nights Extravaganza...Bootcamp Style (VERY LONG)

Snow Plowman

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Warning: VERY LONG...Concepts are at the bottom...Read report for examples of how those concepts apply to who I am. This happened on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday.

Changed my writing style to be more content base, I'm packing this with a ****load of content...doing this as a benchmark of who I am and articulate how I am through examples...I must say I LOVE night time! Did about 100 approaches in 3 nights..If I had good logistics I'd be ****ing POTENT...can't wait to turn 21 (I'm 19)

Day One: Trail & Error
Everytime I go out at night I have a great time...Quick comments...
Adonis - Wing, I wanted to bring him into sets and get him chicks. I want him to get laid more than I want myself to get laid.
Upsetmidget - Wing, we just maintain our own party (Mentioned later)
Adonis Cousin - Trying to Shatter his reality

Other Mentions
Warlock and Sargeteam Crew - Always great seeing other school's of thoughts put into works.
RSD Instructors: Saad and Ryan - Always great meeting instructor guys because it shows me how normal they are. There regular dudes who just happen to have this area handled and teach it. I know I've become centered because I didn't want to watch them approach at all, I wanted to have my own fun getting in the mix.

Now onto the content...if you RARELY ever want to get blownout you must have DEPTH. Live in your own reality, have a deep identity and suck the women in. When I went out in the daytime I was not centered, it felt like I was trying to grab my reality instead of just trusting that it was there. I got blown out 5 or 6 times back to back to back. There was no depth...but then I realized it and connected back to my core...You can see the difference by stepping out of you reality and then centering it back...

Note: When interacting with women now, I actually accept giving up my center if something she did attracted me. Then I center back. This is how women figure out what wins me over.

So in the daytime what did it look like when I got my center...
- Opened a 5mixed set of 4 male models and 1 female model. Centered and imposing my frame on the chick while blocking out the dudes, they stand there quiet.

- Opened a MILF saying "Isn't crossing this street wonderful" (VERBAL CONTENT DOESN'T MATTER) we joke about having rollerblades...this is sexually framed. She is qualifying herself and has no clue why I like her. She stops right by the subway steps waiting for me to lead...She was down to ****, just wants to be lead...

Note: When I talk it has nothing to do with the words...its the emotion/energy behind it and the frame I'm setting. I never run out of things to say and I always frame things as "I have insane creative verbals so you gotta keep up" Usually I will qualify the chick telling her how surprised I am that she can keep up with me...so no matter what random **** I say it's normal because my style of chatting is creative and not many can keep up with it.

- On the street, 2set taking pictures, I say "Aww that's not fair, you guys took a picture without me, now I'm sad" They're saying "Aww", I tease them. See an Ad behind them and name ourselves "Team Futurism". Eventually testing comes out, my target wants to be the leader...we go back and forth and then our team splits and I make "Team Guitar Hero". I eject after 5mins to go to the night venue.

- 2set walking towards me "Hey what would be your superpower if you were a hero." It blows up...upsetmidget wings. We stop them on the corner and spend 10mins vibing, it was clearly on but I wasn't attracted to my girl's body. Found out she's a model/Actress, (Face was gorgeous...not body)

- See a hottie who ooze female polarity. (I love highly feminine women) I say "Nice you got the hot *****y walk going on" she lights up saying she's not *****y but just in a rush...I rapidly get to know her and qualify her...I'm not getting much beside logistics so I qualify and frame it as her being able to keep up with my verbals, #close and walk away while on the phone with her.

Off to the night venue...I'm the party and self-generate all my emotions/energy. One thing I must point out I have ZERO approach anxiety and I'm always comfortable wherever I go so my state stays firm and my reality is strong. My focus was expand the party...meaning imposing my reality on others and sucking them into my party...I would either go rapidly through sets or hang with my wings creating our party and pulling in whoever passes by one example...
- 2set LA chicks from England, I tell them to stop because they have crossed into the greatest party, claw her, intro wing...3mins vibing and I go to kiss...no go...Mention my dislike for LA but my school wants me to go there. Find out there actresses in acting school in LA, other chick lives in Beverly Hills and hates LA. I marry my chick, they kiss, sargeteam guy comes in with his girl and wings...I tell my girl they have a 3way marriage and then I kiss her...somehow they end up leaving...

I remember the last time Summa and I were hanging out (we briefly hung out on my second night) I was telling him that I can't get into problems with guys...I can't get into a fight because I'm a total retard who is just having fun, upbeat and super positive...who would fight a guy like that. On the first day I seen it...but the third day I REALLY SEEN it...and MIXED SETS are NOTHING...
- Open a 5set talking about having our own Olympics swimming team and my wing joins but a AMOG is there too. Loud and obnoxious...I try to ignore but no go so I just say "Hey man its the swimming team here, what's your stroke style...aww ****!!" and I hi five him...he poofs away and I continue chatting these chicks up.

- End of the night for me an 8set comes in 2 guys 6 girls I tell them they most pose and introduce themselves. One poses the others aren't into it so I pose and introduce myself then they all say "Wow nice, what's your name...O his name is DL" and the girls are all into me...meanwhile the 2 guys have no clue what's going on...

Experience Of The Day
I have expanded the type of women I'm attracted too because of this. I seen what it was like to meet a chick who withdraws all interest. This was a great interaction.

I open a 2set and ask them what there super power would be if they were heroes...slim chick is quiet so I just call her a mute and I hug the friend. The friend is real cool...but the slim chick isn't...

Note: I'm always setting the tone moving to my own rhythm...I dictate social energy and interaction so when in set I'm moving it in whatever direction I want to move it in. I have boundaries I draw in a playful way and I constantly challenge/qualify to keep her on her toes for the hell of it.

Now I'm about 3mins in I see upsetmidget so I tap him and pull him in. I'm talking to the friend, she's fun and has a cool look. Then I see adonis and pull him into the set and then eject leaving upsetmidget and adonis with the chicks. Spot Adonis's cousin and tell him to go in and tell adonis to move them outside on the rooftop, which is where I'll be. He doesn't want to do it at first but I tell him I don't care if I get the girl's I just want to try and see what will happen. So he does it...Upsetmidget comes outside with NO CHICKS...he had ejected saying the slim chick was very unresponsive...I'm thinking its over but I spot adonis with them, I go back in because slim chick looks like she will ****block adonis.

Note: I don't look for IOIs, I just assume everything and if no go I'll calibrate and try again...if I was a guy who was looking at every IOI and IOD I would've never got nowhere because she showed no IOIs...her arms were crossed and she is looking everywhere but at me...but the only true IOI is her standing there.

I'm joking with her about her mute superpower...tell her what building she'd fly on, quick story...I start stroking her hair triangular gazing...I can see warlock over my shoulder him and his wing think I'm going for the makeout...I faked it and used that time to get her # just in case I lose her...because earlier in the night I missed many good ones who I assumed I'd see later.

Adonis tries moving his chick again, but my chick will not leave her friend. So I roll with them and we stop in a semi high traffic place...

I start solidifying the interaction, I go into a quick story, start stroking her hair, gazing and makeout...I pull back as if we didn't even makeout, chat some more and something she says attracts me and I makeout again but this time I tease and pull back an she comes forward kissing me, I pullback she comes in again with more tongue...so I run with it and pull back...

Note: My way of making a interaction solid is talking about many different topics rapidly, showing her why I like her and having her figure out how to attract me.

I seed for a day2 in the future we talk about union square so I show her a video of the huge pillow fight, spin her around making her backside lean on me. I'm kissing her neck and shoulder...while she watches it...I put my hand up her skirt and when the movie ends I spin her back around off me and continue chatting...

Note: As much as I am aggressive with escalation I'm always mixing up sensations with teasing, sensual stroking, passionate, swept by the moment contact. Its my way of giving the woman a physical experience...article coming soon.

I put my phone away and the traffic causes her to want to lean on me again, I turn her head to the side and we just tongue down...at this point I have no clue what happened...she eye codes adonis girl and wants to get a drink.

...As we leave a chick spots me saying "hi" I think I met her earlier...I just say hi and kiss her she was into it but I just walk away...no clue why...
 

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Day Two: Calibration Sensation Daytime Edition
I had realized the difference between not being centered and being centered. When you have depth you can't get blown out unless it's something legit and even then they'll still give you the time of the day.
- As I'm walking to my school I stop a chick by going direct, find out she's a model...The centeredness kept her there. I told her a quick story about my experience in acting school. We talked about food, places she's traveled...this chick was a bit dull at first I was telling her I'm close to walking away from her. I'm escalating with her on the street. Plowing for the # because she never gives out her #...the genuine screening that I do caused her to exchange #s and what I do now is have them speak on the phone with me as I walk 10ft away...I come back hug and kiss and go about my way. This all lasted about 5-10mins

Note 1: Looks don't intimidate me at all...chicks get there period, they ****, can smell stink, vomit, etc. There human not goddesses. Plus now I look beyond that...I want to know they can keep up with my vibe, so I'm never really affected when going up to a chick.

Note: 2 About 5 months ago I had written down what I value in women and its been growing more and more. So my actual screening is genuine which is what makes the chicks know I don't want them just because there hot...many chicks know I have options

Note 3: I don't mention how I go about this because escalating in the daytime can come off creepy especially a newbie who lack social intelligence. It's just obvious that I am very physical but it doesn't come from a place of horniness, it's pure fun with no outcome. My physical touch just adds to the reality were in with nothing but monumental fun.

- I opened a chick in front of the movie theater...good interaction but I see MILF Russian who I must approach, I don't even #close her friend comes and I slowly see her leave hoping I'd #close...I open the Russian forgot what I said. This chick shows NO IOIs (It's essential not to look at IOIs or IODs) Arms are crossed, body language is stiff, total unreactive face...I don't see that stuff though, I look beyond that. I forget the conversation but the importance is the interaction beyond the verbals. She gives me some BS answer about what she does so I accuse her of something. Then I take her on a roller coaster instilling different emotions/energy, one point I tell her she is my body guard because she is so stiff and the way she is I throw a future adventure projection and but on her mannerisms...she goes crazy qualifying herself and trying to throw congruence tests that has no effect on me. I couldn't get the # due to her waiting for her date who was turning the corner any minute...miss calibration on my part...but she was actually pissed that she had to go with him because she wanted to roll with me...O yea I was escalating physically with her...hahaha so much for IOIs...

Note: There was so much going on, the most important thing was DEPTH...that is what it was built on...then dictating the social energy and interaction...it is a must...women can't keep up with me generally which causes me to naturally disqualify her or actually like her for being able to keep up.

- I see a chick who looks interestingly cute...her and her friend happens open me...DEPTH...I lead the conversation somewhere else because she wanted to know of a good sushi place. I find out logistics if I wanted to pull I'd have to pull today. I claw her and kiss her on the cheek...YES on the street...she had commented on how easy it is to get American guys...hahaha...her friend pulls out the camera because my girl wants to remember this experience. I'm dedicated to going out in the night so I just say bye to her...

Note: The stuff I do happens in the moment...I never think about anything unless I'm consciously doing some little social glitch BT spikes, RAS, disengaging logic, cutting space, solidify interaction, winging dynamics, etc.

- This chick looked so sad that I had to approach her...I made the mistake of going in reality not realizing it at the time she was very standoffish...I know this because I started dictating **** and she opened up and actually was going to cry with joy...but then I feel back into her reality and she just went back to real sad...saying she really needs to be left alone...

There were many more great interactions...telling this 2set my tranny encounter stories...my ideal chick in a rush telling me to be a good boy tonight in the sexiest accent...me talking about some incest roleplay with this girl...

Day Two: Calibration Sensation Nighttime Edition Part 1
I had realized that on day one I had missed out on many chicks thinking I'd see them later on and # close. Today I bounced around and at the end of the night I went for makeouts HARDCORE fast...it was insanely fun...

The amount of community guys out today was...insane...but that never stopped me from approaching all the hottest chicks...introducing the HUGE lineup...
Summa & Friends - We all went full pull mode at the end of the night...I winged a few times with them and they winged for me too. One of them grabs a chick from about 6 dudes...because he was mad they were all in conversation land with her...he went crazy at the end of the night making out with two different hotties and one hottie getting mad because she saw him with the other and stated that he already had company...
RSD NYC Crew - What was left of it at the end of the night....L Prince, Maseo, and I...literally stayed until everyone was outside...and still were trying to pull...Maseo's oldie wants to be pulled by me or maseo...funny how we lose her in the elevator...a pull can be lost that easily...outside I had 2 more chances...
Warlock & Sargeteam - Didn't get to see them much but the chick that was surrounded by six guys...warlock ended up # closing and having a funny little kiss problem...hahaha...
Vybelist Guys - Always see one particular guy when out in the daytime he surprised me when he spotted me and I hung with one of his friends...earlier in the night they had some chicks but they disappeared so they cameback...cool guys...
Unknown Community Guy - Hilarity ensues as I remember how me and him met...I was going to blow him out and he was going to blow me out...he also was one of the only guys trying to take back the girl from summa's friend...

As I get in there I see a MILF by herself, I later find out from warlock that she is waiting for her ideal Jewish rich man. Even though I'd like to think it was my fault why I didn't get with her because I ****ed up big time...centeredness was in and out then I was reactive each time I tried reopening....I tried maybe 5 or 6 times...4 times I was with other hot chicks...she was so locked up that the last time I tapped her and she says "You don't touch women" But ironically the first time we met she we were inches away from each other's face and I had clawed her in...it was my fault...

Anyway I create the party within my group or expand the party doing my rapid sets...this time I was going for # closes...
- I forget how this happened but I think I grabbed her by the bar saying "I don't think we met" vibe about some stuff...qualify...basically making it solid...I move her outside on the rooftop grabbing her hand an leading her...I meet her friend and co-worker guy...we talk about karaoke...I kiss and # close her...

- I see a TALL chick...my ideal woman physically...stop her telling her she crossed the greatest party. Find out she's a lawyer but she's very witty...I'm escalating hardcore...this chick is actually witty and fun...I # close also spoke on the phone with her roleplaying that I see a cutie and I'm going up to her...walkup to her and kiss close

- 2set with upsetmidget...these chicks were real cool. Forget how we met I think I stopped them when they were walking by...because me and upsetmidget usually joke around with each other and pull chicks in...I remember me and upsetmidget debating about whether I should **** my female friend...we bring the two chicks in the conversation...we start talking about dildos and I say she has a arsenal of dildos...me and upsetmidget are having a blast...I'm escalating I kiss her eventually...but I forget her name, they don't want to tell me...I had qualified about food and they were going to bring there guy friends in so when I get her # I call her pizza lover in my phone...

At one point me and L prince go around expanding the party...later in the night me and L prince stops these two chicks I have her stop pose and say her name...then I marry her take pics...kiss her cheek then try to makeout...hahaha...friend pulls her away...
 

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Day Two: Calibration Sensation Nighttime Edition Part 2
Anywho onto the Saga...
Las Vegas 2set...Penthouse? Escorts? Trophy Wife?
This interaction lasted between 20-30 mins...I had no clue who I wanted so I tried getting with both...I tell them were starting our Olympics swimming team...I start dictating the social energy...the short chick can't keep up with me I joke on her...were vibing and I'm escalating...I start trying to makeout...no go...she is impressed with my confidence and how centered I was...she was very tired and kept qualifying that she can handle me but just not today...she wanted to go sleep and comeback tomorrow and hookup with me...because they leave on Sunday...she stated that she knows I have no problem getting with women so I didn't need to lay her tonight...

Then enters random community guy...he comes in good and he's escalating...at first I'm cool with him being there because I thought he'd get blown out...we both ignore each other...haha...I see him rubbing her stomach...I want to blow this guy out because he might be a problem, my girl wants to blow him out and asks me to help...I tell her to pull her and will go on the roof but she can't cause there hiding from many guys...she is girl coding her and tugging her but this guy has her hooked...she decides her only bet is go sleep and meet me tomorrow...

Me and the guy are both laughing at how close we were...I tell him he was about to get blown out and he said he was going to get his girl to get my girl to blow me out...haha...were cracking up about the conspiracies he asks if I was community...he is...we part ways but I see the 2 chicks later in the night...

I reopen them at this time summa and his friend's were in the venue. So out of nowhere they come wing for me which was cool...I think "the judge" came and winged first...then summa's other friend (Don't know his community name)...then summa...

Unknown Community guy shows up again...he didn't realize it was me...haha so he says "O you guys getting married" I just say yep and grab her...we smirk and nod...then he leaves...

Now at this point short chick goes chatting with the waitresses...I'm alone with tall chick, escalating and go for the makeout I get the cheek...she then starts testing me like crazy...and talks about Summa's shirt...

This chick is so superficial, I get pissed at her for talking about my friend and I am about to walk away but she begs saying sorry...then qualifies herself talking about going to a play with some famous producer, then talks about her hanging with leonardo dicaprio...her makeup on her eye lashes matches her dress (She pointed it out when I commented about it) ...after she had talked about SUMMA I changed the whole vibe and punished her...

She kept the interaction going and I was pulling back my RAS...she tried touching me to get me to respond...eventually we go back to her friend and they head downstairs to sleep and she tells me to meet her tomorrow because she'll be ready for me...NO WAY in hell was I going to be able to find her...

It's funny how the chicks were impressed with my friends...because we all have our way of being and she basically was putting as...her never meeting a social circle of guys who are all centered dudes...

Experience of the day: "JUST PULL"
This was the greatest thing ever...me and two of summa's friends (Don't know there community names) I'll call them "Balla" and "Z"...I wanted to just escalate hardcore because there wasn't much time left...so I tell balla we need to pull...
- Balla reopens a girl he had introduced me to earlier, this time she had a friend...I escalate on the friend who barely speaks English...claw, stroking hair...I go for the makeout, get a kiss but she pulls away and tells me about her BF in France...we vibe as I try to stay while balla gets with his girl...she's on his lap if I remember correctly...I'm escalating at a steady pace now because I'm mainly just holding her attention. Language barrier...but I have her teach me phrases...she soon wants to teach me how to say "I wanna **** you"...I'm trying were having a blast...soon balla's girl is ready to leave and as my girl leaves she says "I wanna **** you" in French...hahahaha...the steady escalation helped...

Note: This chick knew barely any English...but the sub-communication and me evoking emotions/energy caused us to still vibe, so escalation was cool...

What happens next consist of going for the makeout in less than 1min...
- 3set passing through I just grab her saying who are you and where your from...then I say I like you and go for the kiss...she pulls away after a peck and then friend's pull her off...

- See cute Italian chick say who are you...she's Italian and loves food...go for makeout, no go, just a kiss...

- Go up to this little cutie and she instantly tells me we to leave because her BF is coming any minute...hahaha...

- 2set I say "I don't think we met" I claw her and intro myself...go for kiss, she pulls away...I try again...and again...hahaha...she has to go...

- Grab a chick walking by telling her I like her and I escalate hardcore....she is saying she can't diss the guy she is with so I try to # close but right when were about to the guy comes...she's so into me and were like smiling because we know what was about to happen...I eject...

- 4set mixed set, indian chicks...escalate quick, met the female friend and I try to makeout but I get the cheek...I get the cheek 4 times...meet her guy friend who I say hi too and he even tries helping me by pushing her into me...after maybe the 7th attempt I kiss her...hahaha...the female friend pulls her away...

It was insane...I loved it...it wasn't solid stuff at all more like an exercise...I had learned a a lot...but it didn't end here...

I'm tired and sit with L prince watching maseo with his oldie and Z making out with two different hotties...but me and L prince are still joking around saying keep going...I get up...open 2 more sets...lights come on maseo introduces me to Oldie and she grabs me and goes arm in arm...she can probably see my mentality...we lose her at the elevator because bouncers says its full...she said she'd meet us at the lobby to go eat but never did...haha...but outside its raining so we open whoever is there...
- Open a 3set waiting for a cab, I just speak to my girl, escalating hard...she is into it, go for kiss...she moves and I end up kissing her cheek...friends grab her and run in the rain to get a taxi...(Should've ran with them?)

- Mixed 6set...2 dudes and 4 girls...I grab the girl from Pakistan...she leaves Sunday...I end up taking a picture with her and that's it...

- Winged with L Prince and Maseo...on a 4set of indian chicks...Maseo # closes his girl and then they go for taxi

- Right as we run in the ran...I open a mixed 2set saying "It's raining, I'm going to drown, lets take my helicopter, press the button on my wrist" She does and I grab her running in the rain...the guy was loving it but I let her go back...
 

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Day Three: The Test
Final day for the nighttime, then a ****load of schoolwork...I had ate a lot of food with L prince and some of my friends from school. I didn't want to go out...

This was my plan...go full, be very low key, have the girl just qualify herself, stay in one set for hours...did I do it...**** NO...I couldn't my mind was telling me to tear it up...

I learned that my mind thinks it's better to tear it up than be chode...before I mention that lets check the lineup...
NYC Crew - L Prince, Loren, Adonis, and I was the only people tonight that actually stayed.

So the night starts at the entrance...me and Adonis's cousin are waiting for the elevator, I chat with the 4 chicks behind us, me and Adonis's cousin looks so "A crowd" there because all RAS is on us. Some chick in the back is gazing at me, I bring her into the party...then some chick taps me thinking I work there I engage her and somehow talk about me having a 12 pack...so I take her hand and put it on my chest...

So much for being full, low key and staying in one set...EXPAND THE PARTY
- Spot a 7set and I BLOW IT OPEN...were starting a OLYMPIC team, but I can only choose 3 of them...there jumping up and down raising there hand wanting me to pick them...I tell them to do a giant group hug...I toast to water...hahaha...I'm vibing with 3 main chicks because I had no actual target, so I'd escalate with one, then the other, and then the final one. I tried making out with 2 of the 3...they end up leaving that bar.

- Open a chick standing alone, forget what I said, maybe about her waiting for me, escalating claw, holding waist...about to go for makeout but hear her mention anniversary...so I back off...husband comes, say HI...find out they met here a year ago...funny story, I eventually eject...

I then spot Adonis...with a hottie but the friend looks bored...I decide to wing him even though he hates guys coming in to wing and wrecking his sets...I have understood what having depth is so I go in...
- Say what's up to Adonis...he introduces me, I call Adonis the coolest man ever, we have to move so I lead my girl. Were vibing about my school, her driving back to MI to teach senior's in high school...I'm escalating and teasing her because students are going to want her. We roleplay a lot...how the guys will come on to her, how she will walk in and how that one guy will get with her and makeout with her...I attempted to kiss her 3 times, first time I got the cheek and then second time lips, then right before she leaves she pulls away...she was enjoying herself but I forget why they left. I liked this interaction...Adonis told me he kissed his girl and # closed because his girl lived in NY...

More winged sets...
- I walk by and see a UNIQUE black chick, I say hi...I hear her ACCENT...instantly I'm hooked, it's two chicks from London, they came to NY to shop. This area is so high traffic that we kept getting moved so I claw them both in the corner and some guy says I can't stand there...so then were back in this high traffic place and the HOT black chick has to stand across from me...luckily L Prince shows up and wings...so I talk to the other one...it's stable for a bit I tell a story of a music video I did for a pornstar...the girl I did the part with was BIG fetish model in lingerie...funny story. I take a picture...I get bumped around and I just give up because I ended up outside from the amount of people...

- 2set, from long island I open them saying "I don't think we've met"...I bring L Prince in saying "This is the coolest Japanese guy ever"...I'm escalating, things are going pretty good...picture time...I should've went for the kiss, but I vibe a bit more and eject...

- Winged Loren, he kept using an accent...funny ****...this interaction was pretty long, I was just holding the set, I wasn't attracted to my girl. So many things happened, I told them some BS ritual...haha where me an Loren kisses our girl on the cheek...then full on makeout...hahaha...my girl pulls back, not sure about Loren's chick...Loren moves her to the bar...I escalate with my girl while vibing...go for kiss again, I get the cheek, she says she has BF in Germany. She removes my hand from her neck and waist...I keep vibing, but now I screen her and try to solidify everything, I reescalate and she's cool with it...This chick isn't interesting so when Loren comes back I tell him I divorced her and Loren's girl hugs her...LOREN then says "What! You've been whoring around, you *****" in that accent he was using, I'm rolling my girl is loving it...I claw her back in saying that we were both nympho's and ****ed way too much so he doctor said we should divorce...I tap Loren indicating to eject...I'm about to leave but I see Loren going for the # and my girl was about to walk off to the bathroom so I grab her back to buy time for Loren...

Warning: The Claw Unleashed
I was pumping my own state telling L Prince and Adonis that the CLAW was controlling me...

Note: During this moment I was assuming that all women have chosen me already so now I'm just giving them the chance to meet me. I would try to be low key and I'd just walk very slow and say out loud "I'm Eckhart Tolle"...when I clawed it was the women's chance...

I'm just grabbing and pulling chicks in...I did it 15 times...but forgot how majority of them went down...having a hardtime remembering any of the 15 all I know I would go in clawing them and saying "Who Are You", "Like pokemon, I choose you", "I didn't meet you, yet", "Hi", "Welcome to the Partay"
- I do remember this mixed 4set of 3 girls and 1 guy. This was very cool as my girl was saying she had skinny dipped in the pool and how she was sneaking into the pool one time...we start roleplaying and acting out us being spies sneaking in the pool I hug and grab her...went for the kiss but no go...keep chatting...met the friends and the guy...orbiter but cool guy...he takes pictures of them. I hang back a bit find out logistics of my girl, she's from LA and is leaving soon but her friend lives here...I want to switch targets...eventually I just go back to my girl just to try and go for the kiss...I get a peck on the lips and she pulls back.

- I was going to wing adonis in a 2set but spotted a Ethiopian woman eyeing me so I just say "Who are you". Escalating while finding out logistics, I end up going for the kiss early after her turn to go to the bathroom was up. I get a quick peck and she goes in the bathroom...I don't even wait...I end up leaving...She lived in NY, and was pretty cool from the brief conversation.

- There was a HUGE mixed set of business guys and rich women...I grab two with the claw...one is wearing a fur. I start escalating instantly, things are going ok, but I get ****blocked because I pay most attention on the chick with the fur...

- I open a 2set who is blowing me out but I plow, find out there looking for there friend. Eventually they find her and we chat for awhile. Find out logistics, where she's from...do some impressions of chodes, rich guys, and creepy touchy guy. This is all because some AMOG comes in trying to offer her drinks at his table...I ignore him...she mentions how she hates guys touching her...all the while I'm escalating...I had cold read her saying she's not affectionate...she had qualified herself...and I was escalating...then I go on my phone talking to different chick and disqualify myself (NEVER AGAIN) saying I have 3 girlfriends and there all cool with it...at first it was cool but then it came off as button pushing...eventually she gave up and the set dies...

- I then open a 2set at the bar...I'm escalating on both of them...this interaction is great but dies FAST when I disqualify myself...she literally tells me to just walk away because she'd be sad if I washer BF and came out doing what I was doing...I keep escalating but she literally pushes me off her...

Experience Of The Day: Monumental Experience
The coolest experience all weak, because it put my identity to the test and it also caused me to want to put myself in more situations like this...

Basically I'm leaving to go meet Adonis...I do one last set before I leave, I see a TALL HOTTIE on the dancefloor...I just walk up and open, not even dancing. I tell her we haven't met yet. Turns out it is a 3set...Then all of a sudden, 3 guys come out of NOWHERE and engages the 2 other chicks...I find that helpful so I leave them but a 4th guy comes and grabs my girl's hand.

Note: Now my way of dealing with AMOGs is either ignore or befriend. If still a problem I impose my reality on them to literally paralyze them with social pressure

Well I tried ignoring him but he pulled her away so I pull her in and hold her by the waist. She then jokingly says she's desirable by old 40 year old men. After I try to move her outside away from this guy and he grabs her again pulling her away from me. In my had I'm thinking..."Haha so he wants to get my girl uh"

I grab her hand pulling her and this guy gets hostile yelling and wanting to fight...I can't even see it, I don't buy into his frame. I'm just imposing my reality on him and blocking his reality out...it's working wonders...I grab me girl and her friend, double spin them and I pull my girl in by the waist...It's over for him so he takes a big Grey Goose bottle and threatens to smash it over my head...This is when I roll up on him with total gibberish and paralyze him, I straight hi five him and he is totally sucked in my frame. But I then realize the chick has moved and I'm pissed that he made me lose the girl...so I end up leaving but at the sametime loving the amount of fun I had AMOG battling the guy. Not once did my state change...this was the coolest experience in all of the 3days...
 

Snow Plowman

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Lessons Learned
I learned a ****load but this is a summary of the main things...
- The Method: Going from point A to B as quick as possible, assuming everything and being indifferent whenever the assumption is wrong, then just calibrate and try again.

- Depth/Centeredness: You must live in your own reality and dictate the conversation and evoke the emotions/energy's you want to put in the interaction

- No = Not Yet: Many of the women I tried escalating with, I got the kiss after 2-5 tries...first attempt would be less than a minute in usually

- Solidify Interactions: Naturally screen and have her trying to figure out what attracts you. This is very powerful, also just having a great vibe...when #closing call them up right there and move 10ft away from them...all my #s were solid and I've chatted with all of them.

- Escalate from the start...I always used to do this even in the daytime...but in the nighttime you can just go for the makeout quickly if you want...daytime too but there is certain foundations you must have that way you don't come off creepy...

- Mixed sets are the easiest sets in the world...most of the time they'll leave, it's easy to handle these guys ESPECIALLY if your reality is strong and your style is very reality imposing like...the guys will generally just poof away.

- Go for the #close in every set...you might not see these chicks after that interaction...so get the # just in case...the chicks I spoke on the phone to...they all knew I probably met many different women

- Expand your physical types...many different women I would've never approached but after escalating with them and realizing that they had great bodies just like my ideal type...has caused me to expand the types of women I go for.

- Feel Good/Draw State From Within: This is how you always stay in state regardless of external situation because you evoke all your emotions.

- Social Vibing: It doesn't matter what your saying, what matters is the emotions/energy's you evoke into the interaction, think of it like a pot that you evoke emotions into and over time the vibe builds up and builds up until it has a release, then it goes over again. Each build up and release is a brief experience of the whole interaction...if you keep prematurely breaking the vibe.

- Being 100% certain about whatever your saying or doing and believing everything is an expression of "who you are" so it's interesting and valuable regardless

- Knowing that people enjoys a good vibe and that everything you do is offering value.

- Always being present and never thinking...only time I quickly think is when calibrating after an assumption was wrong...this takes really no thought after awhile.

- Enjoy the interaction fully...like Eckart Tolle says...everything must come to an end...eventually the interaction will end. So just enjoy the emotions and experiences and never get negative about anything when it ends

- listen...I realize it's not the words that you listen too...it's everything BUT the words...voice, facial expressions, body language, energy behind what she's saying...all of a sudden the girl becomes more attractive because your looking beyond her looks and also she becomes WAY more attractive when you focus on the things I just mentioned

- Really step up and cross the other side...soon it will be impossible to be chode because being chode will eventually feel like a newbie who I trying to step up...it just won't feel good being chode and your mind won't let you

- Silence is deadly...build sexual tension, causes her to qualify herself, causes her to keep the conversation going. Problem is most guys think the woman will just run off because it's silent...but it was a purposeful silence...not a "I ran out of things to say" moment

- Just PULL...as much as your not caring about the outcome you should always be moving towards the close. Your living in abundance, she is still standing there so it's ON and persistence with indifference means you can keep going for as long as you want...literally she'll have to run away if your indifferent...BUT you must always be escalating from the start...

- Move to your own drum beat, dictate the social energy and overall interaction. You should always be moving the interaction in whatever direction you want it to go. Launch into whatever story, be off topic, do what you want it's your own flow

- Have and asset boundaries that way she can play around and figure you out, you are like a puzzle to her

- Challenge/Qualify: I notice this disrupts chicks realities a lot and keeps hem on there toes...I do this for fun and find it highly entertaining
 
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