Need Some Quick Advice.

Alright, I'll try and summarize the events best I can (in the interest of time.)

Day One:

-There are three girls, I will refer to them as #1, #2, and #3.

-Number One is cute. Really cute. A nine, with my preferences, a ten.

-Number Two is cute, but not jaw-dropping. She's probably in between a seven or an eight.

-Number Three is pretty cute, she's a solid eight.

I'm on vacation in the tropics.

I come back from the beach to the pool area (where my possessions were saving my tanning chair-thingy.)

I find three very attractive girls sitting next to me (or my stuff actually.)

I dry off, Number Three is checking me out. She liked it.

I put on my hat and sunglasses and begin reading, but aware of them next to me.

Number Three points me out to her friends, they whisper and Number One pumps her arm and mutters yes. I'm feeling good.

Number One asks me if I like the book I'm reading, small talk goes on from there and I learn her name, age, and that she's intelligent and goofy.

I'm digging that.

So I play it cool and go back to reading my book. They talk, chatter, and are fairly loud and giggley. They play a word game an invite me to play.

I play and lose, the game stops (I could have won, I'm telling you...)

God shows his distaste for me and makes it rainy and cold where it rarely rains and is never cold.

They say bye in a flirtatious way, I say we'll have to have a rematch the next day.

Day Two:

Potential speed bump. My contacts crap out on me.

My shorts are on inside out (Right, I ****en know God hates me...lol, but they're board shorts, it was ok.)

Fate has me walk past them as they're heading towards the pool area. I smile at Number 2 (who was leading the line) and she doesn't smile back.

Strange. I smile at strangers and always get a smile back, I generally start a conversation. So I'm feeling some akwardness.

Note that Number One and Three stop, look at me, and have a hushed conversation.

They swim, I avoid them subtly, I'm still rather confused. SO I just read my book while they do their own thing.

They sat about as close as they could to me (it was crowded at the time.)

As I get in, they get in and Number One says (with an incredibly smile) that she didn't recognize me wthout my hat or glasses.

I said (with a laugh) that I smiled at her friend (Number Two) and when she didn't smile back I thought I should back off. She laughed.

I kind of backed off (leave on a high point, right?) and went back to reading.

Insecurity showed it's ugly head. I'm a good looking guy, buy for a nine to pump her arm I wondered if she was a bit let down.

They got out, switched seat to behind me, and played a variation of their previous game (with celebrities,) and offered me a seat to play.

Since I knew nothing about celebrities I declined and said my book was finally getting good.

They played, chicken-fought (I know, right?) and left awhile later after saying their good byes. I wasn't in the greatest mood.

I went back to the hotel, came back later at dusk to read, they came out of nowhere not too long after that and sat next to me.

I noticed Number One's body language was positive, attention directed at me. No glasses or hat. Helped my mental trauma lol.

Number Two thought they should get in the pool (they weren't in bathing suits)

Chicken Fighting was mentioned and I was an inch away from placing myself in that scenario (Oh. My.God. That would be cool.)

But angled towards the rematch (when conversation dwindled.) I lost. Again. (On purpose I tell ya!)

Demanded another rematch (we were kicked out of the pool area) and left.

Day Three:

So here I am, right about noon. Wondering if I should make em wait or go down there and see what happens.

In all likelihood the pool is crowded, I won't be able to sit next to them. I don't really feel like swimming with them, but assertion is a virtue I lack.

Maybe I should. Maybe I should mention chicken fighting. Maybe I should wait until tonight, maybe I should wait until tomorrow.

I have today and tomorrow. I'd be happy with a kissing session with Number One (Or Three lol.)

Eagerly waiting some adive. Stone Cold Fox, save me lol!

Alright, a little update. Went down to the pool (just now) Number Two said, "Hey!"

(I walked right past her before)

I said I hadn't recognized her because she became so dark. A little small talk, I should have sat next to her, but I didn't...

Instead I sat at the spot I've been sitting at for awhile, Number One said Hi, I asked her if she had stolen her floatation thingy.

Right, that was small talk from the day before. Things were looking up (even though I thought of ten better things to have done.)

Then her dad said a asked her if she was ready to go. I immedietely thought, "**** YOU GOD!"

She went for pizza. I came back for a quick update. Help me lol!

Another thing to remember is that they're all pretty religious (who talks about church.)

But I'm not too sure if they're Christians or Naughty Christians.

I can hope, but there are options ot consider. One type might like a certain persona over another.

It's not really faking. I have both nice and dirty parts in my personality. Which one should I show? lol..

I have both nice and dirty parts in my personality. Which one should I show? lol..

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Thats your problem man your afraid to express your personality. Girls dont care about you rpersonality they care about your sexuality. Sexuality is something about youy that ssueres them that you have a **** and you know how to use it. Thats all girls are attracted to because girls are entirely sexual creatures. I think you need to get some more practice you should stop focusing on only these 3 girls thats gonna make you appear desperate look for other girls to.

There are a limited number. Most girls are:

-Honeymooners. That's wrong.

-Too young. That's even more wrong.

-Too old or Married. That's wrong. I'm seventeed. My options are limited.

-Surrounded by family. A lil' wrong. I believe in tact.

I've been excplicitly trying to appear not desperate. Hence my final inquiry.

As for my personality. There are different types in all people.

I'm carefree, funny, sarcastic, but not a Casa Nova. I'm cute, not sexy.

I can be dirty. But not around strangers (unless I'm sure they're ok with it.) These are normal limitations, not me being afraid to express myself.

Great. Well I'll wing it. Update with information later.

Updated! I love the edit button!

Someone ****en help me!

Sorry I can't put alot of effort into this reply, going out in about ten, but I understand you're desperately in need.

Ok for starters, it doesn't seem as if you've really let your charm and wit shine much. Be more assertive and be more aggressive.

Get there contact info, perhaps a room phone number or a cell phone number, that way you can invite them to do something w/o just waiting on them every day.. Maybe volleyball on the beach, or a bite to eat with one of them. What you do doesn't matter, but show a little more interest then what you are.

I understand that you're trying to not show to much interest, but you have to show some or else you'll just be the weird guy by the pool.

So kick up the charm, kick up the funny a little bit, be flirtacious and spend time with them enough to where you build a good comfort level with all of them, then find something to do w/ one of them alone.



What you did wrong, you took for granted that you have multiple days. If you take your time, that means you'll start thinking wayyyy to much. When you have your small talk, have fun, dont try to hard but have fun with them.

GO HAVE FUN!! Be fun, if you are fun you'll create a fun atmosphere which will lead to comfort and comfort leads to good things.

Sorry so rushed, hope it was some what helpful.

Gotta run.

Peace


so..

1) hang out again, build comfort w/ all of them.. then make the close something like, well i gotta jet, nice talking to you, hey give me your cell number or something so we can all meet up tomorrow or later tonight.

2) meet up, have more fun, build a comfort level, if possible try to get one of them alone (will take some time and good vibing).

3) eh..you can take it from here.



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It was. Good points! I've been funny, but not charming. Guess I'll go give it a shot.

You're on vacation man, go have fun!!!

Be confident, thats what its all about.

And if they flake or become *****es, so what?? It's your vacation and you can have any girl you want brother.

Enjoy your vacation man.

I can be dirty. But not around strangers (unless I'm sure they're ok with it.) These are normal limitations, not me being afraid to express myself.

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You dont need anyone's permission to act how you wanna act especially a girl be yourself show all those personalities you listed up their im sure they will like you for them and think your a mystery because they cant categorize you. If they dont like you then **** them that basically told you that they were just dumb *****es and its not you at all. Like wat Stone Cold Fox said just have fun