Girls Want To Have Sex Right Away: How Do I Get Them To Wait?

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I've been thinking about my past experiences going out in the last couple months. I've noticed one thing over and over again. Girls do not need any rapport to have sex. This happens every night. For some reason, girls want to have sex right away. I can't get girls to a day2, they just want to have sex that night, sometimes instantaneously.

I would prefer to wait a day or so, but I'm finding this is basically impossible. Anybody else deal with this too?
 
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find less horish girlz. Where are you picking up these ladies?
 
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I travel a lot but mainly at clubs and bars. But sometimes grocery stores and cafes too.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Can you explain this further, assuming you are not a troll.

Do girls go up to you and say 'fvck me'? (which would probably be a sh1t test anyway - which gets me thinking, how do you know if girls really want sex or if they are sh1t testing you?)

I mean, how do you mean girls interested in sex without rapport. The only girls that would go for that would want money, right? But you still need some rapport to talk to her to make arrangements, right?

I concede I dont go to nightclubs, clubs, or any night-spots, but this is ludicrious.
 
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Why not rock her world so much that she wants to have a day two with you? And, ehem, what girls do you hang out with? You need to send one to me and maybe a few other brothers on here, and we'll convince them to have a day 2 with you. hehe. sorry bro, I couldn't resist.

What do you mean by you can't get a girl to day 2? What do you say? give us a scenario. Your post is too broad for any good advice that can cater especially to your problem.

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where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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BuckwildNYC said:
Looks like Skip got a new nickname :trouble:
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Nah Skips new name is something like pimpoloic , this dude is geniune new troll..

so why r u so into bs this site dude
 
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total_afc said:
I've been thinking about my past experiences going out in the last couple months. I've noticed one thing over and over again. Girls do not need any rapport to have sex. This happens every night. For some reason, girls want to have sex right away. I can't get girls to a day2, they just want to have sex that night, sometimes instantaneously.

I would prefer to wait a day or so, but I'm finding this is basically impossible. Anybody else deal with this too?
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You're an idiot!
 
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I kinda think you're trolling tbh...
 
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Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.

DJ naruto said:
Why not rock her world so much that she wants to have a day two with you?
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What? You are in daytona beach and you want to travel to hook up with girls? lol. It should be the other way around! I should be traveling out to florida man!

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where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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blackbelt2k said:
where the heck do you live?? im taking the week off and heading that way, roadtrip anyone?
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hehehehe. Sir, I'm with you. I'll even chip in on the gas money. :wave:
 
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L777 said:
I kinda think you're trolling tbh...
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the only way i see this **** of a thread being true is ur as good looking as antonio sabato jr.

Total-afc post ur pic....
 
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total_afc said:
Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.
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Feedback this :box: you troll.
 
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total_afc said:
Niiiiice. It's great I can get quality feedback like this. I will do this, rather than make them wait for sex.
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You answer my sarcastic comment spawned from your broad post, and neglect to give us a good scenario of when this happens so we can help you. I don't think you want help. You are just posting to post.

You are trolling :trouble:

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I posted this same response in my other thread but since these two threads are so closely related, I'll post it here also:

I've been thinking about this. I think what's happening is that I am subtly rejecting the girls myself first, especially since the girls come on so strong, and since they feel rejected, they don't want to date me in the future.

Like I'll chat with a girl, get a number, then create some rapport, then she'll re-approach me, but then I'll just blow her off, figuring I'll call her later for a date. When they re-approach me, they want me to game them some more and close it out that night. Or, they will try to sex me right away and makeout, and I'll back off. They take this as rejection, and not want to be in contact with me again. This is all starting to make sense now.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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