How to get her # at the club.

So, I got this chick's # at the club (business purposes, you freaks!), and I realized that it was a pretty good technique, and that I should share it.

Clubs are loud places, and nothing sucks more than trying to talk to a beautiful stranger when she can't even hear you, and keeps saying "huh!?" after all of your creative c+f jokes. Plus you have to deal with her friends who WANT TO GO DANCE NOW.

All you need is some confidence, some eye contact, and a piece of paper.

Make sure she is somewhat diggin you, through eye contact. This isn't necessary, but sure helps you to confidently swagger over to her.

After the intitial eye contact, go up to her when there is a good moment, tell her that you don't really like to do the whole getting to know you thing in a club atmosphere, as she is probably busy with friends and so are you. Then hand her the small piece of paper, and tell her to supply the ink, and you'll be talking to her later. Then walk away! Don't wait for her. It might take her a minute to find ink. Then... Ta da! Go on about your business!

Try not to go too far away from where she is, this method worked so well for me because I was at one end of the bar and she was at another. OF COURSE, I got the #.

I bet you will too!

iqqi said:

So, I got this chick's # at the club (business purposes, you freaks!), and I realized that it was a pretty good technique, and that I should share it.

Clubs are loud places, and nothing sucks more than trying to talk to a beautiful stranger when she can't even hear you, and keeps saying "huh!?" after all of your creative c+f jokes. Plus you have to deal with her friends who WANT TO GO DANCE NOW.

All you need is some confidence, some eye contact, and a piece of paper.

Make sure she is somewhat diggin you, through eye contact. This isn't necessary, but sure helps you to confidently swagger over to her.

After the intitial eye contact, go up to her when there is a good moment, tell her that you don't really like to do the whole getting to know you thing in a club atmosphere, as she is probably busy with friends and so are you. Then hand her the small piece of paper, and tell her to supply the ink, and you'll be talking to her later. Then walk away! Don't wait for her. It might take her a minute to find ink. Then... Ta da! Go on about your business!

Try not to go too far away from where she is, this method worked so well for me because I was at one end of the bar and she was at another. OF COURSE, I got the #.

I bet you will too!

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Pen and paper!? What year are you from? ha ha, you can watch movies on mobile phones these days

dunno about that...you guys barely talked, she wrote down her number on a piece of paper for some random dude she doesnt even know...hmmm i doubt you'll get a date out of it unless she wanted to **** you at the sight of you or she's kinda sluty/crazy

i would try and talk to her for a little or at least dance with her..

yeah, it's kind of silly to get a number without first doing one of two things if you're at a club:

1) talking -- in case you actually want to bother qualifing a chick at a club
or
2) dancing -- to kino her, get some early use out of her, and possibly get her more interested in you

And if it's really hard to communicate verbally, just give her your cell phone and let her punch in the number

I actually hate Obsidian with a passion after those posts on fingz matrix concept. But i couldn't agree with you more here on this one. Sounds like something you got off a movie, or something only Tom Brady could pull off, oh yea and Brad Pitt. But its not that it couldn't be done, but the success rate of this has to be very low. Could see it happening but not like clock work and wouldn't u still want to go thru at least the 2 steps that Obsidian mentioned? lol She might even act like she's going along with the whole cool suave attitude that you put out and be cracking up on the inside cuz shes about to give you a fake #. And i would blame that only on you didn't even qualify her in anyway, so why would she give you her #, your just a stranger that came up to her and supplied her with a piece of paper, and said you supply the ink. You said this had to do with business but were is the business part in this?? Sounds to me like this was just some random chick in a club. And if it was someone you already knew from work or business this would seem kinda awkward, cuz you already "know" or have seen them before. It's like your to afraid to just do the "work" so you hand her a piece of paper and "run". lol

HeartbreakKid
"You Miss 100% Of The Shots You Do Not Take"

I actually hate Obsidian with a passion after those posts on fingz matrix concept

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Despite our disagreements, I appreciate folks like Obsidian and LMS posting their cautionary views. I think a lot of DJ noobs do need that kind of slap in the face sometimes.

The Matrix post was meant for people who already know what to expect from women and society, but haven't managed to move past that and set expectations for themselves.

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Steering back to the original topic here, number closes are fun little challenges, but really they mean nothing unless

A. The girl is already into you
B. You've done something to make an impression

Anyone can get the digits, generating actual interest is a whole other story.

Señor Fingers said:

Steering back to the original topic here, number closes are fun little challenges, but really they mean nothing unless

A. The girl is already into you
B. You've done something to make an impression

Anyone can get the digits, generating actual interest is a whole other story.

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TRUE.

My tip is to help you out if you got the interest, but don't know what to do next, because nightclubs are loud, and it is sometimes hard to make the next move, considering all of the interference. It is easy to blow it.

By the way, I rarely carry my phone on me when at nightclubs.

And I DID get the real #. She actually gave me her business card. So it was real, my little pessimists. Oh, you did know I was a girl, right? Lol. Even though I got her # for business purposes, I do think she may have liked girls...

iqqi said:

Clubs are loud places, and nothing sucks more than trying to talk to a beautiful stranger when she can't even hear you, and keeps saying "huh!?"

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haha so true! it s kinda like when you re joking around with a foreign chick and she has no idea what your talking about, she s just looking at you with a half smile on her and just keeps nodding...

pen and paper seem kinda outdated, don't remember last time i used that...

Señor Fingers said:

Despite our disagreements, I appreciate folks like Obsidian and LMS posting their cautionary views. I think a lot of DJ noobs do need that kind of slap in the face sometimes.

The Matrix post was meant for people who already know what to expect from women and society, but haven't managed to move past that and set expectations for themselves.

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You know people i could comment on Fingz quotes all day..lol
Yea that is true about what Obsidian was trying to get across. I didn't really see it till one of his latest posts. Cuz even if you are in tune with yourself if you dont know society, and the women your dealing with its only half the battle. And all the new DJ's need to know that. Fing said it best in the matrix post;Awareness of your surroundings and Self mastery combined. I'm not a newb although Ive only got a handful of posts, but I'm def learning alot here. Funny how this matrix post could expand to other topics!! If any of you guys haven't checked it out look it up now! Its a must read!

Señor Fingers said:

Steering back to the original topic here, number closes are fun little challenges, but really they mean nothing unless

A. The girl is already into you
B. You've done something to make an impression

Anyone can get the digits, generating actual interest is a whole other story.

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Thats tru too, cuz even if you did get the #, that doesn't necessarily mean anything after that. Unless you've struck her interest, and she is into you. I feel people celebrate too much when they get the # close. Although it is a big step, its only the first of many. I'm not saying discount it, but dont get over-confident just cuz of this.

iqqi said:

TRUE.

My tip is to help you out if you got the interest, but don't know what to do next, because nightclubs are loud, and it is sometimes hard to make the next move, considering all of the interference. It is easy to blow it.

By the way, I rarely carry my phone on me when at nightclubs.

And I DID get the real #. She actually gave me her business card. So it was real, my little pessimists. Oh, you did know I was a girl, right? Lol. Even though I got her # for business purposes, I do think she may have liked girls...

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Even if you cant hear good enough to use your cell. It still beats the hell out of a piece of paper. Just hand em your phone to put there # in.

And hell no i didnt know you were the "enemey" or a girl, that maybe why this worked like it did? Hey and stay away from our women!! Theres not enough to go around! lol

i smell weak game

there is only one way to get a girls number in a club: dancing with kino! nothing else
but most ppl need social proof like some friends with you or a pivot etc.
But in a club when you are a good dancer and good at kinodancing the chances are very high you will get her nr by giving her your mobile

iqqi i always thought you were female