1. Anything a person chases in life runs away.
2. The person who has another person climbing the walls for them isn’t always exceptional. Often, they are the ones who don't appear to care that much.
3. A person who is perceived as offering a mental challenge is one that the other person doesn't feel they have a 100 per cent hold of.
4. Sometimes a person will deliberately won't call, just to see how you'll respond. They want to know if you got options and thus willing to walk away.
5. If you start out by displaying dependency on someone, it’s a turn off. You’re not going to contemplate a relationship with someone who needs looking after. After all you have enough to worry about in your own life let alone someone else. But if you are someone who she can't have at the drop of pin, you become more of a challenge to get and thus more attractive, because human’s value what they perceive requires effort.
6. It is your attitude about yourself that a woman will adopt.
7. Act like a prize and you'll turn her into a believer
8. The biggest variable between an afc who is too nice to fear and a real man is that the man shows that he's not afraid to be without her.
9. If the choice is between his dignity and having a relationship, a man will prioritise his dignity above all else.
10. When a man doesn't give in easily and doesn't appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain him.
11. Being right on the verge of getting something generates a desire that has to be satisfied.
12. A man knows which woman will give into last minute requests.
13. Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options.
14. If you smother her, she'll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect their freedom.
15. Whenever a man requires too many things from a woman, she'll resent it. Let her give what she wants to give freely; then observe who she is. This is a test of a person’s true character.
16. A man should give a woman plenty of space so she doesn't fear being trapped in a cage. Then...she will set out to trap him in hers.
17. If you tell her you're not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, she’ll will set out to try and change your mind.
18. Always give the appearance that she has plenty of space. It gets her to drop her guard. Then you can evaluate what she is truly like. In the beginning of all relationships people always show a poker face. The quicker you can make them feel comfortable enough to drop it, you can then begin to see what they are really like and if you if like what you see.
19. More than anything else, woman watch to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on them. Women want someone who is stronger than they are and someone they can depend upon. A man should be the solid bedrock of any relationship.
20. She must feel like you chose to be with her, not that you need to be with her. Only then will you be equals and have a healthy level of mutual respect.
21. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is. It also factors into respect and women, women who you have sex with far too easily, will rarely become your girlfriend. Why? Because you’ll always assume if you can have her in a matter of days, then its part of her character and someone else will one day be able to do the same.
22. Sex and the 'spark' are not one and the same
23. Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex it reverses. Women know this hence their attitude towards sex and men.
24. A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.
25. Bad habits are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious effort and continuous refinement.
26. If a woman pulls the sexual plug at the last minute, she’s a tease, walk away and never look back. It’s a red flag.
27. A man of quality desires a woman who genuinely loves sex. If she has deep rooted issues over the subject ask yourself if she is really worth your time. She’s most likely emotionally damaged.
28. Any time a man competes with another man for a woman’s affections, he demeans himself. Whoever the ‘winner’ is, both have displayed a status lower than the girl they are fighting for.
29. Women who display a softer and more feminine nature appeal to our instinct to protect. When women act more aggressively and in competition for control they appeal to our instinct to compete. In other words, there can only be one man in a relationship and if she refuses to let it be you. Hold your head up and walk and know when to walk away. The constant rubbing together of the two forces will always end up in arguments and in time resentment.
30. The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
31. When a man acts as though he's capable of everything, he gets stuck doing everything.
32. Talking about the 'relationship' too much takes away the element of the 'unknown' and thus the mystery.
33. Men respect’s a woman who can communicate in a succinct way, because it's the language we use to talk to one another.
34. If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from you partner.
35. Most men are starving to receive something from a woman that they need to find from within themselves. This is why you need your life in order before you go searching for a relationship with a girl.
36. A man looks secure in a woman’s eyes when she can't pull him away from his life, because he is content with his life.
37. The second a man works overtime to make himself fit her criteria, he has lowered his standard in that relationship. That’s not to say you should be a lazy fool. But there is a middle ground in all relationships, meet her always in the middle unless there is a specific exception to the rule. E.G someone in her family died or she’s in hospital.
38. When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still 'right there'.
39. When the routine becomes predictable, she's more likely to give you the same type of love she had for her male friends- and the odds that she will take you for granted increase.
40. Negative attention is still attention. It lets a woman know that she has you - right where she wants you.
41. A little distance combined with the appearance of self control makes her nervous that she may be losing you.
42. A woman takes a man for granted when he's interested, but will no longer go out of his way.
43. She perceives an overly emotional man as more of a pushover.
44. In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt; a slightly aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
45. She'll forget what she has in you...unless you remind her.
46. Many men talk quickly and in a low voice when they are nervousness - which is something women will often perceive as insecurity.
47. Don't always do the same thing over and over. Vary it so it doesn’t always become a predictable routine. A women’s mind and eyes begin to wonder when she hears all the perceived fun her friends are having and she isn’t. Remember women like to share everything with their friends, they also in some cases like to show off to them to. It boosts their social status.
48. Most women tend to disrespect a man who appears to be too malleable.
49. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn her respect, in some cases it will even turn her on.
50. She'll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet financially.
2. The person who has another person climbing the walls for them isn’t always exceptional. Often, they are the ones who don't appear to care that much.
3. A person who is perceived as offering a mental challenge is one that the other person doesn't feel they have a 100 per cent hold of.
4. Sometimes a person will deliberately won't call, just to see how you'll respond. They want to know if you got options and thus willing to walk away.
5. If you start out by displaying dependency on someone, it’s a turn off. You’re not going to contemplate a relationship with someone who needs looking after. After all you have enough to worry about in your own life let alone someone else. But if you are someone who she can't have at the drop of pin, you become more of a challenge to get and thus more attractive, because human’s value what they perceive requires effort.
6. It is your attitude about yourself that a woman will adopt.
7. Act like a prize and you'll turn her into a believer
8. The biggest variable between an afc who is too nice to fear and a real man is that the man shows that he's not afraid to be without her.
9. If the choice is between his dignity and having a relationship, a man will prioritise his dignity above all else.
10. When a man doesn't give in easily and doesn't appear docile or submissive, it becomes more stimulating to obtain him.
11. Being right on the verge of getting something generates a desire that has to be satisfied.
12. A man knows which woman will give into last minute requests.
13. Whether you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options.
14. If you smother her, she'll go into defense mode and look for an escape route to protect their freedom.
15. Whenever a man requires too many things from a woman, she'll resent it. Let her give what she wants to give freely; then observe who she is. This is a test of a person’s true character.
16. A man should give a woman plenty of space so she doesn't fear being trapped in a cage. Then...she will set out to trap him in hers.
17. If you tell her you're not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet, she’ll will set out to try and change your mind.
18. Always give the appearance that she has plenty of space. It gets her to drop her guard. Then you can evaluate what she is truly like. In the beginning of all relationships people always show a poker face. The quicker you can make them feel comfortable enough to drop it, you can then begin to see what they are really like and if you if like what you see.
19. More than anything else, woman watch to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on them. Women want someone who is stronger than they are and someone they can depend upon. A man should be the solid bedrock of any relationship.
20. She must feel like you chose to be with her, not that you need to be with her. Only then will you be equals and have a healthy level of mutual respect.
21. If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is. It also factors into respect and women, women who you have sex with far too easily, will rarely become your girlfriend. Why? Because you’ll always assume if you can have her in a matter of days, then its part of her character and someone else will one day be able to do the same.
22. Sex and the 'spark' are not one and the same
23. Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex it reverses. Women know this hence their attitude towards sex and men.
24. A man intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.
25. Bad habits are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious effort and continuous refinement.
26. If a woman pulls the sexual plug at the last minute, she’s a tease, walk away and never look back. It’s a red flag.
27. A man of quality desires a woman who genuinely loves sex. If she has deep rooted issues over the subject ask yourself if she is really worth your time. She’s most likely emotionally damaged.
28. Any time a man competes with another man for a woman’s affections, he demeans himself. Whoever the ‘winner’ is, both have displayed a status lower than the girl they are fighting for.
29. Women who display a softer and more feminine nature appeal to our instinct to protect. When women act more aggressively and in competition for control they appeal to our instinct to compete. In other words, there can only be one man in a relationship and if she refuses to let it be you. Hold your head up and walk and know when to walk away. The constant rubbing together of the two forces will always end up in arguments and in time resentment.
30. The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
31. When a man acts as though he's capable of everything, he gets stuck doing everything.
32. Talking about the 'relationship' too much takes away the element of the 'unknown' and thus the mystery.
33. Men respect’s a woman who can communicate in a succinct way, because it's the language we use to talk to one another.
34. If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from you partner.
35. Most men are starving to receive something from a woman that they need to find from within themselves. This is why you need your life in order before you go searching for a relationship with a girl.
36. A man looks secure in a woman’s eyes when she can't pull him away from his life, because he is content with his life.
37. The second a man works overtime to make himself fit her criteria, he has lowered his standard in that relationship. That’s not to say you should be a lazy fool. But there is a middle ground in all relationships, meet her always in the middle unless there is a specific exception to the rule. E.G someone in her family died or she’s in hospital.
38. When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still 'right there'.
39. When the routine becomes predictable, she's more likely to give you the same type of love she had for her male friends- and the odds that she will take you for granted increase.
40. Negative attention is still attention. It lets a woman know that she has you - right where she wants you.
41. A little distance combined with the appearance of self control makes her nervous that she may be losing you.
42. A woman takes a man for granted when he's interested, but will no longer go out of his way.
43. She perceives an overly emotional man as more of a pushover.
44. In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt; a slightly aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
45. She'll forget what she has in you...unless you remind her.
46. Many men talk quickly and in a low voice when they are nervousness - which is something women will often perceive as insecurity.
47. Don't always do the same thing over and over. Vary it so it doesn’t always become a predictable routine. A women’s mind and eyes begin to wonder when she hears all the perceived fun her friends are having and she isn’t. Remember women like to share everything with their friends, they also in some cases like to show off to them to. It boosts their social status.
48. Most women tend to disrespect a man who appears to be too malleable.
49. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn her respect, in some cases it will even turn her on.
50. She'll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet financially.
