Get Laid Bootcamp 2007

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Here is a draft of the Get Laid Bootcamp I put together for myself. If anybody would like to join me, you are more than welcome, I will start on Monday, the 13th of August 2007.

Introduction

The initial idea of a GL Bootcamp belongs to MotU: "The Get Laid DJ Boot Camp" Idea, but as he never really got to making it reality, I decided I’d make it myself. I wanted it to be very intensive, so that you can feel you get out of your comfort zone and grow. It is basically the last four weeks of MotU’s BC adjusted for me with the goal of getting laid and the steps I think I have to take for that.

Goal: 3 FC HB7+

Plan

The goal of having 3 lays in the next 5 weeks assumes I would have to have about 8-10 kcloses, that means twice as much first dates, which would require about 50 #closes. Here is the plan.

The same color in different columns means what should follow from that. i.e. from the 20 #s first week I should be getting around 6 dates on the second week.

I think I thought it through quite good, it is going to be hard but it was ment to be. If you have any suggenstions on how to make it work better, or recommend any articles you find inspiring, I’ld be glad to hear them.


1. Week - Approaching / Handling Objections

The purpose of this week is to get enough digits so that you have the next week booked with first dates. The challenge consists not in getting the digits, but in making the girl interested enough so that she would not flake or not answer when you call, or better yet making her GIVE YOU her number.
This week we will also learn to approach moving targets, as it broadens significantly your range of possible targets. Besides stationary targets seem to be hard to find and problematic as they always wait for somebody (usually bf).

First I would recommend reading the How do you protect yourself in your sex life? thread for a bit of education on protection.

Read:
- Laziness = Masturbation by bondjamesbond
- How to game a girl that just walks by you by One on One
- How to "Close the Sale" 95% of the time and get that date! by Master of the Universe
- Gunwitch method. THE way to get LAID.
- The SINGLE most important aspect of picking up women. by Gunwitch
- Freestyling Street Approaches by Señor Fingers
- The Mother of all Theory Posts by Vatican
- Smiling by Rico

Goals:
1. Approach 50 moving targets
2. Get 20 #

Work on:
- Moving targets
- Spark interest to #close


2. Week – First Date / Increasing Interest Level

This week we will practice increasing the interest level, but WITHOUT using any kino. The reason for that is to learn how to stimulate a womans mind, how to offer her emotions, sweep her off her feet with your words so to say.

Read:
- Seductive Conversation by xblitz44x
- Becoming Magnetic by Señor Fingers
- Conversation To Her Heart by A Turtle Name Adrian
- How to be a better conversationalist by Poet
- Seduction without Speed by Adonis
- Eye contact game by Player_Supreme
- Attraction explained by Gunwitch
- Building Rapport by Señor Fingers

Goals:
1. 6 First Dates
2. 15 new #

Work on:
- Eye-Contact
- Convo
- Attraction


3. Week – Second Date / K-Close

The purpose of the third week is to learn what and how to do in order to make a girl want to kiss you. This is where we will use our powerful „weapon of mass seduction” – KINO.

Read:
- The MOST Important Thing! by maranathaman
- Mmmm...Sensuality! by Señor Fingers
- The Ultimate Kino Guide by T Dog
- Double her interest level with one kiss... by Wyldfire
- Quick tip for the first kiss by THE_ADDMAN
- Shezz's Kiss Close
- On Triangular Gazing and Trance Words by Shezz

Goals:
1. 3 K-Closes to follow the dates last week
2. 4 new first dates
3. 10 new #

Work on:
- Eye-Contact
- Kino


4. Week – Isolation / F-Close

The purpose of this week is to practice isolating and f-closing.

Read:
- Overcoming Resistance by Señor Fingers
- Wanna know a quick, easy, fun way to get in some panties? by disciple
- Technique to Overcome Last Minute Resistance (LMR) by Woodhaven
- Gunwitch method 3 GWM CLUB! by Gunwitch
- Don't wait for a sign of interest. by squirrels

Goals:
1. 1 F-Close to follow the K-Closes last week
2. 2 Second Dates/K-Closes to follow the first dates last week
3. 5 First Dates
4. 5 new #


5. Week – Offering Multiple Orgasms

As most guys think the destination of any seduction process is fukking, only to see that it brings other insecurities and problems, the purpose of this week will be to learn to fukk properly and to make the girl you like most remember you for the rest of her life by offering her multiple orgasms.

Read:
- How To Make Her Orgasm by MVPlaya
- Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques
- How to stack orgasms by harlequin
- The Greatest Sex Trick Ever!!!!!!! Gives Every Girl Orgasm Every Time by Allstar69
- Video: How to give a woman an orgasm properly using your hand by bigshot

Goals:
1. 2 F-Closes
2. 3 Second Dates/ K-Closes


Commitment

As MotU stated, commitment is very important for us to succeed. I am going to do this bootcamp anyway, but it will be a lot more interesting and fun if we where at least 10. So fellow DJs, take a second to think if you are really willing to go through all the crash&burns, cause there will sure be many. But dont forget the benefits, cause I really believe that this bootcamp can transform you in a successful DJ.
Whos interested?
 
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Week 1 Day 1

In the first 2 hours of sarging only made 2 approaches, got one number. The other girl had a boyfriend and I could see that the attraction wasn't there so I didn't bother going for the number. I guess right now I face two big problems:
1. Can't get myself to approach moving targets.
2. Building enough attraction to get her interested so that she wouldn't flake when I call her.

#s: 1/20
Moving Targets: 0/50
 

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Mr_Aries said:
This seems real interesting, count me in!
Welcome aboard, let me know how you're doing.
 

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Week 1 Day 1

The end of the day, did another approach, she wouldn't even talk to me. Anyway, it all seems a bit harder than I expected, especially approaching moving targets. Tomorrow I will try the 'I think you look sharp and couldn't just let you walk by without talking to you' approach. I will allow 10 approaches for that and see where it gets me. Anyway, the most important thing is saying it with confidence and SMILING.

#s: 1/20
MTs: 0/50
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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Week 1 Day 2
Nothing.

Week 1 Day 3
Made five approaches, got one number and one email, which I will count as a number because she seemed interested.

Week 1 Day 4
Ok, till now I approached 0 any moving targets. Can't get myself to. And in four days I got only 3 numbers. I don't want to quit the bootcamp because I am not up to the plan, so I will try harder the next 3 days, and if I get 10 numbers and will say hi to 50 people, I will go on.
 

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Yesterday I remembered one important thing about my game that I have forgotten with the time: the first few sets I approach are just for warm-up, so it can be ugly girls, doesnt matter, after that I feel much better and more confident and can approach hotter babes.
 

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Week 1 Day 5

Saying Hi's is also not that easy as it seems because people AVOID eye-contact. Anyway I made my first 10 Hi's and after doing it I already felt much better. Also approached one set of 3 girls in a bar and had a K-close with a HB8. I think she would be a good prospect for my goal, she seemed interested, looks good and is nice. I hardly used any SS on her, as I am not really good at remembering patterns and stuff, but I used a lot of kino right from beginning. I will have to work on my SS skills next week.

#: 4/10
Hi's: 10/50
 

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Ok this is my first type of bootcamp, so here goes

Week1:
I started on Wednesday, which was my first day back at university/college. Approached this random girl wandering around by herself, chatted to her about her classes and her recent trip overseas. She later appeared in one of my classes and sat right next to me. After class I chatted some more to her then got her email/MSN, I didn't want to ask for her # and get rejected, which would make the entire semester awkard for me in that class.

Second approach was to a girl in another class. Walked in, looked for the best lookin girls HB7 (yea not many decent ones in that class LOL), sat down and introduced myself. We ended up pairing up for a assignement which we'll do together. So obviously got her email, but I wouldn't exactly count it.

During the first few days I got in about 10-15 Hi's. Found it hard to say hi to ppl when they avoid eye contact GOD that pisses me off!.

So today is Sunday and I've still got alot of work to do to get in 50 Hi's and 20 #'s. I'll try my best until Wednesday.

The main problem I have encountered is keeping a flowing and interesting conversation for a decent amount of time - long enough to warrant a number close.
 

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Mr_Aries, glad to see you are doing this bootcamp, for me it was frustrating to find out that I can't do what I expected of me. In the first 6 days of the week I got only 5# and 12 hi's. Today I am beat because I got drunk the last night with a good friend of mine. So it seems I am not up to the deal with my own bootcamp, crazy ****!
 

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I gave up this bootcamp -> I just wasnt able to do what I expected from myself, add to that a short term relationship. Still I got one lay, a handjob and a kc (from 30 or so approaches.)
 

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While I think your goals were too high you did a nice job in actually getting kisses a handjob and even a lay. Could you go into more detail on how you made those happen?
 
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