I need help with street approaches?

I usually approach on bus when i am travelling, but now my student card expired i would have to walk places (a lot!). One good exercise , 2 cheaper and 3 in its own way more reliable. Right anyway to the point, i saw about 30 opportunities to approach and i bottled it, i saw them on the move and was intimidated, which is what i have to sort out myself, but i was wondering if u guys could give me any tips on talking to women who r walking towards u. In my head i feel i am just going to get shot down seeing that i am pestering them while they r probablly going somewhere.

rushing dude 123 said:

I usually approach on bus when i am travelling, but now my student card expired i would have to walk places (a lot!). One good exercise , 2 cheaper and 3 in its own way more reliable. Right anyway to the point, i saw about 30 opportunities to approach and i bottled it, i saw them on the move and was intimidated, which is what i have to sort out myself, but i was wondering if u guys could give me any tips on talking to women who r walking towards u. In my head i feel i am just going to get shot down seeing that i am pestering them while they r probablly going somewhere.

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TBH mate you probably will...street approaches imo are a waste of time. When a woman's stood still somewhere; in a queue, in a lift etc etc etc you can approach with a good success rate...but on the street, be prepared to get shot down alot. Of course, if you don't mind this you can just be super direct, tell them you think they're gorgeous and ask for their phone number, but personally I'd rather go for more natural approaches.

I agree with L777 to a point.

You can get some positives out of this.
Look for the ones walking along with you and open them.
Say hi to them. Try out some openers.
Use it to build game.

Alright i did that approach 8 times i will tell u results and can u give any advice on the **** ups, it will b well appreciated.

1. I saw a HB 6.5 sitting eating a banana and she looked over, so i went up to and said u look pretty cute whats ur number. To my suprise she wrote it down and asked my name and then talked a bit.

2. Then straight after saw a HB 6 and said same line. She said why, i said why have u never done this before she said well ur not cute has me. I replyed o someones pretty confident, how cute am i? she said pretty cute. So i then said well jus give me ur number and see what u think. She did.

3. Same line on some cute muslim girl, but she said she could not due to her religion. Anyway started talking to her anyhow and she was pretty friendly.

4. Done it to a older woman but she looked nice "i got sorry mate"

5. I did it to a girl who just looked me up and down and then walked away. thanks......

6. Asked a girl how old she was because i was not sure, she said 24 so i said she looked cute and then whats her number. She said sorry mate i am taken.

7. Girl coming up escalator did it to her she smiled and paused, i thought she was going to do it, but she said sorry. I think i may of been smiling a bit to much.

8. This was a girl who looked over near escalator and then was leaning over banister, so i approached and she was like r u joking, i said no....., she said go away i said alright whatever. (this one sucked)

9. This was not to do with these approaches, but it was harsh and thought u guys could help. I was at bowling place and saw 2 girls and i approached one of them and she was laughing, then the more attractive blonde one came over. She said getting chatted up r we amy i said chatted up huh?. Then i started talking to blonde and i asked so what do u 2 do? she said none of ur business..... I said to her friend i c shes the mean one and she was laughing. Then the blonde one went yeh i am, so none of ur business. Then i went alright whatever and walked away.

I can't c why the day went good to bad, it dosn't make sense.

I don't get it, why was it so good, then it went so bad. Things i can think of r.

1. Some how my attitude changed.

2. I was with my friends on the approaches 6-9, which were the worst i would say, but my friends were just in background and i am guessing the girls knew i was with them.

3. Not enough eye contact maybe, i can't remember.

4. These approaches should of been done on the moving only, i think if they were sitting i should of just started a convosation.

5. I think the failure may of got to me.

6. Should of maybe spiced things up, maybe change pretty to gorgeous or jus approach them and say hey hey wanna go out?

u know what i feel, its very random...basically there are no rules, the reactions vary from girl to girl, but as for your approach i'd say u r being too damn direct - u really cant ask for her number man when she has no idea about who u r!..
I myself am dying to make a breakthrough with walking targets...they r always hot!..lol

but in general try to find the right target...not so busy, not too dressed etc and of course a girl having banana is a sweet target lol...

then use your brain, observe and say something about her/your surroundings ...make your unique kinda opener and be calm... dont let her get freaked out by your direct approach, and things like her name or number should be asked only while ending the conversation, not a rule though...

use a better place for your day games, but i must say u have some balls man being so direct...

i'm pretty much new to the game and kind of evolving myself but thats just my opinion...

rushing dude 123 said:

I don't get it, why was it so good, then it went so bad.

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I think at first you were pretty excited about approaching each particular girl and did it quite naturally. But as you kept approaching it became a cold repetitive routine for you. You didn't care enough anymore. You weren't living the process anymore. And girls can realize that. And they'll immediately get the feeling that you approach like 10 girls a day and it means nothing to you. You have to keep it alive man.

you know when they walkin towards you, you gotta be on yo feet cuz they finna dissappear if you don't hola soon, i mean thats the way i see it you got your ones walkin away from you and the ones they walkin to you you know you gotta think quick. you gotta have no hesitation at this point so.... do whatever you can to grab they attention and from then on just move it to where you want it to go. simple as that. just be unhesitant and move towards the goal however way you can you know its just that...simple nature aint gotta be all rocket science you know people they be all up in yo face about what line to use and what method is the best but i aint gonna hold yo hand and walk with you through it. i got my own battles to face... i mean theres a way thats right and a way thats wrong but you gotta understand this game is an art form and in every art piece you have a style and a man behind it. thats how i got good at it i just practiced everyday trying this and trying that....then completely clearing everything away trying something else i mean thats what it is. so make it the best you can and believe in yourself and everything else will follow.

thanks for replys guys, i have been thinking them through and ur right i should of mixed it up a bit, because like u said lyamdb it was just a repititive routine. The reason why it went well at first because it was new and i felt it, the actual approach came from the gutt. jeez i was laughing my head off today on my and my friends approaches, this was my first **** blocker and *****s, aw sweet memorys :crackup:. On the girl who said was i joking i should of just said yeh haha (sarcastically of course)and left. The bowling girls, i should of kept talking to the nice one and say stuff to her like wow u r kicking her ass badly is that why she is mad today and then when i left shoud of said bye to nice one whilst i jus ignored the *****. Girl on escalator i think she looked interested i should of kept going for it.