Advice needed for my current situation

I apologize ahead of time for the length but my situation requires some explaining in order to get advice.

Ok well to start, although this is my first post, I have been around reading the bible and threads on this board for quite some time. I have definiately dramatically improved but am still a work in progress. So I thought I would make this thread so I could gather advice on not only how to improve certain areas of my game but also how to deal with a situation I am in with a girl I am currently talking to. I will highlight my strengths and weaknesses to help you guys understand me and help you guys help me.

My strengths include good to very good conversational skills. I have frequently been described as anywhere from funny, to the funniest person they know. I have a fairly large group of friends both men and women. I would consider myself average in the looks department. I have been described as built but I could lose 10 to 15 pounds or so. I would say I am confident and have little to no fear of approaching most women and starting conversation for the most part. So far your probably thinking that my life should be great and I should have no problems until you read my weaknesses. First of all my major weakness is that I have absolutely no problem making friends with girls and getting them to love me and call me to go out with them, yet most of them I would like for more than that. I probably have 15-20 girls that absolutely love me and beg me to hang out or go out with them, yet I know I am friendzoned. Secondly I severely lack experience in kinesthetics, and esclation from touching to kissing and then more.

I have been trying to analyze myself but it might be easier to find a solution to this problem with the boards help. I know that I need to show the new girls I meet that I want them sexually and not just for friends yet I am having a difficult time doing that since I am unexperienced in that area since in the past I always ended up going about it the wrong way and becoming friends. I know that kinesthetics should be a focus for this. However my question then I guess is how fast and how much kino should I use say when I first meet them. I know its judge by the situation, but for those of you who are better at this, how aggressive and how quickly(first 5 minutes, first date, ect?) do you apply kino and what levels(arm touching, leg touching, ect.). Also any other tips that can be used to make damn sure that a girl I meet will realize I don't want to be her friend.

Part 2:

Ok now for specifics. I am still a work in progress obviously, however I have had some success here and there recently. So let me describe my situation with this girl I met about a month ago, and you guys can tell me what you think I should do.

I met HB7 in an assigned group we had outside of college class(we didn't pick groups, its an online class). I am put in a rough situation because we have had to work on a class project while I still try to game her. After first meeting, I go over to her house by here invitation but its only to work on our part of the project. I had her laughing and having a good time so I asked her to be my date for fraternity pre-valentines semi-formal party. Date went amazing, ended with both of us being a little too drunk and the person who was driving us couldn't find my house so she offered to let me sleep at her house. She initially said I could sleep in the guest room, but I joked that I she had enough room in her bed, and she laughed and said sure. We didn't do much but kind of cuddle/hug/talk, even though looking back I obviously should have escalated and I know I am idiot for not doing so. Other than that though the date went about as good as a date can go.

After this we had a second date lined up, but she had to cancel for what I know 100% was a legitimate excuse. Her interest level seemed to me to be high, but she said that we should wait to continue our dating until our group project was over, so avoid any drama that might unfold from dating and our group, plus this was 2 weeks before spring break and I wanted to do my own thing completely and not worry about her so I agreed, while trying to make it sound like my idea so it wouldn't seem as if I was giving her the power over the situation.

Well our group project ended a week ago. After the last day I told her we should do something that week. We discussed days and found that the only time that was available for both of us was that night. So she invited me over for dinner. However I didn't know what to expect, because we basically had to remain professional/friendly for about 3 weeks for our project. Turned out dinner involved her roomates too, so it wasn't what I hoped for, and I having a very hard to moving the conversation from friendly, to basically more than friendly and initiating kino because of the roomates being in the room during and after dinner.

I know that I need to escalate the kino otherwise each time we meet without more aggressive kino the more awkward it will become and I will be friend-zoned if I haven't already. During the course of the project and before our first date, she showed at least moderate interest level by always promptly returning my calls and I made sure I never called her more than once ever 2-3 days. In fact recently she has been calling me or texting me about the project. However its mixed signals. I am the only one she calls about the project and each conversation starts with project, but quickly segways almost immediately to something fun or just asking me how I am doing or what I did last night, ect. This is where I need some advice. Am I looking to far into this and she truly is just being friendly while talking about the project, or is she using that as an excuse to talk to me and find out stuff about me. Is this a commen game that women play in order to not seem needy while still calling to just talk or am I looking to far into this.

So I saw her today for the very final culmination of the project, and I applied some like incidental kino such as light arm touching and such. When I said bye to her I made sure to give her a pretty tight hug. Overall every time I have seen her or talked to her I have been ****y and funny, and have not been a doormat and jokingly put her in place a few times, all the while keeping her laughing her ass off and we always have great chemistry.

So basically I guess to sum it all up, I need advice in the following areas. Has this girl already friend-zoned me by saying she didn't want to date until our project was finished. If she didn't is there anybody who has experience with going from dating to having to be professional, then back to dating again. What can I do now to make it perfectly clear that I want to move back to a more than friends and go back to a dating sexual relationship.

Also from Part 1 advice needed: How aggressive should I be with kino. Do I basically escalate until its obvious the girl is protesting the escalation with her body language? Or do I wait until her body langauge suggests that I escalate? With this girl how strong and quickly should I escalate. I mean I know her fairly well enough in the past month or so that I should be able to fairly aggressive, yet we had to remain completely professional for the middle 2 or 3 weeks, so how far should I take it and what should I look for to make sure she is not objecting since I have stated I am unexperienced in this area.

Lastly but probably most importantly, when I ask her out on the next date, what should say or how should I say it to make it completely clear that its a date and not a hangout with just her and me as friends. Basically whats the best way to make it known that since the project is over we can go back to dating and that we haven't just become friends.

Thank you for whoever read my extremely long post, and any and all advice is greatly appreciated.

Sorry guys for the long post, but I really want and need some advice here, I would greatly appreaciate if someone could help, I tried to shorten it but most of the information pertains to the questions and I advice I need answered.

There is more to this than kino.

What you need to internalize is that women you want to date exist for your sexual pleasure. There is no reason to give attention to a woman unless it is to get sex. Don't ever ask for sex with words, just keep escalating physically as you make out. Kiss her neck, take your time, make her the horny one taking off her clothes. But if she rejects you, then quickly and calmly cut her out of your life and go talk to another girl. Don't even let the first girl know that you are mad. Just stop returning her calls and talking to her. Then she will obsess over you and come running back. When she sees you with another girl, she'll know that she has to put out if she wants to talk to you, and the new girl will see her competition and realize the same idea. Women should be competing over you by throwing sex at you. After you live like this for a while, sex becomes natural and normal. I understand not being able to escalate; I've been there myself when younger and inexperienced. But I can tell you that with practice escalating gets a lot easier.

She likes you, but maybe only as a friend. You could probably make her yours, but all the waiting during the project has dragged you deeper and deeper into the friend zone.

What you need to do is isolate, get her in the right mood and start escalating physically. Watch a movie with her at her place and start escalating. You could go out and get a drink with her before the movie. Whatever you do, don't wait too long until you start escalating because it might be too late in just a few more days.

You botched that night you were in bed with her.. she is confused by you not escalating and that confusion turned her off.. you need to set something up again...

Thank you guys for reading my long post and giving some very helpful opinions and replys. I thought I would bump it just to see if I could get a few more peoples input, as I figure the more advice I get the better, even if they are somewhat similar.

Even though Bible belt responded and helped me alot refering to kino and escalating I still had a question for the rest of the more experienced posters. Specifically is that when you are escalating and applying kino is it just something you guys did and were aggressive with and then the further you went the more the girl responded back, or did you guys see any obvious signs either verbally or physically that you noticed and realized she wanted to escalate. Also have you ever had a girl that was very touchy and kino was going great and all of a sudden you went in for the kiss either on her neck or on her lips and she basically rejected you and said "what the hell" or was surprised by it.

I guess what my last question boils down to is, "is there any obvious sign to go ahead and escalate or progress to more aggresive kino, or is it just something that you just have to roll with aggressively and hope for the best." Basically when you guys go in for the kiss or anything else, is there anything to look for that you know its going to work and she will respond or do you just risk it and hope she responds.

Alright sorry guys, but I thought I would bump it one last time and hope to get another response or two. Any responses are appreciated but even if you don't want to read the whole thread, just read my last post I wrote that asked some more specific questions about kino.

Ok that was really long so I'm going to tackle the first part. Why are you collecting friends? I would much rather have a circle of close friends that is a tight knit group that having 50 friends. How close can you really be with all of them?

Now my second point. ABC Always Be Escalating. The minute she stops accepting your advances, stop being her friend. You don't need anymore. You already have 15-20 female friends. You don't need more.

But you need to put the moves on your new targets. Don't be afraid to go in for the kiss.