Finally broke up.

DjVelvet said:

It is a new model about $700. How am i going to get it back from her? Go to her place and make a ruckus!?

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KontrollerX said:

Do you have any proof of ownership?

Get that together and contact the phone company and the cops.

DJDamage is probably right but in a situation like this I would cause the b!tch as much of a hassle as humanly possible even if it cost me more money by taking her to court.

Anything to inconvenience the cvnt I say.

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KontrollerX said:

You could threaten her you will go to the cops if she does not give you your phone back.

Its an idle threat since you have no proof of ownership but it may work as no one sane usually wants to risk law enforcement involvement.

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Interceptor said:

Velvet, I know you're not a good place right now..
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, man. I really am.

But it would help you, and us all , if you post the details of your breakdown.
We need to do a Post Mortem. I'm dead serious, this is going to help you and us. We'll better be able identify the snags, and the good stuff, and help you get through this as well.
Thanks in advance, bro. And don't get too carried away with any negativity or self flagellation.
We're all just human, buddy. There's only so much we can see up ahead on the road, and just how well we can respond to the situations.

Talk to you soon.

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DjVelvet said:

Hmm. How we break up.. Long story man... I made mistakes, but she made 10x more.

We had a huge quarrel last night, and it leads to some violence. Messy breakup. She is an utter b!tch, let's see what she had done...

She has called me when i walked away the last time round 3 days ago. She came straight to my place before i can say no. Alright then we so called "became okay", but our hearts are filed with resentments...

We were supposed to go for a movies and I ask her not to stay over my place for the weekend as i am going to be busy and some family stuffs crop up (As she always do). She's like damm angry and pack her bags and leave immediately. She has no control over her emotions.

I walk away outside to smoke while she's packing her bag. She came to me and i refused to talk more. Then she said something that provokes me big time, we quarreled and she left halfway in the MIDST of a quarrel (How i hate it). I pulled her back with my hand, asking her to show respect when a person is talking. It bruises her and she SCREAMS, ran to my neighbour and ask my neighbour to call the cops as I was using violence. Damm b!tch.

Afterwards, we quarreled in the public at my residential area, and she kept screaming like a mad dog. really.. totally like a mad dog.. Everyone's looking and i told her that we need to talk under a "PRIVATE area", not public. She's getting everyone to think that she's innocent again.. She continued screaming and i gave her a slap. She retaliate with a punch in my face. Argg.

We then agreed together and get some common friends out. We told them what happen for the past few weeks. and guess what.. ALL of them think that she's a bit insane... and her behaviour is totally unacceptable.. They let her know about all her mistakes. She listened but think nothing about it.

They told her about her problem.

1) Anger managerment problem
2) Extreme stubborness
3) Dual personality (Gets normal and extreme easily)
4) Jobless (Her friends scolded her, she's jobless with a year plus.. Wow?)
5) Many more...

In the end of the disscussion, her friends all sided towards me... yet scolding her... that really shows a lot about her..

She used violence towards me again when we talked about some issues.. and used her high heel to slam at my head. That's a great deal (PAINFUL!).

After she left, her friends are indeed cursing on her extremely bad attitude.. In fact she's getting unpopular among her friends... There onwards... I have truly moved on...

In fact i admit I'm childish in the way i handled things. My emotions get over me. But that b!tch is the catalyst of everything as i have yet encounter this kinda situation with other girls.

The nice high heels mark is still on my head now.

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joekerr31 said:

DJV, i like you dude, but you got what you deserved.

im assuming this is not the first time this chic has exhibited psycho behavior. she probably showed it to you on the first date in some form or another. and yet you completely ignored all the signs and just keep going.

this is what you get. you deserve to lose your 700 dollar phone for getting involved with this chic for as long as you did.

secondly, your behavior in reaction to hers was absolutely pathetic.

not childish dude. pathetic.

totally AFC if you ask me. she throws a tantrum and you respond with tantrum like behavior yourself.

the moment a chic starts behaving like that you, you walk away. you do not engage her. thats like wrestling with a pig in the sh*t and mud, you cannot win. you might pin the pig, but youll still be covered in sh*t and mud.

anyway, life is way to short for women who are insane as this one sounds.

you need to really start looking for a higher class of women.

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jophil28 said:

JOPHIL says- " If you take her back, you are going back to the same b!tch. "

Write that on your fridge !!! Or on the back of your hand. OR on your forehead right next to the high heel mark !,

Next, try this . Type "Borderline Personality Disorder" into Google and read ALL of the first ten responses. Then read them all again tomorrow and so on.

She kept the phone to give her some illusion of control . It is what whacko women do - they do sh!tty things like keeping your stuff or egging your car.
Or calling the cops about some faked-up drama.
Man, they still get nutso at MY age- they never grow up.
Keep your head down and your pecker up.( with someone else )

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KarmaSutra said:

I gotta side with brother Joekerr on this one. You acted like a b1tch. In every way. Always , always , always remember that if you are getting any kind of doubt from your gut about a broad GET SOME DIRT ON HER ASS!

This will counter any kind of bullsh1t in the future. But, you caused this sh1t to happen. You blatantly disregarded all of the signs that this cvnt was nuttier than ten pounds of elephant sh1t. For that you deserve to lose your phone. Let it be a hard reminder of what women are capable of.

Next time do what I did. I had an ex girlfriend who met a redneck from Texas in some fvcking chatroom (cvnt was still living at my house). I was in CT visiting family and got the word from one of my friends that the lights were on at my house in the wee early morning. So I grab the next flight home and find my fvcking house empty except for the coffee table and a night stand. I assumed she went back to her Dad's place so I hauled ass over there and sure as sh!t her truck was there with a bunch of my stuff in the back.

So her old man comes out threatening to call the cops and I tell him I have plenty of video of his darling daughter taking my c0ck up her dirtchute then blowing the load on her face and if he didn't want that video out to every fundamentalist friend he knew he better get my sh!t back pronto! He backpeddled like a motherfvcker and went storming over to the apt behind the house. Then the redneck comes out looking like he wants to start something, see's me bowed up and pissed, turns around and goes back like a good little b!tch. Then finally she comes out and admits that she took the stuff from the house and I remind her of that nice video we took a few months previous while we were drunk. She agrees to move all of my stuff back that night if I give her the tape. I agree and 4 hours later my house looks just as it did before I went up north. Finally she holds her hand out for the tape and I gave her a tape. Thing is it was a video of my Grandmother's 75th birthday .

cut to:

A month later she sends me an IM that her and 'neck aren't working out and she wants to come back to me. I throw her a bullsh!t line about how lonely I am and would love to get back with her. She gets all ancy and begs to come over. I let her. 45 minutes later I hear her truck pull into the drive and she comes in and ravishes me. I get her on the couch and violate every orifice she has. Then go in for the coup de'grace. I go from pvssy to ass then back to pvssy. She realizes what I'm doing and tries to squirm free but it's beyond the point of no return and I blow the load in her taco. She's pissed because I roll off and tell her to get the fvck out and never look back.

It takes only a week for her to get the worst cvnt infection a chick can possibly get. Rendered that thing only good to piss out of.

I still get a cheshire grin when I think about it.

Wish I could give myself a rep point for that! :crackup: :cheer: :rock: :wave: :yes:

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