LR Dealing with hypocrites

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Long Field report :cool:: So to begin my story, I met this HB8, who's really my type of girl at the beginning of this november. She's hot, fun, and a challange. So I work some of my game, but she doesn't bite. We date, but I can't get the escalation going... Sh*t happens, and to make matters worse my ex whose only mission WAS to break me ;), knew I was into her so she became best friends with her. So I just next her. She didn't want me anyway.

Anyway, time passes, I have some one-night stands here and there, sometimes they lasted longer than one night but nothing to serieus... Now I see this girl once and a while on the street and polite as I am I alwayse say hi, but alwayse "HAVE" to go somewhere (Rugby, meetings, actually i just don't wanna waste my time on her :D). Now about 4 weeks ago she happened to be in the bar that I alwayse go to (all my friends go there so I go to). I was scoring with this HB7, just something for that night you know, I was kinda playing hard to get cause it was writen all over her face that she wanted me. Anyway we start making out (me and HB7), but I was getting tired so i get up and tell her im leaving, if she wants to join, she can... (lots of blabla here, asking me to stay a bit longer blablabla) I get up say bye to the HB7, and who do i see, good ol HB8 starring at me (seems like she was the whole time). (Ow ye I'm dutch ok, but she lived in thailand for like 8 years, brown hair, brown eyes, brown skin, and she talks both english and dutch, I started talking dutch first)

Me: ah, hey...
HB8: Hey you! long time no see, how have you been
Me: good
HB8: How come I haven't heard you in such a long while
Me: Cause you never replied my last msg (here's where she started wanking in english... she clearly couldn't defend herself anymore in dutch, cause she knew I was right. Trying to get the victim role going -> DAMN I HATE WHEN WOMEN pull this sh*t off, the victim crap)
HB8: But you're so rude, alwayse needing to go somewhere
Me: whatever...
HB8: Anyway we should meet up this vacation (so the next week i had 2 weeks vacation right)
Me: Hmmm, meh whatever ok sure, but you keep in touch with me...
HB8: ok
Me: Promis?
HB8: I swear!
Me: Ok ill hear you then, I'm outta here...

Now HB7 is in front of me again, whinning that I should stay, buying me a shot (this girl was trying to get a drink outta me first which i didn't buy, now she bought me one... tard...) Anyway this keeps going for like 30 mins, then i just say, look women, I'm outta here, You can join me if you want to...
she: ah comeon *sees I'm serieus* Ok, let me get my friends (... sigh... no sex for me tonight, ugly ****blocking friends spotted...)

On the way out HB8 sees me leaving with HB7, she's looking at this girl and I swear the look on her face was worth GOLD, haha. So she looks at me, while HB7 is moving along going outside, and says: You're leaving with that girl?
Me: I guess so
(somehow the convo got on about her and me, don't recall how though...)
Hb8: You never tried with me....
me: If you honestly didn't notice that i was trying with you girl and that I wanted you, then you're F*CKING blind... Anyway, I'm tired... I'm outta here

HB8: *wierd look, kinda sad* Ok... have fun tonight with HB7...
Me: Mye sure whatever... Keep in touch...

2 mins later, msg:
Heres my promised msg, one more coming
Anyway she forgot her sh*tty promis fcourse, I saw it coming from miles away. So yesterday I msg her:
Me: You forgot your promis... I didn't.
She: I msged you after that night and you never replied!
Me: You know you play a good victim... Don't you dare f*cking blame me for your sh*t
She: I'm not blaming you. chill out =) are you actually mad?
Me: I couldn't care less. You just proven my point about you...

Later that night I see her at the club, she's all wanking about don't be mad blablabla wanking around... I just turned around in the middle of the convo... It gets kinda dull in the club so me and my mate decide to leave. She's standing in front of my coat (which was in a pile of other jackets). I trow my hands in the air and do as if I'm gonna hug her, trow my arms around her, she grabs me, starts whinning again about don't be mad, I grab my coat, pull it over her, say ciao. She's all confused and then gets that I wasent hugging her but taking my coat :crackup:.

A few mins later she msges me:
Don't be mad, we're cool. Lets do something this week
Me: I can't
3mins later i send another msg (we have a bal this week from my college)
Me: Besides, I'll see you friday, thats 2 times in one week. That'll be enough for a week..
1.5 hour later she txted me:
Next week? keep some time for me. I'll make it worth while...

Lol... This is probebly my longest post but what a hypocrite, first she doesn't want me at all, now she suddenly MUST have a date with me and cares about what I think of her... I'll see what happens friday, got my eye on a couple of women, but this one might end up in a score if i try... She just needed me to play hard to get, guess she's into that crap...:up:

What do you guys think?
 
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Eaglecreek

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Credos said:
(... sigh... no sex for me tonight, ugly ****blocking friends spotted...)
Haha, well did you get laid that night? If you really like the girl maybe you should give it a shot, but know that she'll stay a hypocrite even then. If she's really into that hard to get stuff, then you'll have to keep doing it, once you stop, she'll know she has you again and you'll lose her. now if you want her, then BANG HER FOR all us belgians :up:!
 

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I think you've played her perfectly. Now simply f close her next week.

edit it was a long FR (not LR) but the details were worth it. I think you showed a great way to deal with a girl, more guys really need to absorb a lesson from you.
 

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Eaglecreek said:
Haha, well did you get laid that night? If you really like the girl maybe you should give it a shot, but know that she'll stay a hypocrite even then. If she's really into that hard to get stuff, then you'll have to keep doing it, once you stop, she'll know she has you again and you'll lose her. now if you want her, then BANG HER FOR all us belgians :up:!
Nope I was right on that call, they all walked with me to my place and started whinning in front of my door, Whilst they were nagging at her head I just slammed the door, got in my bed and slept like a baby. The day after her ****blocking friends msg me saying sorry and sh*t... I didn't care that much about the girl, she wasen't that hot, but damn that women for screwing up my good night ;) .

Mye I'll make my moves on the girl friday and setup a date then give her the crap I only wanna be friends with her blablabla while I'm flirting with her and then go for the K-close , and hopefully the day ends with f-close :D. Lol It would be funny. And if it doesn't happen, then I couldn't care less... Win-win situations, I love it :cool:

MacAvoy said:
I think you've played her perfectly. Now simply f close her next week.

edit it was a long FR (not LR) but the details were worth it. I think you showed a great way to deal with a girl, more guys really need to absorb a lesson from you.
thanks, I'll do my best closing the deal, I'll keep you guys informed ;)
I adjusted that mistake by the way
 
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