Dongfu
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The Two Simple Reasons for my Success with Women
Long before I joined this forum, long before I read the Mystery Method and other books teaching how to attract women, I was already successful with women. My success was not based on Openers, routines, tricks, gimmicks, methods, philosophies, or ideologies of any sort. The formula that has brought me success is very simple:
1. Be an interesting person
2. Be great in bed
I can assure you it is a simple as this.
1. Be an interesting person.
The easiest way to become an "interesting" person is to "Get Interested." Get interested in life. Get interested in a wide array of subjects. If you simply pay attention to what goes on around you every day, you will find endless opportunities to expand your intellectual and creative repertoire. This does not mean an in-depth study, but a genuine curiosity for learning knowledge and creative skills. Why is this so important? Because you will be diverse in your abilities to communicate with people. You will be able to relate to people on many different levels. You will be better prepared to relate to women you meet. You will be DYNAMIC. Your conversations will be rich and your personality will have depth.
2. Be great in bed.
A lot of men are selfish lovers, placing their own satisfaction above the woman they are having sex with. The obvious downside to this is, one, you will not keep a womans interest even if you do manage to get her into bed, and two, she will likely spread the news that you "suck." Bad news travels faster and farther than good news. Women will also pick up on the selfish vibe you give off, as they are very intuitive beings.
When you take a genuine interest in giving women the best sexual experience you can, which is the mature attitude to have, you will feel good about sharing your abilities. Anyone who has ever given a girl three orgasms or more, in one session, will understand the power and value of this ability. I wont list all the ways to learn about being great in bed. Get interested and you will learn.
When you are both "Interesting" and "great in bed," you will have powerful self assurance that it is in women's best interest to connect with you.
When I make eye contact with a woman who I am interested in, I communicate a clear, powerful message: "I have the ability to have an intriguing, dynamic conversation with you . . . and fvck you the way you have always wanted to get fvcked."
Women understand this by the way I look at them alone. When I asked one of my past lovers why she became interested in me she said, "It was because of your Quite Confidence. When I asked her to explain further she said, "It was the way you looked at me, that you had nothing to prove, that you were so self assured without having to act that way. I knew I could trust you."
I am not saying to disregard learning techniques, etc. They have helped me add to my abilities. But without my foundation of being interesting and great in bed, they wouldn't amount to much.
Dong Fu, for what it's worth.
Long before I joined this forum, long before I read the Mystery Method and other books teaching how to attract women, I was already successful with women. My success was not based on Openers, routines, tricks, gimmicks, methods, philosophies, or ideologies of any sort. The formula that has brought me success is very simple:
1. Be an interesting person
2. Be great in bed
I can assure you it is a simple as this.
1. Be an interesting person.
The easiest way to become an "interesting" person is to "Get Interested." Get interested in life. Get interested in a wide array of subjects. If you simply pay attention to what goes on around you every day, you will find endless opportunities to expand your intellectual and creative repertoire. This does not mean an in-depth study, but a genuine curiosity for learning knowledge and creative skills. Why is this so important? Because you will be diverse in your abilities to communicate with people. You will be able to relate to people on many different levels. You will be better prepared to relate to women you meet. You will be DYNAMIC. Your conversations will be rich and your personality will have depth.
2. Be great in bed.
A lot of men are selfish lovers, placing their own satisfaction above the woman they are having sex with. The obvious downside to this is, one, you will not keep a womans interest even if you do manage to get her into bed, and two, she will likely spread the news that you "suck." Bad news travels faster and farther than good news. Women will also pick up on the selfish vibe you give off, as they are very intuitive beings.
When you take a genuine interest in giving women the best sexual experience you can, which is the mature attitude to have, you will feel good about sharing your abilities. Anyone who has ever given a girl three orgasms or more, in one session, will understand the power and value of this ability. I wont list all the ways to learn about being great in bed. Get interested and you will learn.
When you are both "Interesting" and "great in bed," you will have powerful self assurance that it is in women's best interest to connect with you.
When I make eye contact with a woman who I am interested in, I communicate a clear, powerful message: "I have the ability to have an intriguing, dynamic conversation with you . . . and fvck you the way you have always wanted to get fvcked."
Women understand this by the way I look at them alone. When I asked one of my past lovers why she became interested in me she said, "It was because of your Quite Confidence. When I asked her to explain further she said, "It was the way you looked at me, that you had nothing to prove, that you were so self assured without having to act that way. I knew I could trust you."
I am not saying to disregard learning techniques, etc. They have helped me add to my abilities. But without my foundation of being interesting and great in bed, they wouldn't amount to much.
Dong Fu, for what it's worth.
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