Need opinion on my approaches

I Got 35 approaches in this day, but....i will list the ones from where i came out of my shell properly and the ones i can actually remember. Guys i want to improve more though. last night i realised i can have quite a lot game and i know i still have a lot to learn. Any tips u have on improving my approaches i would really appreciate.

Alright i am going to start off with my approach on my hair, i had long hair and wasn't sure if i should style or cut. So i stopped a girl in the street and said: "hey could i talk to u for a second, i need a females opinion because i am going club tonight and i was wondering if i should cut or style my hair, what do u think?" she responded very well to it and said she liked how it is and i started teasing her saying shes just trying to b nice. Same approach again on another girl walking towards me"she said she liked guys with shorter hair, but she said i probablly don't go for girls her age" and i said "not necessairrly" smiled and exited. Third girl i stopped and she was like "yeh it looks kool how it is now u look lovely, where r u heading?" so i tell her and shes been to the same place and i am saying how my friend described it has a ghetto, but she disagreed and talked a bit more, Then i exited and said "bye".

I did my two direct approaches, which went hugely badly when i was going station. The first one was when i was walking from my house to station, i see a girl walking towards me and say "hey can i talk to u for a second" she smiles and looks back and just passes me, i think i might of said it a bit late. The second one was at station, i was going to get ticket and see some chick waiting pavement next to it. i convince myself to get ticket in second and do it now. I say "can i talk to u for a second, i noticed u from over there and just want to meet u, my name is jordan" *eye brow raised in suprise* three dudes i think from her college walk past has i say it and say who "ohhhhhh" and she just leaves me hanging...first time a chick never shaked my hand. she says "sorry can't tell u name" i said "why" she then replys with "because i am waiting here for my boyfriend" so i say ok and exit.

After this i am bit confused about where to get to this place i am meeting my friend and i find some chick and ask how to get there and she was very friendly. Then i Ased her a bit about the area, She told me she went school there....so i asked a few more questions about herself. Then the tube arrives and its full, but prob enough room for me and her, but i squeeze in and she goes to next cart. Hm maybe should of let girls go in first...lmao.

Next i get on train and a older woman (44) seats next to me and we r squashed up, so i move up a seat away and say "u know what i think this will b a bit better, but then again i don't think it will matter" with a smile....30 seconds later another younger girl enters and seats in between us so i say " see i told u" the younger woman goes "sorry".., so i say "nono i was just telling her someone would of took the spot anyway" she smiled, but still kinda unreactive. I look at the guy next to me and say see he has a suduko(number game) and i am like "so why r u doing the easy one" and he says "nah i am not ready for the other one" me and him joke around and i help him..., but i am pretty bored asking him u know what just give it to me i will do it he laughs and says "no!" (btw this is not me picking up the guy lmao), the i c the younger woman next to me has well to "so i say o u do it to" she smiles, but kinda fake i felt. anyways i keep teasing both of them and she becomes a bit more reactive in end, but leaves and guy gives me it to finish. .... So then i sit back next to older woman and say "lets not let anyone seperate us again" she laughs. Me and her talk long and i get new guy talking has well ...who also is a fan of suduko and muffed his one up. She touches me a lot and has her arm around my seat, but she mentions she has a husband when i ask about when we talk about her coming england. she says "maybe ill see u again" and i say "maybe in 7 years time, but ill probablly forget who u r by then" she laughs and then we go our seperate ways

I finally get there and see my friend, he says do u want to do a few approaches in the super market to warm up and i agree. He to my suprise does first approach with canned opener, i was impressed seeing i never used them. He gave me a few like "hey i was thinking of dying my hair completly blue hair because my girlfriend is coming back next week,u think its a good idea?", but i cudn't feel it so i customized it and said same thing, but took girlfriend out and added "would it b koolin a kind of crazy way" at the end. She was stunned, but very reactive and smiling, btw i don't notice a girl blinking, but she was blinking like a LOT anyone would of noticed it. I am not sure that is good, but a guy pushes trolly next to her and she puts something in it, so i say to the guy "i have been asking if its a good idea to dye my hair blonde, and she said maybe white streaks what do u think.. he was stunned and said it was alright like it is. Seeing the guy was there i said thanks and exited.

After that i ask a girl with her family where i can buy pens here showing them my leaking pen and my suduko newspaper part lol, they all smile and one says actually i have a pen. she gives it to me i say thanks and exit. I was thinking i would ask her to write her number down with her pen if i c her again, but i didn't lol.

Next one in supermarket, was about some wine, which i entered when my friend set it up, but can't really remember much on that one guys on that one. After this my friend points at girl looking at cards and gives me canned opener, but i say screw it i am going in natural. I pick up 2 cards with 4 on it, one with dora the explorer and one with cinderella lmfao and ask her which one she thought was better, i teased her a bit seeing she knew who dora was. Then after i said seeing u helped me i will help u on ur choice, she shows me two dad cards and i say "they suck and have no emotion" she replys "well i am not to close to my father". With that being said i say "still u gotta have a fun one, i got one for my friend, which was very funny , but its kinda offensive to women and sexual u wanna hear it?".... with no suprise she says sure so i say:

what do condoms and women have in common?

if they are not on ur **** there in ur wallet

She starts laughing, but just has i say the punch line a guy stands next to her and hands her cornflakes. So i say "hey man i was just trying to decide what card was better for my little cousin ? this one or that one, what do u think?" he gives his opinion and i say thank you to both of them and exit it.

After we decide to go to a pub quickly has we wait for my friends mate to give us a lift. So we enter there and i say could i have two red bulls (all approaches done sober), she hands them and i say "do u think this is a good idea sinch i have not slept for two days" she smiles and says "really?" and starts asking me questions and we chat for a while. I then sit down with my mate and has i get up i kinda instictivly let out a slight smile and she looks my way and gives me the hugest smile. So i say hey to her, but other barman comes over and says "what do u want" and i just reply "nah i was just saying bye, me and have kind of a thing" she smiles and i leave with my mate to next pub.

He sees some of his friends and i talk to them for a while and see a huge 20 balloon hanging in bar so i ask the two bar girls "whos 20, u" and she replys no and smiles i say to the other blonde one "r u" another "no" and i ask them whos birthday it is among a few more questions, but they were pretty busy and i got smiles from the brunette and the blonde, but i sensed a bit of fakeness in the blonde.

We leave anyways and then wait for ride, but never shows up, whilst waiting we see two girls walking past, but i for some reason ***** out even when the girl goes other side road and turns her head jus looking at me.

I feel bad i pussied out, but lucky us i see them heading to train so i open with "r u guys like stalking us" they smile, but kinda stunned at same time and say no we r not i then ask if shes heading same way has us , she says yeh, so i look at them and say "hmmm now i am really worried, don't u think its a bit of coincidence that ur heading w**** and she says no i am heading w******, so i say oooooo thought u said w****, but they both have w's and kinda sound the same with a smile they laugh and i exit to get tickets. When some dude with a chick call us and pats seat telling us to come over here and the chick looks like shes on drugs and says "please sit with us", The girl starts asking me questions and we get chatting to dude who seems kool guy and i say lol "so u going sell us some drugs then" and he says "sure" (didn't expect that answer..lol), but i say i was "jk". Anyway chick asks me "how old i am" i say "guess" she says "21....(no) 20....(no)....19...(no)...(18)" And i ask her age she says "18" and the dude says no ur not ur 18. she can't find phone and dude asks if he can borrow mine seeing his phone was dead to ring it. So I give it to him wondering if he would attempt to steal it, but he seemed kool and u just hear the music and vibration shes saying "its inside me" i am like "woah where did she put it" lol.

Anyways get on train, but i was thinking we should go other cart and talk to the other 2 girls. We getting chatting to chick and dude and the dude points at two even hotter chicks and shouts "hey come over here and talk to my two friends" they give a hmm look and the chick shouts "come on come over here" and they come bit closer looking at my mate and saying is it harry (he is not harry lol) and i am like yeh "its harry and i am steve lol". They come bit closer and laugh and says "its not harry" we get chatting to them anyways asking them where they r going. I say come to same place has us and they r like
HB7.5: "nah they will ask for i.d.",
RD:"how old r u lot then"
HB 7: 17
HB 7.5: 16
RD: O Ur Jail bait
*they laugh loud and Hb 7.5 punches my arm*
RD (notices his gf is 17) *And i playfully say while his cracking up* o dude sorry
Drug Dude: Ha ha its kool

Anyways we get off on next train to go next one and say bye to the dude and girl and get seats facing girls.

*HB 7.5 sticks her feet on my leg and moves it bit closer has she rests it, i stare and giv her a seductive smile has i move them to my crotch and she gives me one back*

RD: whats this ur drinking (looking at wine bottle in between HB 7's legs)
HB 7: Chardanay (smiles)
*grabs it and lifts it up a bit letting it rub on her she smiles*

(we talk for 10 mins but memory aint that great, friend does his routine 2)
Then after i write there names down on post it notes and say i am going get there numbers.
HB 7.5: O why u got post it notes and where did u get that pen
HB 7: Lol to write numbers down
HB 7.5: Sure but u gotta spell my name right
RD: *whispers in HB 7's ear "how u spell it")
HB 7: K...a...t.y haha
*hB 7.5 gives me some number was retardedly written and HB 7 was written neat*
*i kiss Hb 7 on cheek*
RD: Shes my favourite
HB 7.5: No way that is unfair
* after this i flirt bit more with HB 7.5 while friend does HB 7*
*i feel it and has we walk up stairs i grab her ass and squeeze it she smiles *
HB 7.5: O
*looks in my eyes, i turn way and am like i should kiss her, but this is to soon. so i say u r being a coward to myself and do it*
*kisses HB 7.5 on lips and we stop*
RD: o is that it
* kisses on lips again lasts a bit longer not much tongue though*
Hb 7.5: i am saving the rest later
RD: Alright kool we call u girls to meet up with us later.

I spank her ass (she smiles knowing she wants it) then I exit and we go to where all the clubs r at.
BTW GUYS UHHH THIS IS JUST THE START OF MY NIGHT LMAO

Alright so we head in first club and I talk to some of the dudes in club who were pretty kool. Then i go for my first set and i notice people r watching ultimate fighting and i say "why r u guys not watching it" and they reply "o like we want to see some men in underwear wrestle" eye brow raised and i am like "yeh u do, if there were two girls in there bra and panties do u think that the guys wudn't watch it, but then again they r watching guys wrestle 2." She laughs and gives her friend there this guy is a freak look, so i just feel it wudn't get anyway and say later. My friend is chatting to some dude with the girl, but i cudn't hear convo due to music so cudn't help.

I leave outside and i ask two chicks "what is the club that is out latest" and they list loads and i am like "u really know ur ****" "haha yeh we do"but i need to have one thats stays later than 3am seeing i need to stay up till 7am". i spot my friend and tell him to come over and me and him tease them on there smoking , but they asked if we wanted to come to a club with them (correct me, that was a huge freaking mistake...why go for other sets when u have a perfectly good one running), but i said maybe later we gotta hit some other clubs Next club is like a pub/bar my friend is in a set and i enter it and keep it in context. They say to him
RD:r u serious do u really have a sister getting a tattoo, is this ur cheesy chat up line.
Stu: nope, i c ur the bad one.
(isolates other girl has stu chats to other one)
RD: nah he means it, if we wanted to chat up we wud come up with some like u have beautiful eyes, not that u do
HB: r u saying i don't have beautiful eyes (smiling)
RD: Haha maybe, maybe not. it was just an example, i don't compliment girls.
HB : Why not
Rd: Not my style
*chat for bit, i c some dude looking at us on table near and think he could b trouble, so i exit and ask him if he knows what time this place is closing, he tells me and gives me bit more info and i giv my thanks and enter set again*
HB Friend: what champoo do u use?
RD: huh
HB: ur hair is really nice what champoo do u use, our friend asked us ours.
RD: (made some comment to do with her eyes can't remember)
HB friend: UR not looking at ur friend when u talk, means u r not good friend
RD: nah i am looking at her eyes they r so blue.
HB friend: nah ur not good friends we win
Stu: alright u guys win
*they high five eachother*
* i grab there hands and reverse it*
RD: Nah its retracted, i don't lose to girls.
RD: anyways we gotta go, so ill c u later
(kisses HB on cheek, HB friend moves back hugely)
Rd: Why u do that
(goes to kiss Hb friend on cheek)
HB friend: Sorry husband is watching (dude who i talked to earlier)
Stu: haha ok
*handshakes and i handshake her to*
*kisses HB on the cheek again*
RD: u get her one has well, later.

I think those are good. They are funny and you sound like you are confident and well-composed when you speak.

Thanks FireOnTheMountain

Next set we go to a really loud bar singing sweet home alabama in the background. My friend sees his set and goes for it positoned standing in between themon a small table, i didn't think i would b much help if it was this loud so i walk around looking. I see my shoe laces r untied, so i go to tie, but keep getting barged, so i see a 2 set
RD:Can i tie my shoes laces on ur seat
HB: sure, but blah blah if u can guess who sung blah blah
RD: Nah i don't
HB: Omdz they just played 3 minutes ago and said it
RD: Just got here
HB: Ok i let u off
*ties shoe*
RD: so can i tie the other one?
*HB moves up seat and pats it, i tie my shoe and sit down*
RD: So Who u here with.
HB: Chloe and jo, but shes gone to get drink
*waves to chloe*
We talk about some things that i really can't remember, but i cud only talk to Hb next to me because it was to loud.
*jo arrives and some other dude arrives, i shake there hands and greet them*
RD: so how is ur night going
Dude: great
*chats a bit more to me and then we talk about this old dude next to us breaking moves to love shack lmao*
RD: Alright guys i got to go and see how my friend is doing.

I exit and my friend says his one failed because they were german.

We go back to first club to chicks we met outside smoking and she has another two girl friends and a guy one. i greet guy and we chat a bit then i say hey to girls. One was kool and she grabbed me and started asking me what my name was, while the other one kinda smiled, but i felt it was fake. I get chatting to them bit more and i ask if they r leaving now to the other club, she says after another drink. So i just say kool and say alright we gotta meet some people in another club and we will b back.

We then go to next club and the ratio of guys to girls is 1:10, me and my friends r hanging at bar, hot girl next to me and my friend. I lean over

RD: so r there clubs with more girls here, i am thinking this is a gay bar.
HB: haha no....if it was i wudn't b here.
RD: o i c u like the attention.
me and her get chatting for like 5 minutes, but i felt my friend was bored, so i introduce her to my friend and he does some routine on her. I thought because i didn't live here and she was hot i would let him have her.
*whispers in her ear*
RD: i gotta check on someone, but can u look after my friend for a second
HB: sure if it is just a second
*whispers in stu's ear before i leave*
RD: close her

My friend didn't close because apparently her bf showed up and he nearly got in a fight.

Anyways i go back to the smoking girls again and ask her number, for some reason when i asked it didn't flow, if u know what i mean, its like awkwardish. She writes it down anyway (called it later, number wasn't recognized.)

I go back to see my friend, but he dissapeared due to (bf instant).
I go looking everywhere for him and ask some girls if they saw some dude who was blah blah. Then i ask for directions to every club in the place and we talked about other stuff (which i can't remember) and then i say Ok i am going to look for him and when i find him we will come back and chat to u lot.



10 seconds later haha

i see him walking down road and i lead him to set and they say "wow u found him", we get talking and he does another routine on them. Then i get talking to him about the bf thing ( has thats happening some dudes walk towards us and she shouts his name and hugs him, then they go in club)

I see some chick who looks familiar open her and start chatting her up again and she gives me her number, but like i said i did not ask number in flow it felt awkward and her facial expression changed, but she said sure, i said whats ur name again she said harriet, but my friends call me rose, so when u call me ask for rose. After i chuck number...because she probs gav me a friends number and my friend says that was one u told me to close in bar.

Later i c chick who said she wudn't let me kiss her on cheek and i tap her and say hey, she looks at me stops and then turns round and continues walking.

After this i say alright i am going have some rest, we go mcdonalds and hit on some of the girls in there, but they didn't go successful and i can't remember how i opened really. After this i was so demotivated and i will not even list the approaches i did after this. first it started off with me not caring anymore and expecting them to do all the work and then i wudn't approach at all, i afc'd.

Then i call chicks from train we said we wud meet up. They tell me where they r and say they r to far and she says she will call me though when shes more sober, which i doubt. Anyways guys it went pretty well at start and i totally lost it at end and lucky me spent room in hotel by myself, slept like a baby lol. If u guys got any tips or advice on any of my approaches i would really appreciate it, because i want to go out better next time. I need advice especially on the direct game and i was also wondering, how u f close in these situations at a hotel and is number closing really worth it or would they just flake and forget who u r everytime?.

guys u know what i will keep this thread open, i am going out tuesday, seeing i left my driving license in the hotel, so ill write my approaches from that night has well.

I am not feeling very confident, but i will do it tommorow, even though for some reason i feel it is going to go really really bad.

Are you doing night game mostly?

No reason to be unconfident m8 your alot more advanced in this area than most 18yr olds.

The things that screwed up today was it was raining like **** and the night club i went to had like 1 guy dancing on the dance floor in a triangle (due to rain and tuesday), o yeh and i lost my freaking wallet on the train lmao and my wing man didn't want to come. Depsite that **** I got 61 approaches today and its 2 am, antisocial hours, so i am going stay home till 6 am and then go out to get the other 39 approaches. a lot of them went a **** load badly lmao, and unfortunately i only tried to close 4 times which i got 2 numbers, email and a rejection......

I am now going to relax for like 1-2 hours and then set up some routines to finish it off. Its gonna b pretty hard though 39 approaches in 6-7 hours.

Schtrrj: the last one i did i say was night and day game 50/50, but tonight my wing man didn't wanna come, so i had to go alone and with what i explained above, there was no night game at all pretty much.

Sebastionary: Thanks man, but i still need a lot to learn and their are areas i have not touched or not experienced and when i try it the first time its hard, but has soon has u do it man u feel confident.

dam approach anxiety is peaking, feeling unconfident again...****. I got to do the other 39 approaches by 1pm from 4am. It is going to b so hard......even though i am feeling this bad guys i will get it.

Jeez i guess i will put some approaches on to reflect on from the 61, dam its hard to remember.

RD: hey there if u get 12 texts from a girl in a day, does this mean i could get a potential stalker.
HB: probs, but do u like her.
RD: well shes cute, but idk this is a bit much
* talked bit more, but didn't change subject so this set failed*

Alright i go to a clothes shop and c two italian chicks and the girl sales assistant doing the jeans, so i approach two italian chicks.
RD: hey i need ur girls help, i am looking for a shirt that would at least get me 5 compliments a day.
HBI1: (smiles) uh (trouble speacking english and she uses lot of hand movements)... is this for club or ...um causal
RD: i was thinking club.
HBI2: o do u like this one, points at the one she was looking at this way.
Rd: hm its different, but that can b good in a way i suppose.
HBI1: but it is not for club, jus going out
RD: is this what ur getting ur boyfriend
HbI1: yes my boyfriend
HBI1: do u speack italian
RD: chao
HBI2 (impressed) o u do
RD: thats all i know
HBI2: haha so do u like this shirt, let me see if i can get u some jeans
*they take me to some jeans and pick them out saying they go with it*
RD: hmmmm ok let me jus ask someone else jus in case

*goes over to cute sale assistant watching me*
RD: so what do u think, does it look good in a crazy way or r they trying to pick me out the worst outfit.
*italian chicks looking over smiling*
HB: hmmmm...well
RD: i c its bad
HB: lol i just don't think it suits u
*talked bit more about clothes but can't remember*
RD: well i am going try it on anyway

I go over to changing rooms and notice flash gordon boxers and i am like to the dude assitant.
RD: omdz they r so kool if i am ever in a club and they play that tune my jeans will have to come down lol
Dude: haha they r funky boxers.
*has we chat HB comes over*
HB: hey maybe u can help him out, u have good fashion sense.
*dude says something she does, but try it just in case, anyways i go there and i hear someone knocking on my door and its, HB sales assistant and she has 2 shirts and two jeans and says she think they would look nice in me, i put it on she tells me what she thinks, and gets me a bigger waist size, then i come out*
RD: wow i took long in there, but not has long has women i suppose
HB: lol actually u took longer
RD: well i bet u take much longer seeing u work in here
*talk for a few minutes about what she does*
HB: so were u with those girls (should of replyed, o why do u wanna know or yeh they r competing to whos my future wife?)
RD: nah just got advice from women last time what to wear and got lot of compliments.
HB: o i c
RD:i got to go now, but whats ur number
HB: i can't give u that
RD: why n... u know what nvm later *kisses her on cheek*

i said bye to other 2 italian girls bought kool outfit she picked out and exited. i didn't pursue number because well i didn't wanna harass her to much and get the security guard come over. I felt if i qualified or transitioned or kinoed, i would of probs got that number, seeing i thought it was bit coincidental that she suddenly patrolled changing rooms when i was leaving when other dude was before.

After i leave for second to visit my work where i meet a few girls in past, then come back to mall with my brand new umbrella, i see some chick walking next to me.
RD: hey need ur opinion does this umbrella look professional on me?
HB: in what ur wearing probs not.
RD: ok wait hold the umbrella
HB: haha why, its wet
RD: ur in a business suit i wanna see if it would look better
(she holds it )
RD: hm u don't know how to hold an umbrella do u
HB: well i have like bags in my hand so its hard
RD: ok sure let me take that one (looked like bag with all folders in it)
HB: no way can't giv u that one
RD: o yeh right i am going take it home and do all ur work for u, please ....
HB: haha ok
RD: gives it to her, hm that looks pretty good
HB: thanks
(transitioned this to where she works, but can't remember how, we started chatting about martial arts because she was in security)
RD: hey i am getting a coffee, u wanna get one 2?
HB: nah sorry got to meet someone
RD: o ok c ya later

Goes in coffee store that sells lot of random crap that changes every week.
i see chick in sunglasses working there.
RD: so i am curious what is the most craziest thing in the store ur selling.
HB: idk
RD: there has to b something like those toy lizards r pretty crazy
HB : haha well i guess that playblock thing dungeon in the middle.
RD: hm well i am not buying that, is there anything in the store worth buying
HB: well these sun glasses r pretty kool
RD: o ur going to sell me ur sun glasses?
HB: haha no, but there r the exact pair over there.....but they r womans sun glasses.
RD: yeh right like i am going buy women sunglasses.
Hb: what they look good on u (puts them on me)
RD: actually ur right, but knowing my luck a girl at work will get some pair lol
(talk a bit more and then i exit to get my tea)

Next i sit down and notice two chicks speacking another language on the other table.

RD: r u speacking russian?
*both smile*
HB's: nah african
RD: o i was wondering if someone could teach me how to say crazy girl in russian, for a russian girl in work, but actually i know a girl in work i could say something in african to, is it alright if u teach me?
HB's: sure
*i get them to write some words in there language and they tell me, but they wudn't teach me bad words*
RD:can i sit here
HB 1:quietly says ok
(moves bag from seat and sits down)
RD:so how long u been here
HB 1: (can't remember)
RD: o so do u prefer here or africa
(i chat to Hb for little while, then move to Hb 2)
RD: so did they have safaris?
HB 2: haha yep
RD: o so did u get to see rhinos and lions and all that
HB 2: yeh we saw them
RD:O so was there anyone who stopped the lions from attacking u
HB 2: has long has they wasn't provoked it was ok
RD: but i bet some people provoked them
HB 2: lol yeh they did (here i should of said it was in it, i can see u to r rebels)
*HB 1 looks pretty pissed now, but flicking her hair a lot*
I notice my umbrella is on floor
RD: dam how cud i forget my umbrella (gets it and comes back), hey what do u think of my umbrella i bought today?
HB 1: thats quite a random question to ask a stranger
RD: not really actually i got the security guard to pick it out for me
HB: but don't u feel ur intruding a bit seeing me and her were busy and coming over, do u always do this?
(here i should of said, well about a year ago, i was the most antisocial guy u wud meet, but i go rid of my tv and playstation and everything, then started talking to people and i found it was really fantastic and met lots of awesome people who i am very close to. Now everyone is to busy with the media and r jus antisocial towards the world and to b honest i would exchange all the media in the world for the camp fire storys any day, why do u girls jus stay in ur rooms all day and talk to eachother across the internet, instead of partying and like enjoying life?)

but i reply:

RD: o am i intruding , if u want me to go i will
HB 1: yes please
RD: i wasn't intruding u was i
HB 2: nope
RD: o i c shes the good one
HB 1: yep i am the bad one
i exit

Anyways i go out for bit and its raining like hell, i c a girl quickly hiding under shelter, which i go to to.
RD: hey can i ask u a question if its raining in london would it b raining in surrey 2?
HB: sorry i can not understand.
RD: o r u italian
HB: (smiling) nope
RD: german....etc....French
HB: Yes
Rd: o bonjour jem appele jordan comme appele tu
HB : HB
(we chat for bit and she mentions she has a bf and works has sales assistant in bakery and speacks very good english in my opinion despite my first impression)
RD: ok i got to get to surrey, let me get ur number what is it
HB: (writes it down)
*kisses on cheeks and exits*

guys i am kinda tired let me write rest tommorows.

I wasn't there to watch you approach. But from the general tone of these approaches, your body-language and non-verbals must be ok. I.E. the approaches themselves seem to be good.

I'm getting the intuition that you're focusing on something you're already past, i.e. approaches. You should be concentrating on escalation.

Your approaches are good enough.

What do you actually want to get more of?

What's stopping you from getting it?

ur kinda right alek, i would say what i need to work on now is probs number closing, rejection, direct game and night game. I will try to put these in the next time i go for it.

I am going still list some approaches, so i can look back and c what i did right and wrong.
ok the next approach was just after the french girl, i once again enter mall and smell a strong scent, which i assume is coming from my umbrella (jeez i can't believe i got so many approaches with a stupid umbrella lmao) and theres a chick leaning against wall.

RD: hey can u smell that kinda french scent i think its coming from my umbrella.
HB: lol no i can't smell anything
RD: look smell it
HB: haha no its wet
RD: wait a sec i think its u
*hands her hand to me and i smell*
RD: o it is u
HB: well its not french
RD: hey what do u think of my umbrella does it look professional
HB: well not in what ur wearing
RD: maybe better in u
*gives it to her and takes it back*
RD: hm maybe not
HB: yeh well i have jeans on to
RD: so u work at this bank i guess (looking at closed bank building next to her)
HB: nah i work up stairs in the travel agents
RD: o can u get me a holiday to hawaii (maybe should of done something else she probs gets this every day)
HB: jeez everyone says that
RD: well if u get me that holiday i will take u out for a coffee some time.
(hm to much of a big hoop for her to jump in my opinion at this point)
HB: i don't think my bf would aprove of that
RD: bring him along we will have fun lmao
HB: haha
RD: anyways got to get something from upstairs before i leave to surrey so c u later

i exit and in my opinion should of number closed.

ok next one, i talk to some old woman in the que for ticket, who was pretty friendly, then i go down escaltor to get tube. I c some chick look at me strong eye contact, then she walks down and tilts her head and looks at me again. i see waiting for some tube right at end and i walk up to and say.

RD: hey can i ask u a question
HB: what
RD: why were u giving me a evil look for on the escaltor, did i tease u in secondary or something, if so i am sorry i get this a lot, but it was mostly my friends.
HB: no i don't think we went same secondary schooll and i wasn't giving u evil eye and i moved here from india when i was 13.
RD: o ka sa ho
HB: lol how did u know that
RD: one of the indian guys taught me it at work along with some of the bad words that end with chod
HB: yeh i know the ones
*it arrives and we get on, she looks at me*
RD: jeez what did i say about that look
*starts smiling*
(we chat for a bit and i found out shes a dentist and she writes a few things on the paper in her language like her age, but she wouldn't tell me what it is, shes biting her lip a lot and i am asking most of the questions, so i don't think thats good and she gets off two stops from her one, so i am guessing she was to nervous in the situation)

After this, i go up escaltor again and another cute chick behind me she had a really sexy look in her eyes so i approached.
RD: do u think if it is raining in london its raining in surrey
HB:hm i don't know surrey
RD: hm where r u from
HB: o italy u
RD: hm where do u think
HB: some where like meditereinin
RD: nope i am fully english, well 16th irish and 32th scottish
(we reach ticket thing, i can't find my ticket and to my suprise she waits for me)
RD: and ur name is
HB: miRRRRRRRRRRRfanda
RD: o so ur MiRRRRRRRRRfanda
(she laughs and those eyes jus keep getting sexier)
RD: r u heading home
HB: yes
RD: o where do u live
HB: italy
RD: no italy is not in london lmao, unless ur heading italy now
HB: haha no i live *****(i can't even remember anyway)
RD:well i got to get going, but id like to meet u again
*hands her postitnote pad and pen*
HB: whats this for
RD: u know what its for
HB: my name u want me to write my name
RD: ok write ur name
*writes it*
RD: now ur number
HB: o no i have a beautiful bf
RD: thats kool i will take both of u out
HB: haha no
RD: write it down and i will giv u a call
HB: hmmmmm No (smiling, but with seductive look and when she says no she is still standing not like shes attempting to leave)
RD: l see ur thinking about it look its just a phone call, jus let me call u and u can c what u think from then
HB: no why do u want it
RD: because i know u want to giv it to me i can c it in ur eyes and lips and also u wud of left now if u didn't
Hb: hmmm ok
*writes number down, kisses her on cheeks exits*

next at train station, i am getting ticket, but confused what stop, so i go for assistance and the chick in front says woking.
RD: hey thats where i am trying to get to, ok i will listen in
(smiles and we both get direction)
RD: wow they would think we r tourists even though we r english.
HB: yeh i know haha
(i can't remember what happened from there, but i found out she was a fashion girl on tv and the fact i let her talk about that, it made her look like she was on a pedestal, should of jus changed subject after i negged her on it, i was going number close her, but at the end she was being friendly, but i feel lost interest.)

ok next i got on train and i was chatting to some dude who had a suduko me and him totally owned has a team and finished it lol.

ok i get on train and i chat to few girls there, but i lose my wallet and that takes a crap load out of my time and it still hasn't been found, then i have to get my dad to pick me up and everything , but i had to meet my dad in a station, so i get on the train back and i sit in front of some chick with a lap top has i am talking to my dad about closing my bank card.

RD:hey do u know how to close a bank card at this time?
HB: i am not really sure, there should b a number or something if u have internet
(looks at her laptop)
RD: do u have it, no i am not connected
(asks other chick on other table, she dosn't either)
HB: u can close it in morning they shouldn't figure it out if they don't know ur code
RD: ah its kool, i don't really care if they find out my code i think they deserve it
HB: lol how can u b so calm
RD: idk i am having such a good day today and i learned so much, it just dosn't really matter
RD: what r u doing
HB: work for history (she explained about something about dates) not really that interesting
RD: r u sure i swear u were playing cards, when i came in
HB: i swear i am not honest, look at my screen
i look at it and then the other chicks one and shes playing cards
RD: o i c
HB: lol see it wasn't me
(we talked about life and **** for like 30 mins and then seeing she lived far i email closed her)

i will list one more, because remembering any more would jus hurt my brain.
after i get home i go back out not letting my wallet being lost ruin my night, i ask some chick where all clubs r at in london at tube station.

HB: hm well theres some here and here (pointing at map)
(she explains a few and i tell her some r jus long seeing she wanted me to travel to the furthest ones, some dude is next to me, so i jus start chatting and asking him if he knew any and he tells me a few good ones and the chick leaves and brings a newspaper and starts showing me all the good ones)
RD: so where r u from
HB: originally?
RD: yeh
HB: half japanese and half english u
(we talk for bit after this more about her job and other stuff, but i ask her if shes heading same way i am and i feel that kinda of pressurized it and she leaves a bit quickly)

I feel the most important things i am missing r:
kino.
Transition.
Change subject to her.
just letting convo flow, no need to ask if shes heading same way, jus close right there.
Also closing jus even if it is going badly.

attempt 4 will b done on friday or saturday, so this time i would have chance to do some night game, which should add to my approaches. This time though i am going to use what i got and close more, kino and transition. I will start at 6am so if i get them all by 2am i can rest and go home.