Manufacturing Destiny

Women are obsessed with the idea of destiny. They are all waiting to meet “the one.” For the typical woman, a primary characteristic of “the one” is that she frequently runs into him at random times and places, as if the universe were plotting their inevitably union. This soap opera, pipe dream fantasy creates a gaping hole of vulnerability which the savvy vagina spy can use to miraculously transform into “the one.”:rockon: :rockon:

Here is an example of how I have used my intelligence gathering skills to set up a manufactured destiny scenario:

Recently I met a girl at the beach in Hawaii who willingly provided me with all the info I needed to set up the destiny plot. In the few moments I spoke with her, I was able to gather that she was a transfer college student, attending summer courses at the local university. She disclosed her major and her class time schedule.

After extracting that info, I suggested a few places she should visit on the Island, with emphasis on my point of isolation, the Hot Pond. (See Isolation chapter in my book) I nonchalantly ended the conversation, leaving her to feel as if we may never see each other again.

Next I checked online to see what building her classes were held in. With that, I knew exactly when and where she would be. Does this put me in a great position to magically bump into her?:rockon:

Three days later I went to the school. To make my visit look official, I picked up a registration packet and then strolled past her classroom at the exact time she was to get out. Pretending to not notice her at first, I then glanced at her briefly, as if struggling to remember where I met her.

“Oh, hey, I met you at the beach the other day. Your name was . . . . wait, don’t tell me.

“Michelle.”

“Oh that’s right, Michelle. Wow, twice in one week we’ve run into each other. That’s a strange coincidence. I wonder what it means? Anyway . . . . ”

Another brief chat netted some more useful info on other locations I might bump into her again. I ended the conversation with the crucial “Oh by the way” technique.

“Oh by the way,” is a great way to start a suggestive sentence. It makes whatever you say afterward seem random, as if it just occurred to you.:yes:

“Oh by the way, did you ever get a chance to go to the Hot Pond yet?” I said this to reinforce my isolation point and keep it fresh in her mind.

I randomly bumped into her again by the gym she works out in, and again at school, this time in the parking lot. Three is the magic number for a destiny scenario. If you can cross paths three times in nine days, each time hinting at the “strange coincidence,” you will successfully establish the destiny scenario. If you run into her every day, or even every other day, she may suspect you. If you wait longer than three days, you may have faded from her memory.:nono:

On the third meeting you can playfully suggest that she is stalking you.
“Have you been following me? This must be destiny then. What else would explain it? Oh by the way. . . . ?

At the end of the third encounter I set up the Isolation/Adventure. It’s the next step in the system.

I've actually been using this technique for years. I didn't really think about what I was doing the way you have explained it. Makes sense though. Chicks really do dig it when they keep running into you, especially if you make them laugh and enjoy your company when you see them. Then they are really excited when they see you and you can just say, "We keep running into each other. Why don't we get together sometime."

To hell with all that noise.

Encounter one:

You: "Hey what's up?"
Her: "Nothing much, just hanging out."
You: "cool, give me your digits so that I can ask you out sometime"

Stop trying to build her up to asking her out. Girls appreciate men who are forward with them. YOu don't have to manipulate her to get her to go out with you. All you have to do is ask!

It's that damned simple.

Vypros, did you even read his post?

I like it Dongfu. This kind of approach can reduce flakiness and any awkwardness on a first date. Asking a girl out directly works sometimes but has a high flakage percentage. Anything that sets you apart from everyone else is good.

Yes I read it.

I just think he's making it out to be harder than it actually is.

In his male brain, he is thinking "Wow, I am really setting this up nicely and she is playing into my hands brilliantly."

In her femal brain she is thinking "Wow, he has talked to me three times, why hasn't he asked me out yet?"

So, in our male brains we think "We've got her wondering, confused about why I haven't asked her out yet."

But in her female brainse she is thinking "I'm bored, I want a MAN to approach me and take me like he owns me."

See what I'm saying?

A man will take what he wants, no questions asked. He will go after what he wants. He will not try to manipulate the "perfect" pick up. He realizes that being "perfect" is boring. He realizes that life is about living and getting what we want out of it.

Vypros said:

Yes I read it.

I just think he's making it out to be harder than it actually is.

In his male brain, he is thinking "Wow, I am really setting this up nicely and she is playing into my hands brilliantly."

In her femal brain she is thinking "Wow, he has talked to me three times, why hasn't he asked me out yet?"

So, in our male brains we think "We've got her wondering, confused about why I haven't asked her out yet."

But in her female brainse she is thinking "I'm bored, I want a MAN to approach me and take me like he owns me."

See what I'm saying?

A man will take what he wants, no questions asked. He will go after what he wants. He will not try to manipulate the "perfect" pick up. He realizes that being "perfect" is boring. He realizes that life is about living and getting what we want out of it.

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I hear what your sayin bro

But in this situation I'm talking about, it would have been inappropriate at the time I met her to ask her out. There was a real time constraint, and she wasnt quite feeling it yet, even though she demonstrated some interest.

The basic rule is: Never ask a question that might get you an answer you dont want to hear. If I had asked for her digits, she may have said no.

Because I am very present with the women I approach, I can tell if it is best to ask her out directly, set up a destiny approach, an adventure, or whatever. Every girl is different, every situation.

It's not always as simple as you make it out to be. Neither is a destiny approach difficult. It is actually very fun. It's a game. And I'll tell you that delayed progression can lead to way better sex.

Straight picking up girls is easy, and can get boring after you have mastered it. I am into more creative approaches at this point. It is a sign of maturity.

DO you suppose Don Juan or Casanova just asked for her digits?

Slight of Penis

I've gotten laid 5 times in the last month with this technique alone. That's not even counting the other sales I made with other approaches.

But the manufactured destiny technique is definitely one of my favorites. I love seeing how women respond to this. It's as if you are a magician, and you are creating magic for her. It's like slight of hand, but it's slight of penis.

I get your attention focused over here, but while your caught in the trance, the penis enters from over here. Women get so caught up in their own destiny fantasy, they don't even notice how you've used it to your advantage.

Gotta watch out for stalkers though. Can be a little dangerous playing with this stuff.