Does Every Attractive Woman Have A Boyfriend?!

nismo-4 · Aug 28, 2007

I'm kinda facin' facts (or jumping to conclusions) here. Attractive women (HB8-9-10's) seemingly go for the really rich, famous, or men that look like they could have been on American Gladiators. When I work my magic, next thing you know I hear the woman got a boyfriend, even though I do the opposite of what an average joe would do. Not only that, they then say that if they weren't taken, they'd go out with me.

Oh yeah, that's quite a pick me up! They ain't going out with me NOW! What the f**k is your point? :cuss: This happens whether it's in the day or night, even though I show I got the balls to make a move. At times I've even said "get the f**k out of my face" or something similar.

I've gotten sick and tired of the same responses and rejections to a point where I eavesdrop on my targets' conversations and find out if she got a boyfriend or not through listening, good thing the ears are powerful tools. (If so, I never talk to that particular target again, if not, I usually have no clue of what I need to do in the situation and have no other choice to rely on pure luck to win.) The other thing I do is send someone else to go ask my desired target questions for me aka do my dirty work (Keeping my name under wraps, of course)

I always wondered how someone who looks nerdy and acts awkward like Dustin Diamond/ Urkel could end up with a girl who looks like Jennifer Aniston/ Tyra Banks/ Melyssa Ford or something along those lines.

What are your thoughts on this subject matter?

mintxx · Aug 28, 2007

make friends with them anyway. it will get you more contacts and if you make a good impression women will see you as a safe fvck. women talk. work out, join a sports team, and get a decent career. the tables will turn in a few years, let me tell you.

realsmoothie · Aug 28, 2007

My experience? The ones that are "that hot" are usually deficient in other areas, so having a guy on their arm makes them confident in their self-worth as a "hot woman". If they're single, they feel less like a woman. If they were smarter/funnier/whatever, they wouldn't have to rely on their looks.

Oh, and as my mommy always told me, "it doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend".

Stuntmann · Aug 28, 2007

If they don't have boyfriend that means they are damaged. Every undamaged woman has a boyfriend. They are never single, even if the guy is crap she'll stay with him until she finds something better.

The way for you to get her is to be that better guy.

At no point she'll leave her current man and be single, because that makes her damaged, only if she finds another guy first.

Thus, whether she has a boyfriend, is married, or other wise attached to someone, does not mean anything to me. It's not a NO, it's not a YES. You can still come and take her, if anything she'll be flattered.

Think of it this way, they are getting approached so much, that they have to say they are not available. Because average guy thinks of that as a definitive NO, a brick wall, and leaves her alone.

Occasionally, a chick might say she's single to a guy she's interested in. Even though she's not single. (they never are). Less hotter women do this more often than the hot women. Being single for women is a vulnerability, hot women don't like to be vulnerable.

"I'm married!" Is indeed a b1tch shield.

wheelin&dealin · Aug 28, 2007

mintxx said:
make friends with them anyway. it will get you more contacts and if you make a good impression women will see you as a safe fvck. women talk. work out, join a sports team, and get a decent career. the tables will turn in a few years, let me tell you.

Good point. The theory hot women attract more hot women is always good to put in play.

You could also try looking a bit more closely at a woman's body language, after she's seen you. You will definitely be able to pick out the women that are on the prowl and the women that are locked up.

Oisdog · Aug 28, 2007

azanon · Aug 28, 2007

Ignore the boyfriend comment. That's her problem, not yours.

My (now) wife had a boyfriend when I asked her out (her first response to me asking her). I think I just shrugged my shoulders and said "so how does me picking you up at 7 on Friday sound"? After pausing and studying my obvious apathey at her telling me about her boyfriend, she perked up and said "ok", smiling.

It turned out being an out-of-state, LDR boyfriend. She mentioned once that he told her he's going to come find me and mess me up. Showing apathy again, I just said "he can try whatever he likes.". He never showed, and she dropped him all-together later.

A woman will often have a boyfriend right up until the exact point in time that a better man shows up.

blueguy · Aug 28, 2007

azanon said:
A woman will often have a boyfriend right up until the exact point in time that a better man shows up.

Don't you think the same case applies to husband/wife relationships?

azanon · Aug 28, 2007

blueguy said:
Don't you think the same case applies to husband/wife relationships?

If so, to a MUCH lesser extent. There are a certain percentage of women and men that will simply not cheat or divorce unless there are inherent problems with the marriage. Some people make genuine committments that are simply not at risk at all to some DJ who happens along who may indeed be a better man than the husband.

Also, if the woman is genuinely "in love" with her husband, he's the greatest guy on earth to her. They quite literally put him on a top pedesal that no man can touch.

I think for women in particular, the only married woman that's vulnerable already considers herself to be in a troubled marriage and/or already does not love her husband anymore OR she is a woman who never really had no sense of duty to committment and just married because it was the convienent thing to do at the time.

Even though I'm not religious, I greatly distinguish between unofficial "relationships" and outright legal marriages. The dynamics are totally different.

blueguy · Aug 28, 2007

I cannot get over the fact that I have been seduced and cheated with women in relationships and lost complete respect for them and would never have considered them relationship or marriage material. I don't know how you can do it. Maybe you were raised with a different mindset.

speakeasy · Aug 28, 2007

Attractive women have boyfriends for the same reason the best restaurants always have patrons. Supply and demand. Few women comparitively are HB9/10s yet the demand for them is endless. So do the math. They can afford to be picky.

To tell you the truth, who cares if a girl is an HB9. I'd actually prefer an HB7. The higher the girl gets on the scale, the more likely she is to be spoiled and used to getting everything in life based on her beauty. At least moderately attractive women actually have to develope their personality to get somewhere in life. I mean how many HB10s are doing humanitarian work in Africa as opposed to partying, shopping and manipulating some AFC out of his money?

blueguy · Aug 28, 2007

speakeasy said:
Attractive women have boyfriends for the same reason the best restaurants always have patrons. Supply and demand. Few women comparitively are HB9/10s yet the demand for them is endless. So do the math. They can afford to be picky.

To tell you the truth, who cares if a girl is an HB9. I'd actually prefer an HB7. The higher the girl gets on the scale, the more likely she is to be spoiled and used to getting everything in life based on her beauty. At least moderately attractive women actually have to develope their personality to get somewhere in life. I mean how many HB10s are doing humanitarian work in Africa as opposed to partying, shopping and manipulating some AFC out of his money?

That's odd because I find it's the HB9-HB10s that are often single and playing the field, while it's the HB7s who are more likely to be in relationships.

Phyzzle · Aug 28, 2007

At times I've even said "get the f**k out of my face" or something similar.

I think I see the problem: you're a douchebag.

I mean, you can't take rejection personally like that. Guys who actually get angry and cuss over being rejected are scary to females. People who don't know you can't reject you personally, so lighten up.

As for having a boyfriend, that just means she's not married. However, if she mentions her boyfriend (real or imaginary) within the 1st 5 minutes of talking to you, it just means you've been rejected.

BTW, are you a '10'? Why do you think a model hot female should be attracted to you?

SeldomSeen · Aug 28, 2007

the deal is either if their relationship isn't headed for matrimony then she's fair game and she's possibly up for being seduced with the right man who talks the talk and walks the walk.
A big key is if their relationship is flat (dead in the water) or going down
it's much easier to influence her to want to go out with you. If everything is going great then a lot of times you're wasting your time.

Juan_Man · Aug 28, 2007

Not every attractive girl has a boyfriend. But every attractive and nice girl does.

DJVladdy · Aug 28, 2007

To Phyzzle:

I dont know how some men are able to take rejections NOT personally.
I totally agree with nismo... because if a bytch rejects you

She's saying "you're not good enough", or "you're no worthy of me"

To me this is fvckin insulting, so as DMX said if its fvck me, ni!gga u know its fvck u too

movistar · Aug 28, 2007

It does seem like every attractive girl has someone, but I never ask so it doesn't come up unless she volunteers it. I just met this girl seated next to me on an airplane, I chatted her up a bit and she mentioned a boyfriend, I decided to tread lightly and just ask her for her email. She even called her boyfriend as soon as the plane landed which really made me think she was really into him. I emailed her a few times, and she invited me to a party that she was having at her house (hot friends too). Long story short i ended up hitting it.

movistar · Aug 28, 2007

You never know what someone is going through, her mom could have just died or they have someone else on their mind at the time,they could have just gotten fired anything. Also, that's the main reason you should never take a rejection personally.

DJVladdy said:
To Phyzzle:

I dont know how some men are able to take rejections NOT personally.
I totally agree with nismo... because if a bytch rejects you

She's saying "you're not good enough", or "you're no worthy of me"

To me this is fvckin insulting, so as DMX said if its fvck me, ni!gga u know its fvck u too

belividere · Aug 29, 2007

nismo-4 said:
I'm kinda facin' facts (or jumping to conclusions) here. Attractive women (HB8-9-10's) seemingly go for the really rich, famous, or men that look like they could have been on American Gladiators.

nismo-4 said:
Dustin Diamond/ Urkel could end up with a girl who looks like Jennifer Aniston/ Tyra Banks/ Melyssa Ford or something along those lines. What are your thoughts on this subject matter?

Was DD or Urkel on American Gladiators? That would be classic.

As much as so many posters on here would have you believe otherwise, hot girls are always getting hit on. Even if you could get one of these girls to date you from the context of this post you wouldn't be able to handle it. Your intimidated too much by looks. You need to work on your own issues if you plan to hook up with hot girls and actually date them.

And not all hot girls are morons or club sluts. You guys impose to many self limiting beliefs and act like your always right way too often. WTF is the point of visiting a site like this if you aren't willing to try, be rejected, or improve yourselves?

backbreaker · Aug 29, 2007

if you are going around looking for single women, you are oging to be looking long and hard.

Only a place like sosuave, could long for women who are so hot they can have any man they want... then leave them along, because they have any man they want at that time.

the correct mindset you should have, is that well, when she got her current BF, she choose who at that time was the best option for her.

now I'm here. and because I'm well.. me, you are going to hve to look at things again.

with that said, my GF was single when I met her. however, if I wuold have met her a year ago, I doubt things would have played out any differently. I was a better catch then her last BF, who was whiny and insecure (i know him, so I can judge).

No woman, unless married, and even then it's in question, is going to leave the better catch along because she is taken. it just doesn't happen.

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