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Stéphane

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I give up, i'm the most likable guy out there, but I simply can't attract women. Like tonight for instance, i've approached women, and they all blew me off, then I eventualy met some cool guys, and they introduced me to a really nice girl. We hitted it off, I kino escalated, she then said that she had to go, this whole time she was interested, and I tried to get her number, but she blewed me off.

To make mathers worst, the taxi driver made me feel bad by going home alone.

Here's proof that looks, and money doesn't mather. I told her I was an investment banker, and the taxi driver even said so himself that i'm good looking, but it simply doesn't mather. Women simply, don't like me, they always act *****y, and treat me like dirt, I don't even know why I want to be with them anymore. I feel like ****.
 
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I hate to break it to you, but you're obviously not the most likable guy if women don't like you.

And I'm willing to bet you aren't as good looking as you think.

I mean, I don't really know what else to tell you bro.
 
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There's got to be something you're missing. Post a picture.

Maybe you come off as too needy.
 
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I agree.. Post a picture.. Believe it or not, a picture can tell a lot about a person. Their posture.. How they present themselves, etc...
 
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Stéphane said:
I give up, i'm the most likable guy out there, but I simply can't attract women. Like tonight for instance, i've approached women, and they all blew me off,

What do you mean you appoached them and they blew you off? Did you say "I can sing, I can dance, I can count in French, please sleep with me?" Or did you start with a good opener that she's not heard 423 times?

then I eventualy met some cool guys, and they introduced me to a really nice girl. We hitted it off, I kino escalated, she then said that she had to go, this whole time she was interested, and I tried to get her number, but she blewed me off.

Dude girls have to have a REASON to give you their number. They won't give it up because she talked to you for 5 min about your looks. What do you have in common? What do you like about them? What do you know about them? Or do you just want a sleep with her?

Here's proof that looks, and money doesn't mather. I told her I was an investment banker,

Did she ask you? If not, why did you tell her that? You should not be volunteering any information unless she shows you she cares.

and the taxi driver even said so himself that i'm good looking, but it simply doesn't mather. Women simply, don't like me, they always act *****y, and treat me like dirt, I don't even know why I want to be with them anymore. I feel like ****.
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IMHO, it sounds like you just want to sleep with a girl fast. Again, they have to a REASON to take your call or call you. I doubt that you had something in common with that girl you say you kino escalated.

Props on trying.
 
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Stop relying on the looks, money, job etc. Its not an interview that you need to pass. Turn things round and start screening them. It sounds like you're trying too hard to impress them. Fvck that sh!t - make them work to impress you! You can't just tick all the boxes then expect them to bang you. Ever heard a girl say there was 'just something about' a complete loser? Congrats on having most of life in order - you now need to start acting like the king of your life - they will come flocking when you stop giving a sh!t about what they like or don't and just do your own thing.
 
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you're probably not projecting a sexual vibe

sounds like you think you're the nice guy type of person

a woman may stick around for a bit of a chat with a nice guy, but won't e interested in sleeping with you
 
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Do you tell them your name is stephane? It sound like a woman's name. Try changing it.
 
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Stéphane said:
I give up, i'm the most likable guy out there, but I simply can't attract women. Like tonight for instance, i've approached women, and they all blew me off, then I eventualy met some cool guys, and they introduced me to a really nice girl. We hitted it off, I kino escalated, she then said that she had to go, this whole time she was interested, and I tried to get her number, but she blewed me off.

To make mathers worst, the taxi driver made me feel bad by going home alone.

Here's proof that looks, and money doesn't mather. I told her I was an investment banker, and the taxi driver even said so himself that i'm good looking, but it simply doesn't mather. Women simply, don't like me, they always act *****y, and treat me like dirt, I don't even know why I want to be with them anymore. I feel like ****.
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Of course they don't with an attitude and mindset like that. You've been here for quite a few months. You should know by now your problem: your attitude.
 
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You might not just be fun enough. That's bad but not an reason to give up, you just have to think about keeping yourself entertained, or in other intertained: inter means self, and tain and as in sustained. So keep your self intertained so you are never bored and if you are quikly change that. Girls love a guy who can make him self laugh and have fun because this shows, independance, a sense of humor, and a love for the more fun things in life.
 
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IMHO, it sounds like you just want to sleep with a girl fast. Again, they have to a REASON to take your call or call you. I doubt that you had something in common with that girl you say you kino escalated.

Props on trying.
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Good advice, thanks.

You say women don't like you but ask yourself do you like yourself?? Maybe they sense you're not too confident etc. It also sounds like you're trying too hard to get women and need to put the brakes on a bit.
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Yes I love myself, and I don't know how you can try to hard. I didn't approach everyone because I didn't want to DLV.

Do you tell them your name is stephane? It sound like a woman's name. Try changing it.
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It's a french name, and women always comment on it ok.

I think she was attracted, but I screwed up on the comfort part. Oh well.
 
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If you're an investment banker, you have the resources ($) to screw really hot escorts.
 
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FoolsCause said:
If you're an investment banker, you have the resources ($) to screw really hot escorts.
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I know, but I would feel like **** after.
 
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what i find in every woman... they like a funny, smart c0cky guy. they absolutely love a confident guy who says all the right words. i'm not being up myself but girls seem to want my attention everytime i go to a party (i mean not every girl.) but when i go to this party on the weekend (people i know) i have girls jumping at me telling about their new hair style, tattoo, tongue ring... asking for hugs, girls ask for my number. it all comes down to you being attractive to them. the looks thing is bullsh!t. it helps but not as much as the way you walk, talk, act, etc. its all about GAME BRO. even the way you stand or move with your arms when you talk to someone. that seriously changes a way girls think about you. some people are just gifted though lol.

i mean i have one friend. he acts really weird and fidgets alot. almost every girlFRIEND i know says he freaks them out cause he acts really strange around girls when he talks to them. he doesn't have his own COOL. he acts like a little kid as if he doesn;t know how to talk to a girl.
 
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