why are girls so vague? ok so i jokingly asked this girl to go out with me and that i like her because she mentioned how no one (im assuming her guy friends that met me) dont think i like her. her reply was "i wish"
and more recently she told me how this dude was going after her persistantly and she straight up told him that she only sees him as a friend and tossed him in the friend boat. and i casually asked, "hey what about me?" and she goes "i duno about you, im putting you on a yacht." i mean, what kinda crap is that?
a little before that, this was a bad move on my part, but whatever im still learning. i stood her up one day (when she distinctly told me not to the day before ) and i apologized on the phone and i asked "hey, do u think we could ever be bf//gf" (very bad i know!) and she asks me if im gonna stay here next year (this is my last yearin colllege) and i was like "haha oh **** ur actually considering it!?!?" and she was like "NOOO!!!" and her tone changed to somethign quieter and was like "blah blah u remind me of someone. i dont wanna be hurt blah blah" and i ended the conversation. w/o a real definite answer. we still talk and act normally but i dont bring that convo up.
she'll occasionally call me up for no real reason and i asked her why and she tells me, "because WE like to talk to eachother". from what she tells me, im an ass to her but thinks im funny/cute (c&f? which actually got me her number unintentionally). btw she has a bf she thinks shes gonna break up with. bad, i know. very AFCish.
i test her out by bringing up the topic of girls. id be like "yeah, my dream girl is a girl who looks amazing in a sundress and skates a longboard at the same time. like that one girl i saw on campus, but i never saw her face" and her reply was "blah blah i bet she was a butterface tehehe" and later she was like "i can pretend for you by carrying a skateboard around for a day with you. also you and i can take pictures" but i was like "yeah yeah, wtvr. thats lying to myself blah blah"
one more info about her is that she seems to put a spell on some guys in class where she'll befriend them and only calls them for help with hw and thats it. including the guy she LJBFed with. i mean, i offer almost no help and doesnt even bother , if anything i take her answers. i really dont wanna be in her all-boy-fan-club. am i in the friend zone!? its esp confusing whens shes flirting with me.
and more recently she told me how this dude was going after her persistantly and she straight up told him that she only sees him as a friend and tossed him in the friend boat. and i casually asked, "hey what about me?" and she goes "i duno about you, im putting you on a yacht." i mean, what kinda crap is that?
a little before that, this was a bad move on my part, but whatever im still learning. i stood her up one day (when she distinctly told me not to the day before ) and i apologized on the phone and i asked "hey, do u think we could ever be bf//gf" (very bad i know!) and she asks me if im gonna stay here next year (this is my last yearin colllege) and i was like "haha oh **** ur actually considering it!?!?" and she was like "NOOO!!!" and her tone changed to somethign quieter and was like "blah blah u remind me of someone. i dont wanna be hurt blah blah" and i ended the conversation. w/o a real definite answer. we still talk and act normally but i dont bring that convo up.
she'll occasionally call me up for no real reason and i asked her why and she tells me, "because WE like to talk to eachother". from what she tells me, im an ass to her but thinks im funny/cute (c&f? which actually got me her number unintentionally). btw she has a bf she thinks shes gonna break up with. bad, i know. very AFCish.
i test her out by bringing up the topic of girls. id be like "yeah, my dream girl is a girl who looks amazing in a sundress and skates a longboard at the same time. like that one girl i saw on campus, but i never saw her face" and her reply was "blah blah i bet she was a butterface tehehe" and later she was like "i can pretend for you by carrying a skateboard around for a day with you. also you and i can take pictures" but i was like "yeah yeah, wtvr. thats lying to myself blah blah"
one more info about her is that she seems to put a spell on some guys in class where she'll befriend them and only calls them for help with hw and thats it. including the guy she LJBFed with. i mean, i offer almost no help and doesnt even bother , if anything i take her answers. i really dont wanna be in her all-boy-fan-club. am i in the friend zone!? its esp confusing whens shes flirting with me.
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