Asked MILF out at work!!! 39 years old!

So, theres this new light skinned/blonde mexican hoochie mama chick at work. Saw her in her regular clothes one day when she came into our grocery store and I thought she was cute for a 39 year old. She has 1 kid and gone through 3 divorces.

So, I walked into the break room today, and BAM she was there and thought it was the perfect oppurtunity to show her im interested.. REALY interested.

So I open with... (sorry for the bla bla's, I wasn't paying attention to her crap. I was really focusing on asking this milf out the whole time)

Me: U are always on the phone
Milf: yeah, bla bla
Me: U on break?
Milf: yeah bla bla bla
Me: So, u said ur single right? You seeing anyone right now?
MIlf: No, bla bla bal. I was at the night club last night, etc etc I don't like those possesive guys, bla bla
me: U drink?
Milf: yeah, bla bla
me: ok, lets go out and drink
milf: well, where do you go drinking? I can't just go out at anytime, I have a kid.
me: gimme ur number and we'll figure things out.
milf: (smiles) ok.
me: so, how old was the youngest guy you have been with?
milf: ive never been with anyyone younger than me, most of the guys i have been with were older. There was this old guy who wanted me to call him the other day, bla bla bla and he gave me his number. bla bla. So how old are you?
Me: How old do I have to be?
milf: i guess it doesn't matter huh
me: well, i got to get back to work. cya
milf: cya

The whole time she was sitting in the chair, her legs were WIDE OPEN facing me almost resting on top of another chair. Thats one thing i observed about this chick body language wise.

I Let u guys know what happens

Sounds good! This is an example to others about not wasting time and thinking to hard about an approach. Yeah she's a MILF so what the goal is obvious and he went for it. The worst she was going to do... Say no.

Congratulations for getting her number despite coming off as an AFC. Asking if she's single and asking her about the youngest guy she's dated is straight up high school-like AFC questions. If she's dating someone, let her bring it up, you just want to hook up with her so focus on that. And asking her about the age thing... WTF were you thinking? Were you trying to disqualify yourself?

None the less, congratulations. Hopefully she's not leading you on just for the attention and her own ego stroking. Let's see what happens if the two of you go out together.

Francisco d'Anconia said:

Congratulations for getting her number despite coming off as an AFC. Asking if she's single and asking her about the youngest guy she's dated is straight up high school-like AFC questions. If she's dating someone, let her bring it up, you just want to hook up with her so focus on that. And asking her about the age thing... WTF were you thinking? Were you trying to disqualify yourself?

None the less, congratulations. Hopefully she's not leading you on just for the attention and her own ego stroking. Let's see what happens if the two of you go out together.

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Yeah the way he handled himself there is still a big chance that this woman will rethink and reject him. I wouldn't hold my breath on this one because it can still go the other way.

Francisco d'Anconia said:

Congratulations for getting her number despite coming off as an AFC. Asking if she's single and asking her about the youngest guy she's dated is straight up high school-like AFC questions. If she's dating someone, let her bring it up, you just want to hook up with her so focus on that. And asking her about the age thing... WTF were you thinking? Were you trying to disqualify yourself?

None the less, congratulations. Hopefully she's not leading you on just for the attention and her own ego stroking. Let's see what happens if the two of you go out together.

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I'm glad someone else said this because I was thinking the same thing! I'm surprised that it worked actually, because it does sound a little lame and you reveal all your cards too easily asking these types of questions instead of being more subtle. But hats off to the lad, he got a result, and ultimately it doesn't matter how you get there in the end.

Francisco d'Anconia said:

Congratulations for getting her number despite coming off as an AFC. Asking if she's single and asking her about the youngest guy she's dated is straight up high school-like AFC questions. If she's dating someone, let her bring it up, you just want to hook up with her so focus on that. And asking her about the age thing... WTF were you thinking? Were you trying to disqualify yourself?

None the less, congratulations. Hopefully she's not leading you on just for the attention and her own ego stroking. Let's see what happens if the two of you go out together.

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Do you always have to wait for them to bring this "I am not dating someone" line inorder for you to make a move?.

We had a previous conversation in the break room. She just brought up the "not getting married ever" topic couple days back and so, thats how i found out.

2Cool said:

Sounds good! This is an example to others about not wasting time and thinking to hard about an approach. Yeah she's a MILF so what the goal is obvious and he went for it. The worst she was going to do... Say no.

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I am really getting to the point where "rejection" is starting to not become a big deal anymore.

I work out, my body is becoming more in shape by the week. I feel good. I've gotten hit on by customers at work. So, it re inforces my self esteem.

By the way, this milf said previously"she has no friends" and that "it's been 3 months" since she hooked up with someone

I plan on using no "game" on this one. Just direct game. We either do it or not. And thats that.

seagull said:

I'm glad someone else said this because I was thinking the same thing! I'm surprised that it worked actually, because it does sound a little lame and you reveal all your cards too easily asking these types of questions instead of being more subtle. But hats off to the lad, he got a result, and ultimately it doesn't matter how you get there in the end.

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It worked because he did the hardest part right; the one most people mess up on, so to speak. And that is, making the approach and following through in any sort of way. For every man that can do that, there are 3 that shake at the knees at even the thought. Sad, but true.

And how old are you verysuave?

DJDamage said:

Yeah the way he handled himself there is still a big chance that this woman will rethink and reject him. I wouldn't hold my breath on this one because it can still go the other way.

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Absolutely. She could easily boost her ego by stinging him along and dropping him. That would be a good story for her to tell her girlfriends. Hopefully it won't pan out that way but it could happen.

verysuave said:

Do you always have to wait for them to bring this "I am not dating someone" line inorder for you to make a move?...

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Who said anything about waiting? Just don't bring it up. Forge ahead and if it is an issue, she'll bring it up, otherwise assume she is available (which doesn't necessarily mean that she's single).

Easy 'nani, man. After 2-3 drinks, really open up the kino. Get the faucet running.

actually, rejection is the best thing that can happen to you. I would rather get rejected bya cvnt than to get the number, waste time on dates with a woman that I found out to be a cvnt.. better you let me know up front.

yeah, besides the age question, you did good.

Francisco d'Anconia said:

Congratulations for getting her number despite coming off as an AFC. Asking if she's single and asking her about the youngest guy she's dated is straight up high school-like AFC questions. If she's dating someone, let her bring it up, you just want to hook up with her so focus on that. And asking her about the age thing... WTF were you thinking? Were you trying to disqualify yourself?

None the less, congratulations. Hopefully she's not leading you on just for the attention and her own ego stroking. Let's see what happens if the two of you go out together.

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Hmmm. I didnt really see his approach as AFC. Not as smooth as it could have been, but he was just very direct and to the point. AFC stands for angry frustrated chump and I think he handled himself decently in this instance.

Microphone Fiend said:

Hmmm. I didnt really see his approach as AFC. Not as smooth as it could have been, but he was just very direct and to the point. AFC stands for angry frustrated chump and I think he handled himself decently in this instance.

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AFC = Average Frustrated Chump.

It wasn't his approach, it was his fishing for validation afterward that lessened his credibility. He asked about her status which is like testing the waters before jumping in (trepidation isn't sexy).

Next he wondered whether she could be interested in a younger guy by asking about the youngest guy she's been with. This was as if he was asking whether he was too young for her to be attracted to him (uncertainty isn't sexy).

His actions were average, if things don't come to fruition he will probably become another frustrated chump (it typically comes with being average).

man she is like a *****.. and the whole conversation is like a crap.. seems like you have to go a long way.. good luck..

I too work in a gorcery store and am going through this w/someone I work with. She's older, but no kids or husband. So I'm just gonna ask for the hell of it.

update can be found here

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125335

bmxcetera said:

I too work in a gorcery store and am going through this w/someone I work with. She's older, but no kids or husband. So I'm just gonna ask for the hell of it.

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any update on your situation?

mine is can be found here again http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125335