Georgek,
I believe the number one factor in being with women, is being comfortable with women.
Start out with any female frineds in your social circle, work, scholl, family gatherings, hobby areas.
Basically, learn how to have a conversation with females.
Make it a part of your life, and accept that your reality includes women.
Enjoy their company in a non outcome dependant mentality.
Ask questions, talk about interesting topics, and learn how to socialize.
You will notice your mannerisms, your facial expressions, and body language, tone of voice, postire, and eye contact. And also interesting, and witty things to say.
You will build a social personality.
You will realize that women are just people.
They are not godeses, or Queens. They are just people. It is perfectly natural to talk to females, and interact with them.
Women want you to approach them. Women are almost always into meeting new men, and love the idea of being swept off their feet.
Don't reject yourself before you've even begun to talk and interact with her.
Feel comfortable in that type of environment: Interacting with Women.
Next, understand that you have something to offer to women.
You are charming, funny, attractive, genuine, and well mannered, and know how to treat a woman like a real lady.
You will appreciate women, and enjoy their company. And you will enjoy doing fun things with them. bascially, you are good company.
You will be genuine in your interest, and be able to demonstrate that you are intersted in being more than just friends.
Bascially, you are a sex worthy man, and you cna exhude sexuality, and let her know you are interested in more than friends. You are comfortable with your sexuality, and are comfortable with women's sexuality. You do not condemn or judge them.
You are comfortable with your sexual desires, and comfortable in expressing it to the ladies.
Next, put into practice some simple skills.
Be approachable.
Smile when making eye contact. Say "hello" to strangers that make eye contact and especially if they smile at you initially.
Here's a secret.
Don't tell anyone this, it's top secret stuff:
If you are comfortable with your sexuality,and your natural masculine sexual desire for women, and genunely love and appreciate women.....they will notice "something" about you.
That "something" is approachability...and acceptance of women.
I call it a "Sexual Warmth".
(Most women initiate eye contact, smiling, and "hi" to me first. And generally, out of a crowd of men, most women will engage me first.)
This means you have no misogynistic tendencies at all, whatsoever. And naturally liove women, ALL women. You don't judge them (but you're not naive or AFC) but you accept them.
Make eye contact with women. Make and hold eye contact with women who "notice" you. Smile at them.
Keep practicing this. Pay attention to women's body language, expressions, and their eye contact.
Women often simply give in to their inital attraction and "look over" a man they are attracted to. If ther curiosity is piqued, they will look at you. If they are more interested , they will have repeated eye contact "glances".
Be comfortable, and confident in exchanging those "glances".
Learn a woman's "glances".
Capitalize on them.
Show interest. Sexuality charged interest.
Your eye contact says it all. Look at a woman sexually, and sensually.
Don't drool or ogle her. Don't stare at her breasts. Just look into her eyes, and give her the look that shows her you're a Mascukline Man who likes what he sees. Don't be intimidated. See her as a Woman. Not simply a semen recpetacle. this is big. This is huge. Women want to be desired for their beauty. Not purely becasue they ahve a vagina. To recognize inward/******d beauty of a womna is one of the most desired things a woman wants. Women want to be fabulously desired.
All that goes out the window when you stare at her tits.
Can you never do that?
Well, actually. yes. You can do that. Women want to be desired sexually as well. but it's up to you to find out when you can look her over with a sexual lust in your eyes.
Hint, it's not when you first meet her.
Women love to be looked at with desire in your eyes.
Learn this skill.
Once you re comfortable exchanging those glances, make and hold the eye conctact, and smile. Wacth to see what she does. If she stops, and smiles at you, that is your opportunity.
