Seeing thier face light up like a Christmas Tree is when you know you've done a correct direct approach, with the right body language, right tonality, and with confidence.
The guys that would rather use indirect openers don't have the balls to approach a 9 or 10 directly, and neither do most so called "PUA's" they use some lame "opinion opener"
Want to "DHV"? Walk up to a straight up dime, and confidently tell her that you think she is gorgeous, and that you would like to get to know her. Not in a "you're so hot, I would do anything to be with you" type of way, but with a confident state of mind, like "That ass is mine, and I'm going to go take it"
Most guys here can't/won't do it, so they denegrate those who do and can.
Trust me, when done correctly, a Direct approach works better than any "method" I've seen or done, and I've been in the "community" for 10 years.
PU is not complicated. You don't have to "Peacock" or learn the M3 model, or NLP, or "The Cube" or "Cold reads" or any of those gimmicks, tricks and such.
And, if you don't believe me, try it for yourself, then listen to the feedback you get from the women who tell you how awesome it is to have a guy approach them in such a direct, straight-forward manner, instead of using some lame opinion opener when she damn well knows why you are approaching her, and it's not because you care about "who lies more, men or women?"
Actually, many women will categorize you as an "AFC" when you use an indirect approach because you don't have the balls to approach her directly, when she damn well knows why you are approaching her.
And if you're worried about "giving away your power" then you never had any to begin with.
I've had 9s and 10s literally shake and tremble, and say "Oh my god" when approaching them directly.
Who do you think has the "power" in that interaction?
And at that point, she's already yours.
Think you'll get that type of reaction by asking her if she saw the two girls fighting outside over some guy? Or some other overused community opener?
And, it's not just about the approach, it's how you conduct yourself after the approach as well. Being direct. No games. No negs. No Cube. None of that BS
I would also recommend reading "Mode One" by Alan Roger Currie.
Do a search. It's a $20.00 ebook and will open your eyes to what is possible when dropping the games and the BS
Games are for women.
)..and if they seem non-relaxed...MONEY!!!!even better...as its something they don't expect...which is good. Freaking out is the wrong word. Uncomfortable/Shocked/Nervous is the right word. I would def try direct for a bit to see what happens. Just remember...this doesn't have to be as hard as some other guys make it out to be. Keep it simple and don't overanalyze