Seem to have sparked attraction with the Man Eater

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Went to meet up with my good female friend for a drink on Saturday, and her friend the Man Eater from my other thread was there, along with another girl.

I alternate between wanting to slap this Man Eater chick upside the head and wanting to bend her over the chair and grudge fukk her. She's quite a piece of work, let me tell you.

Anyway, now I know who I am dealing with it's kind of fun to interact with her and watch how she behaves, as I have never really met anyone quite like her.

So I meet up with these three and I'm throwing out the C/F left and right and Man Eater is loving it.

We get up from the bar to go sit on the sofa, and Man Eater makes a comment to my friend. I didn't catch what she said, so I told her I didn't hear her, to which she said "Good". I asked my friend what she said, I guess she made a comment about her sitting on my lap or something. I asked why she would say something like that, and my friend says "I dunno, maybe she likes you".

Hmmmm....interesting.

So we go sit on the couches and I'm still throwing out the C/F.

What does a chick usually do (physically) when she's lapping up your BS? Usually they will punch or slap you in the arm, right? Not this chick. Her thing is to touch my face and push me away lightly.

Remember the incident where she pointed her finger at me? Now I know this chick just doesn't know how to behave socially. That would explain why she comes off like such a b!tch sometimes. She doesn't mean to, she just doesn't know any better. It's just her. I can relate to this because I have been known to make off color comments from time to time and realized later I should have either not said something or said it in a different way.

Another thing she does that I have noticed is she always makes reference to me "not acting my age". That night she took her camera and snapped a shot of my friends boobs, and I made a comment how it's usually MY camera that is the "boobie cam", to which she later asks me "How old are you? When are you gonna be too old for all of this" (she was referring mainly to the boobie cam comment). I just kept throwing out the C/F, and in the next sentence she's telling me how she likes to date older men, hehe

So later on we were messing around taking pictures, and she's gets up and tells me to take a picture of her ass. I take the pic, and her ass looks bangin', so I say, "See, I told you my camera takes the best pictures!" Again, the face push. Then she says "Noooo, it's my ASS. It really DOES look that good!"

A couple of minutes later a buddy of mine's g/f comes over. She's a tall redhead cutie. Later I find out that Man Eater was giving her the evil eye when I introduced them, lol.

She makes several more flirtatious comments, feeling my arms asking me if I've been working out, saying how she's disappointed that once our mutual friend moves out of town in a couple of months that "it's too bad we won't be able to hang out anymore". She even turned to her friend and said "He's really hot....too bad he only likes 22 yr olds!" Thats the running joke in that group, BTW

I'm having fun with this chick. I know I said I sometimes can't stand to be around this girl, but think I know exactly what I am dealing with now so I might even be tempted to get her one on one and lay it on even thicker and see what happens.
 

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STR8UP, I know I was one of the guys to ask you keep posting because you've got some great experience and some of the best skills on the site but I'm starting to lean towards the other camp because its seems like you got some closing anxiety.

Like your Good Will Hunting, you've been hurt in the past, you put yourself out there to a degree but never get involved at the next level because your afraid that if you do go to the next level, you'll end up hurt again or something.
 
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mac, it's very possible that if str8 let down his gaurd she could take advantage, i think thats the point.
 

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wjh said:
mac, it's very possible that if str8 let down his gaurd she could take advantage, i think thats the point.
Its also possible if he lets his guard down, the neighbour across the hall might attack him with a knife, or if he lets his guard down, he might actually start to like a women instead of picking them all apart.

My point is, he's too busy finding faults with all these women around him, instead of just enjoying their company. Women don't have to be Mother Theresa to be worthy of your time, you can enjoy their company, then ditch them, you don't have to marry every women you sleep it. However he's scared to take a chance, that he never escalates to the next level with women.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Its also possible if he lets his guard down, the neighbour across the hall might attack him with a knife, or if he lets his guard down, he might actually start to like a women instead of picking them all apart.

My point is, he's too busy finding faults with all these women around him, instead of just enjoying their company. Women don't have to be Mother Theresa to be worthy of your time, you can enjoy their company, then ditch them, you don't have to marry every women you sleep it. However he's scared to take a chance, that he never escalates to the next level with women.
Dude, when I say "This woman is a piece of work", that's an understatement, trust me.

Why would I subject myself to being around her? Well, I was put off by her personality in the past, but I realized I just need to let it go, and as soon as I did that it became an amusement of sorts. Now that her attitude doesn't bother me, it's fun to bust her balls. Now that I started busting her balls it seems that it has sparked some interest. And she is pretty hot. Let the games begin....

I'm not really sure where you are getting that I am afraid to take a chance. That's what these chicks say when they see that I'm not willing to commit, lol

Why am I not willing to commit? Haven't crossed paths with one who fits the bill in awhile.

Until then, I'm all about having a good time with whatever is around.
 

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I'm looking forward to reading the next thousand pages dissecting this matter. But will he take her to the prom? That's the big question. :D
 

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You know, there is something about crazy women that just attracts guys to them. Anger and passion actually are very similar biochemically to each other.
 

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##17 said:
You know, there is something about crazy women that just attracts guys to them. Anger and passion actually are very similar biochemically to each other.
I was gonna say something about this too. Might be part of the reason here is attraction despite her poor attitude. I'd fukk her but I would ever marry her, that's for sure.
 

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I want you to get laid this year dude.


I really do.

I want some F*CK CLOSES OUT OF YOU ALREADY!!!
 

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Ahh yes another str8up thread. :)

1) Thinks a girl, any girl, likes him because of her perceived flirting or signs of high interest like the start of every other one of his threads? Check

2) Over analyzing her many faults to the point of obsession? Check

3) Wondering what he has to do to get laid out of the deal? Check

4) Nothing ever comes out of it and str8up moves onto another girl (and another thread) that he thinks is into him? Soon to be checked??

Str8up I love ya man but CMON! If I had a dollar for every time you thought some girl was into you and nothing happened I would have my mansion in the British isles paid for! Either your ego is sky high and you way over estimate these girls interest in you, or you got no closing game, or you are subconciously gay, or you are the unluckiest basturd I know!

This time make it happen. :) I'm rooting for you! I want to hear a FR where you sealed the deal, over and over again, with reckless abandon!
 

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cordoncordon said:
Str8up I love ya man but CMON! If I had a dollar for every time you thought some girl was into you and nothing happened I would have my mansion in the British isles paid for! Either your ego is sky high and you way over estimate these girls interest in you, or you got no closing game, or you are subconciously gay, or you are the unluckiest basturd I know!
I am going to have to rep you for this post and I agree with you 100%. You took the words right out of my mouth. The funny thing is we will probably have people on the forum come on this thread and flame you for saying this. But your 100% right. This guy starts the same type of threads, and gets the best advice on the history of sosuave and than the cycle just repeats itself. This is a guy who has been here for a long time and does not even know how to gauge interest level.

STR8UP read the dj bible and post a field report when you actually bang one of these girls.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Str8up I love ya man but CMON! If I had a dollar for every time you thought some girl was into you and nothing happened I would have my mansion in the British isles paid for! Either your ego is sky high and you way over estimate these girls interest in you, or you got no closing game, or you are subconciously gay, or you are the unluckiest basturd I know!
He's not overestimating the girls interest, he does have closing game, he's not unlucky, he simply chooses NOT to close.
 

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uh-HUH.

I have to agree with Cordon. Let's not post links.

Please STR8 please don't take this as a personal attack. I'm just seeing a pattern with your post as well. Doesn't mean I don't like reading them though. Doesn't mean I want you to stop posting them either!
 

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I'm not disagreeing with the rest of Cordon's post, if you read the rest of my posts, you'd understand what I was getting at. If you go through and read all of his threads, he doesn't attempt to close, hence my choice of words, he chooses not to, for an explanation, see my previous posts. He's gunshy, cuz he's been hurt in the past, he's afraid to get out there and make a move on a women because he's afraid it might lead him again to his past pain. Its classic Freud.
 

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Wow, I been down and out for over a year going through the worst time of my life, I'm FINALLY getting back on track, and everyone wants to kick me when I post about a chick who intrigues me?

My life has improved over the past few months, I'm getting my sh!t together, and the women are starting to come out of the woodwork again. And this is exactly what I DON'T need.

I really do need to find another place to discuss this stuff
 

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or do what most other people do and keep it to myself
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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