Diary of a Mad DJ...My journal

Ok ive decided to start a journal to keep track of my progress and get some feedback ..The goal is to be able to look back 6 months from now or a year and say WOW i have came a long way..I have some previous threads and will condense them all in into this 1 thread

1st approach

Seen a hb8 at local grocery store.

Purposely walk down her isle and asks how shes doing, Decent amount of customers so im still nervous about my game in front of people. By the time im composed shes checking out, I go to check out and i beat her,wait in my car for her to come out, see her putting the cart back, get outta my car and go or it

me: so how you doing
hb8: oh you scared me .. ..."it was dark out"
me: sorry bout that i just noticed you in the store and had to introduce myself
hb8: oh thx
Me: you from around here ?
hb8: im local
me: are you single
hb:8 umm yea... ' but now smiling'
me: fluff talk yada yada so would you like to hang out sometime yada yada can i call you sometime.
hb8; sure calls out #
me:thx fluff talk about the holidays and her convertible mustang and me scaring her lol
hb8: now laughing and smiling.... ' i got a decent vibe from her at the end of the conversation''

What i learned THE 3 SEC RULE IS FOR A GOOD REASON.. i must overcome my fear of approaching when other people are around.. ..Not a good idea to approach girls when its dark and they are alone..


**UPDATE ** I ACTUALLY ENDED UP F-CLOSING ..HER BEST FRIEND LOL!

got the # from chick in grocery store Ill call Sarah...text her 4 days later in the daytime...text back and forth for awhile...she gets off work at 10 that night and text me to see what i was up too..after hemming and hawing with her about me stopping over to watch a movie she decides to let me..tried some minor kino didnt f-close cause i was tired and really not in the mood...she texts me new years eve to see where i was going tells me shes going to a local bar with a big group of people tells me if i get bored at my party to stop up and meet her..party that i was at had no Hbs some i go to meet her by myself around 1.

Get there shes hanging on me all night ..Damn she was WAY interested or drunk or both..shes with about 12 people including Chick ill call KIM A HB8....Kim is WAY drunk and loud and bositerous with BANGING ass..We close bar she invites me to come over i follow there limo back to Sarahs ..everyone leaves except me Sarah and Kim...Kim asks me if i had any hot friends and to call them over..I call a few people they dont answer..Sara at one point goes to the bathroom and kim brushes up against me and says I WOULD F**K THE HELL OUT OF YOU BUT YOUR WITH MY GIRL . ..i say nothing it threw me off guard..Me and sara go up stairs to go to bed kim sleeps downstairs on the couch..Sara falls alsleep almost right away..I nudge her and try to wake her but she is out..Im contemplating going down stairs to try and F**k her girl..I try to be VERY quiet getting out of bed and going downstairs I kept pausing cause everytime i slid off the bed i think i wake her..I get downstairs Kim is sleep..I figure ill use an excuse that i was getting something to drink..

me: (taps her to wake her up)
kim: (looks surprised) asks whats up
me: told her i was thirsty and i decided to see what she was up to
kim: im sleeping duh.. ( gets up to use the bathroom)
Me: (I sit beside the couch)
Kim: (comes back) after asking is sara sleep and did i f*k her asks do i wanna sleep on the couch with her
YOU KNOW WHERE THIS IS GOING GUYS
make out for about 5 min she then goes down on me and then gets on top
(dammit i was a lil too quick bout 5 min..oh well..)
She falls asleep i CREEP back upstairs end up running into the bedpost sara wakes i tell her i had to use the bathroom she was sleep the whole time.
(considers trying to f**k sara but i was content plus i was afraid shed go down on me and smell pu***y) lol

In the morning sara starts texting someone and i could tell from the noise shes texting kim downstairs...saras making funny faces as she texts back and forth i wondering is kim ratting me out and planning how i was gonna HIGHTALE it outta there lol..nope she didnt there talking about breakfast...
They invite me to breakfast i say no thanks they go.. i go home....Oh and i did grab kims phone when she wasnt looking and called my phone so id have the # i might wanna tap that again


Analysis..Girls are full off Sh*t after hearing all night how how they have been best friends for 10 years and kim telling sara how much she loves her she goes and sleeps with the guy she was with with minimal effort from him.

I was really nervous about waking kim i didnt know how she would react..I think it is NATURAL to have negative thoughts when approaching or first trying something like this on a chick ...I think you should acknowledge these thoughts but in in the end as long it is legal and totally not immoral to
JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


# 2

After a close call in my car after I wiped out in the middle of the road and almost got hit by a oncoming car i pull into BP for gas

HB8 looking under her hood at the pump in front of mine closes the hood and starts to pump her gas looks back at me 3 or 4 times IOI??? while im sliding my credit card at the outside pump.

Me: starts my approach over stopping in the middle of pumping gas lol
"She is pumping gas and not looking my way so she didnt see me walk over"

HB8 What?? " it wasnt a *****y what just a startled kinda look but she was smiling also"
Me: I just saw you over here and decided to introduce myself im Blah blah
HB8: Oh ok im blah blah *grinning*
Me: These roads are terrible .. what are you up to tonight??
Hb8: Nothing just getting ready to go home kinda tired.
Me: So your a real cutey are you single?
HB8: No im sorry i gotta boyfriend...
Me: Thats cool.. hey you be careful tonight driving the roads are bad
Hb8: Thanks you to i will

After she got in her car she told me to have a nice night.. she was really friendly.. I get the vibe that i coulda pulled this one if she really didnt have a BF

analysis gotta watch approaching girls when they arent looking it was kinda spur of the moment since my heart was still racing due to my close call in my car. I think she was showing high IOI since she kept looking back while i was pumping my gas.. I need to find a better line than my basic are you single

wow this is actually a really cool and interesting journal entry.

nice sh!t keep it up .

Update it

#3

After doing my routine of scoping out and buying 1 or 2 cheap things from several convenience stores and gas stations and seeing nothing i head home

Spots a HB7?? cant really see her face.... walking down the street

I go around the block and stop in the middle of the road and roll down my window

Me: Hey what are you doing walking out in this cold are you crazy
HB7: Just going over my friends
Me: ok thats cool you from around here
HB7: yea i live over at blah blah
Me:Whats your name anways
Hb7: im blah blah whats yours
Me: Im blah blah...So do you have a boyfriend?
Hb7: no not right now
Me: thats cool you should let me get ur # maybe we could hang out or something
Hb7: sure its xxx-xxxx
Me: ok cool ill give you a call sometime..do you need a ride to your friends?
Hb7: no thats ok its right up the street
Me: ok you be safe ill give you a call sometime take care

analysis: Ehhh im not really a fan of riding up on girls while they are walking but what the hell.. The number was real i actually have been texting her now and then..I dont know if im too interested she says she has a kid and she never can find a babysitter.. and she has no car at the moment.. Plus she told me about how she used to hang out in a very seedy part of town ..prob was getting gangb*nged lol... i do wanna get a better look at her.. she had a cute face but she was wearing like track pants.. so couldn't see how good the body was ..maybe ill put her on the backburner


4

usual routine again of hitting up the local convenience stores lol..man you can always catch some HBs coming to and fro

As im finishing pumping gas i see a HB8.5 walk out of the store . I immediately
walk over and try to catch her before she gets in her car but shes in a rush by the time i get over to her im standing outside her car i get her attention by making a hand gesture .. she rolls down the window.

Me: Wow your looking really nice tonight what are you up to
Her:Oh just meeting my friends out for a drink
Me: thats cool ive never seen you before are you from around this way?
Her: yea im originally from Argentina i moved here not too long ago
Now im really intested i LOVE South american chicks
Me: thats cool do you like it around here?
Her: its ok its not too bad
Me: Have you met any good guys around here? are you seeing anyone?
Her: No im not really seeing anyone right now
Me: Fluff talk about the bars around here
Me: Hey i know your in a rush but you should me get your # maybe we could meet out for a drink or something
Her: Gives me the dreaded well why dont you let me get your #
Me: Ohhhh ok its xxx-xxxx
Her: is it 216 or 440 area code ?
Me: 440.. Well hey ill let you get going i know your in a rush maybe we will talk again have a good night
Her: you too have a good night

Analysis:Kinda proud of myself on this one Didnt have any AA whatsoever
Gave it my best shot.. odds are extremely low that she will call.. The thing about Cold approaching in public is you never when a chick just does not wanna be bothered ...I talked to one of my friends who is about a HB8 and asked her how many times does she get approached in public.. she says very rarely.. guys will stare and maybe whistle but its rare that they will direcly approach..so this gives me satisfaction that i already have a leg up on most guys

5

At local grocery store

Im in line checking out. Notice a HB8 / hispanic that walks in .

"Now the thing about my city is we have a HUGE mexican population and these girls are notoriously difficult for anyone of a different race to score with"

Ill do my usual hit them in the parking lot ..lol

I play it off by slowly brushing snow off my car

Target walks out

Me: Excuse me can i ask you a question
HB8: sure
Me: are you single
Hb8: no im not
Me: ok sorry bout that
HB8: thats ok.. "In a nice tone"

Analysis: That was weak.. Ive never seen a mexican girl around here with any guy of a different race.. so i didnt see the need too put too much effort into this but my philosophy is.. EVEN WITH A BAD APPROACH THERE IS A CHANCE THAT YOU CAN STUMBLE AND FUMBLE YOUR WAY INTO AN F-CLOSE.. IF YOU DONT APPROACH YOUR CHANCE IS ZERO



6

Location: My condominium complex!!!

Target: HB8 who lives in a unit across from me

There is a cutey who has lived in my complex for about a year she seems like she likes to keep to herself and has never socialized with anyone who lives here.

Well now that im a DON JUAN we are gonna have to change that..LOL

Im standing outside talking to my bud on the phone when i notice the target pull in i tell my bud i G2G. I grab my trash to take to the dumpster so this can look spontaneous.

Target gets out of her car and drops something off over her next door neighbors house ..Looks like shes in a rush and shes all dressed up to go out

Me: Hey how are you?
HB8:Im good thanks

The HB8 then goes inside and shuts her door...I go throw my trash away and debate my next move..IF I COULD PULL THIS OFF I COULD HAVE A BOOTY CALL 4 SECONDS AWAY lol

F**k it im gonna knock on her door.. WOW HAVE I CAME A LONG WAY!

Knock knock.. i hear her upstairs window open


HBneighboor: Yes?????
Me:Hey how are you i have just noticed you around here and i just wanted to come over and introduce myself to my neighbor Im blah blah
HBneighboor: Oh..im blah blah
me: you look like your going out what are you up to tonight?
HBneighboor: going out with some friends
me: oh thats kool where you guys going
HBneighboor: IDK somewhere where i could get drunk
me: oh thats cool well hey it was nice meeting you would it be ok if i stopped by sometime and said hi?
HBneighboor: sure
Me: ok take care

Analysis: Folks this is dicey HB neighbor who im pretty sure is single as i dont see any men ever going over her house..At the same time it was hard to gauge her IOI .. does she think im weird for randomly knocking on her door..Well other neighbors have knocked on my door to introduce themselves ..so be it...Hmm im gonna tread carefully with this one though..I might not ever try to f-close.. but maybe put her in my social circle..

Some nice approaches so far, I like how you seem to be approaching during everyday life. I might have to post up in a convenience store or two and see whats up, lol. I'm interested to see if they pan out coz it seems like a minimal amount of rapport for a couple of the newer ones, although you could just be summarizing your approaches. Keep em coming man

Nice job on the approaches. You have been ballsy and have actually fvcked a braud on the coldapproach. If you read some of the other journals on here it seems like the fvck close on a coldapproach is 1/1000. Your way ahead of the game keep up the good work and don't stop. Hell I keep saying it but I need to start a coldapproach journal myself. And I will make it only daytime approaches without the bar and club scene.

How old are you?

lookyoung said:

Nice job on the approaches. You have been ballsy and have actually fvcked a braud on the coldapproach. If you read some of the other journals on here it seems like the fvck close on a coldapproach is 1/1000. Your way ahead of the game keep up the good work and don't stop. Hell I keep saying it but I need to start a coldapproach journal myself. And I will make it only daytime approaches without the bar and club scene.

How old are you?

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We are around the same age lookyoung...I have seen some journals where there is like 50 approaches and not one mention of a lay report ...Unless there dudes arent just mentioning them in there reports...I always think WTF is wrong with some of these guys..If i did that many approaches JEEEZ I dont wanna think about how much A$$ i would be getting..I dont know maybe some of these dudes arent really attempting to f-close or the girls arent finding them attractive ...I find it funny on my very FIRST cold approach i end up getting laid 4 days later and then not being able to f-close from any approaches after that...I remember thinking after the first f-close damn this is gonna be easier than i thought lol.

I know the following has been repeated ad nauseum but yes LOOKS MATTER.
Yes looks arent the only thing but they definitely can boost your opportunity...Do you think that girl from my first f-close who basically offered to f***K me would have done so if she wasnt attracted to me? Sometime looks and being in the right place is all it takes.. Sometimes even with good looks that wont be enough and you need to have some game about yourself....I have always been told by tons a girls im attractive ..problem was i wasnt scoring with these same chicks that where telling me i was hot..hence my coming to this site.


Some guys may ask what if im not attractive?? I believe everyone can maximize there attributes while minimizing there flaws.. Example i am going bald.. if i didnt shave my head i would look like a retard when i went out and it would make look much older..I always make sure i have a freshly shaved head when i go out.. Some girls like the bald look and find it sexy.. some dont..
I would think im a fairly good dresser. IMO im always one of the most nicest dressed guys when im out at a bar or club..You shoundt overdue it..a nice looking polo shirt or nice button up with nice jeans and shoes are all you need. A nice smile in my opinion is CRITICAL!! If you have bad teeth and have the resources get your teeth fixed!!! I come from a poor family and my parents coundt afford braces when i was a kid... I always got teased in school because of my teeth and that left a imprint on me.. The minute i got a decent job with decent dental insurance i got braces.. Yes it SUCKED to have braces when i was 22-24 Defiantly didnt help my game at all but i would do it again in a heartbeat!!

Bottom line everyone should try to improve all aspects of themselves your looks..your personality, your confidence , your smile , your clothes , your financial status, your mental toughness, your manliness , your decisiveness, and most importantly your GAME!!!


Sarge on!!!

Great Job

Nice to see the improvements and the success you have had in your life. My coldapproaches have been at bars and clubs and have had alot of success in that area. As a matter of fact I feel that I have pretty much conquered the game as far as sexual stats and f-closes. I am also good at conversation and carry myself as an alpha at all times. I feel I am great with woman.

But I have never been a guy to coldapproach much at bookstores,coffeeshops, healthclubs, gasstation..etc... You get the picture. Summer time is coming here in Chicago and I may start a Coldapproach journal were I coldapproach on these type of venues.

lookyoung said:

Nice to see the improvements and the success you have had in your life. My coldapproaches have been at bars and clubs and have had alot of success in that area. As a matter of fact I feel that I have pretty much conquered the game as far as sexual stats and f-closes. I am also good at conversation and carry myself as an alpha at all times. I feel I am great with woman.

But I have never been a guy to coldapproach much at bookstores,coffeeshops, healthclubs, gasstation..etc... You get the picture. Summer time is coming here in Chicago and I may start a Coldapproach journal were I coldapproach on these type of venues.

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Congrats on you success.. both bars and clubs and public cold approaching have there advantages and disadvantges

Ive literly passed over TONS of opportunities to approach out in public because it looked like the target was in a rush or didnt want to be bothered. I still have some AA issues from time to time and then some times i will have none at all.I think sometimes my problem is i see a HB and i start thinking what to say and trying to gather up my courage and then BOOM shes checking out and getting into her car.

Be prepared to get what i call the " deer in the headlight look" from a HB when you.. a total stranger makes his first approach up to her.. its actually kinda funny.

I myself prefer direct when im public cold approaching..most of the time a HB will be shopping or on her way to go somewhere and prob not in the mood to have a 20 min conversation with a stranger... I have a system of meet,introduce, state that i wanted to meet her, fluff talk about things you might have in common, say hey i know your in a rush we should get together sometime and hang out..# close