The girl im seeing is off to uni and so am I. . . Can she be trusted...?

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My gf and i are both off to different universitys about a 125 miles apart.
Now this girls means alot to me we've been seeing each other since april this year (but we have had a thing sometime last year which lasted around 2months, she ended it because i was being too much of a jerk.

She was really into me still and so was i but we were both oblivious to that fact. So she found a rebound to get over me, whereas i improved my self and concentrated on my life. After about 6 months we both started seeing each other again (long story short).

Anyways...she is beautiful so she gets 'hit on' everywhere she goes... the stories she tells me about how guys hit on her are bloody hilarious, it shows how many afcs there are out there. I always say to her "its guys like them that make guys like me look better":D

Now i'm a little scared about what could happen to our relationship through uni, i guess we'll be seeing each other about every 2 weeks. She is a decent girl as far as i know (we are both virgins), she might be a little flirtatious with other guys ... but so am i with the ladies. All girls love attention right?

We've been through alot together over the past year and we have a special bond. We're not officially together and last week i svcked on her t!ts...so i guess she is really into me.

I will be seeing her this week so we will discuss how we plan to go about our situation. Is there anything in specific i should ask her?
Anythoughts on long distance relationships?
 
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Roy said:
My gf and i are both off to different universitys about a 125 miles apart.
Now this girls means alot to me we've been seeing each other since april this year (but we have had a thing sometime last year which lasted around 2months, she ended it because i was being too much of a jerk.

She was really into me still and so was i but we were both oblivious to that fact. So she found a rebound to get over me, whereas i improved my self and concentrated on my life. After about 6 months we both started seeing each other again (long story short).

Anyways...she is beautiful so she gets 'hit on' everywhere she goes... the stories she tells me about how guys hit on her are bloody hilarious, it shows how many afcs there are out there. I always say to her "its guys like them that make guys like me look better":D

Now i'm a little scared about what could happen to our relationship through uni, i guess we'll be seeing each other about every 2 weeks. She is a decent girl as far as i know (we are both virgins), she might be a little flirtatious with other guys ... but so am i with the ladies. All girls love attention right?

We've been through alot together over the past year and we have a special bond. We're not officially together and last week i svcked on her t!ts...so i guess she is really into me.

I will be seeing her this week so we will discuss how we plan to go about our situation. Is there anything in specific i should ask her?
Anythoughts on long distance relationships?
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They don't last very long. And the ones that do involve infedility on someones part. Sorry, but it's over.
 
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Whatever your plan will be, I hope that a mutual devirginisation party is the #1 item on the list.

Other than that, a LDR at your age won't work and even if you both stay faithful, it's still gonna be detrimental to your development.
 
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Not gonna work. Sorry man but experience and testimony from countless others prove it.

It's just to difficult for the two of you. Unless you see each other on a regular basis, the temptation to cheat is too great.

Unless you're an AFC and you'd gladly fap to a picture of her in a bikini with some new UNI guy she just met, but hey, she says they're just friends right?
 
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Nope.

She's gonna get lonely and as a result of that she's gonna find some guy or some guy will find her and she will get d!cked down.

She will have a variety of college c0ck to suck on and suck on it she will.

Being through a lot together doesn't mean sh!t in the modern world.

I've been through a lot with supposedly very good friends as well as girlfriends only to get the knife in the back eventually when I guess they viewed me as no longer useful.

Watch the movie Jarhead to find out how well long distance relationships play out.
 

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ya dude your relationship is shot. College is like one large movie studio where they shoot porn all day. Debauchery at its finest. The dorms are like a giant structure designed for mating, drunk urination on walls, and weed smoking..
She's going to be studying deep throat 101 and by time you see each other during winter break she'll already have a Phd in it man..

If you have to stay with her.. keep your eyes out for the better catch and don't hesitate to upgrade when you can.
 
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It's over man. Even if she doesn't cheat on you...the question then becomes can she trust you. This happened to me my first year of college, she kept asking me where there other girls, telling me how much I changed, made flat out accusations...all the while she was seeing someone else. Enjoy it till the end but know in your head its doomed. That way its just fun when you see her. Go date other women in college. Also girls love the fact that you have a girlfriend (preselection) but since she isn't at that school they will still get with you.
 
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3countriesPlan said:
ya dude your relationship is shot. College is like one large movie studio where they shoot porn all day. Debauchery at its finest. The dorms are like a giant structure designed for mating, drunk urination on walls, and weed smoking..
She's going to be studying deep throat 101 and by time you see each other during winter break she'll already have a Phd in it man..

If you have to stay with her.. keep your eyes out for the better catch and don't hesitate to upgrade when you can.
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Lol what a great way to put it.

Listen to him long distance relationships dont work, If your gf is hot than she will get ****ed...plain and simple. The only reason she is a vergin now is because her parents probobly were strict and kept telling her to wait or whatever. When she is on her own and everyone in her dorm is ****ing she is going to want to join in on the fun.
 
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Roy said:
My gf and i are both off to different universitys about a 125 miles apart.
Now this girls means alot to me we've been seeing each other since april this year (but we have had a thing sometime last year which lasted around 2months, she ended it because i was being too much of a jerk.

She was really into me still and so was i but we were both oblivious to that fact. So she found a rebound to get over me, whereas i improved my self and concentrated on my life. After about 6 months we both started seeing each other again (long story short).

Anyways...she is beautiful so she gets 'hit on' everywhere she goes... the stories she tells me about how guys hit on her are bloody hilarious, it shows how many afcs there are out there. I always say to her "its guys like them that make guys like me look better":D

Now i'm a little scared about what could happen to our relationship through uni, i guess we'll be seeing each other about every 2 weeks. She is a decent girl as far as i know (we are both virgins), she might be a little flirtatious with other guys ... but so am i with the ladies. All girls love attention right?

We've been through alot together over the past year and we have a special bond. We're not officially together and last week i svcked on her t!ts...so i guess she is really into me.

I will be seeing her this week so we will discuss how we plan to go about our situation. Is there anything in specific i should ask her?
Anythoughts on long distance relationships?
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Sorry buddy but Its over. If i were you, I'd start detaching myself now because if you try, you will only end up getting hurt. You dont have to end things with her on a friendship level but other than that. Id prepare my self for the inevetable, which is... she will meet new people, especially guys, and end up doing something. Oh and one other thing, she will blame it on her being lonely.
 
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Yeh your relationship is over BUT.. Her is what you do so you can keep F'ing her when you do se her...

Break up with her first tell her she is great and that you will always love her blah blah blah but she needs time to explore and find herself blah blah.. Tell her you will miss her and look forward to seeing her when ever possible.. i.e. when she comes home on vacation etc..

She really wants the same thing but will prefer to BS you and string you along for dramatic effect but this way you have all the power and I guarantee she will F you when she comes home....

DO NOT LET HER DUMP YOU FIRST
DO NOT ACT POSSESSIVE
DO NOT TRY TO MARRY HER

LET HER BE FREE AND SGHE WILL REWARD YOU WITH PU$$Y LATER ON...
 
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I would write this off bro. all good things must end.
 
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Fellas, i took your advice, and we mutually ended it today. I hope i did the right thing because i feel like sh!t right now.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Fellas, i took your advice, and we mutually ended it today. I hope i did the right thing because i feel like sh!t right now.
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You just saved yourself future heartache. i know u feel bad now but it was all for the best and you protected your heart.
 
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Fellas, i took your advice, and we mutually ended it today. I hope i did the right thing because i feel like sh!t right now.
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SHE FEELS BAD TOO.... UNTIL SHE HOPS ON HER FIRST 3 NEW D!cks by next week...lol Go find you some new hos..
 
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SHE FEELS BAD TO.... UNTILL SHE HOPS ON HER FIRST 3 NEW D!cks by next week...lol Go find you some new hos..
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LoL :crackup: thats mean but sadly... it has some truth to it.
 
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If she didn't want it to end she would have fought for it. She was thinking the same thing you were. You did the right thing.
 
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