So, would you have sex with a girl you dated who is now engaged to be married? Before you answer though, here's a twist.....
I know that a lot of you have the bro's before ho's mentality when it comes to respecting another man's relationship, but what if YOU were the one who was originally cheated on?
Last night I went out with a group of friends. One of them was the chick I dated last year who (while she was seeing me) started seeing a guy from her hometown.
Our relationship was casual, no talk of exclusivity or anything, but we did spend a fair amount of time together and I was told through a mutual friend that this girl basically thought of us as a couple.
When the sex started to taper off I knew something was up, but I just stepped back and played it cool, didn't confront her or anything. Finally a couple of months later she sends me an email telling me telling me what had happened.
To make a long story short, I technically wasn't "cheated" on, and who knows what this other guy knew or didn't know, but judging by what SHE thought of our relationship, there is a good chance that he knew she was seeing me.
Anyway, last night this chick was back in town and we all went out to a club. Halfway through the night we were on the dance floor and she turns to her best friend and says "You know, STR8UP is AMAZING in bed. That's why I have to stay away from him!" And this was in a very LOUD club. She made sure I also heard her say it.
I pretty much figured that if I wanted to hit it again it wouldn't be much of a problem. To be honest though, I could take it or leave it, and although I'm no moral crusader or anything, I know she is engaged and it's probably best if I don't get involved with her again.
We were at my business partner's condo afterwards at like 4am, and I only live a few blocks away so I could have asked her to come back to my place, but i walked her friend over there, stayed for a few minutes, then said goodbye and left.
Like I said, I can take it or leave it and the fact that she is in a relationship gives me pause when I even think about trying to hook up with her again, but I couldn't help but wonder how some of you who are very much against "dipping your pen in another mans ink" would handle this.
I took her comment as a green light that she still wants to get busy. Chances are I could have a fukk buddy who only visits every few months, if that's what i wanted. Probably won't pursue it, but to be honest I doubt if I would turn her down of she initiated.
If the other guy in this scenario "took her" from you, would it change your way of thinking about something like this? What if you had a committed relationship?
I know that a lot of you have the bro's before ho's mentality when it comes to respecting another man's relationship, but what if YOU were the one who was originally cheated on?
Last night I went out with a group of friends. One of them was the chick I dated last year who (while she was seeing me) started seeing a guy from her hometown.
Our relationship was casual, no talk of exclusivity or anything, but we did spend a fair amount of time together and I was told through a mutual friend that this girl basically thought of us as a couple.
When the sex started to taper off I knew something was up, but I just stepped back and played it cool, didn't confront her or anything. Finally a couple of months later she sends me an email telling me telling me what had happened.
To make a long story short, I technically wasn't "cheated" on, and who knows what this other guy knew or didn't know, but judging by what SHE thought of our relationship, there is a good chance that he knew she was seeing me.
Anyway, last night this chick was back in town and we all went out to a club. Halfway through the night we were on the dance floor and she turns to her best friend and says "You know, STR8UP is AMAZING in bed. That's why I have to stay away from him!" And this was in a very LOUD club. She made sure I also heard her say it.
I pretty much figured that if I wanted to hit it again it wouldn't be much of a problem. To be honest though, I could take it or leave it, and although I'm no moral crusader or anything, I know she is engaged and it's probably best if I don't get involved with her again.
We were at my business partner's condo afterwards at like 4am, and I only live a few blocks away so I could have asked her to come back to my place, but i walked her friend over there, stayed for a few minutes, then said goodbye and left.
Like I said, I can take it or leave it and the fact that she is in a relationship gives me pause when I even think about trying to hook up with her again, but I couldn't help but wonder how some of you who are very much against "dipping your pen in another mans ink" would handle this.
I took her comment as a green light that she still wants to get busy. Chances are I could have a fukk buddy who only visits every few months, if that's what i wanted. Probably won't pursue it, but to be honest I doubt if I would turn her down of she initiated.
If the other guy in this scenario "took her" from you, would it change your way of thinking about something like this? What if you had a committed relationship?