Overcoming the "I have a boyfriend" Objection

Dongfu · May 23, 2007

I have read some very misguided post on this topic, including "you have no chance, forget it, etc. :nono:

Here is an excerpt from my book Dong Fu, that wil bring some clarity to this subject:

"Women are as faithful to their boyfriends as they are their beauty products. When a better product comes along, they switch to that one. So, obviously when you hear this objection you need to sell her on the idea that you are the better product. The easiest way to do this is by questioning and raising doubts about her current supplier."

"When a woman says “I have a boyfriend,” what she really means is, “I have a boyfriend… but I’d like to know if you have something better to offer me.”

Women love to throw this one at you, to check if you have a spine or not.

Here's the deal: If you are 100% certain that you have something better to offer than her boyfriend, be it the best one night stand she's ever had or otherwise, her boyfriend is an insignificant factor.

I love when I get this objection because it opens so many doors for me to advertise my product. A woman who says this to me is handing me a golden ticket to the sale.

Remember: Every time you hear NO, hear NO, not yet.:rockon:

Don't get throttled by one of the easiest objections to defeat

backbreaker · May 23, 2007

go and find pooks old post on women with boyfriends, will answer your question

HaremMasterThomas · May 23, 2007

If you meet a hot babe who has a boyfreind and she wants you to fvck her she won't even mention him, you won't know he exists, why do you waste your time posting this rubbish, if you met a hot babe who you wanted to fvck that night and your wife was out of town on a business trip would you start telling the hot babe how gorgeous your wife was, no you wouldn't even mention her, so obviously a babe would do the same thing.

backbreaker · May 23, 2007

HaremMasterThomas said:
If you meet a hot babe who has a boyfreind and she wants you to fvck her she won't even mention him, you won't know he exists, why do you waste your time posting this rubbish, if you met a hot babe who you wanted to fvck that night and your wife was out of town on a business trip would you start telling the hot babe how gorgeous your wife was, no you wouldn't even mention her, so obviously a babe would do the same thing.

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wrong answer

do more reading and less talking (no offense, but I hate when people spread false information)

People seem to forget a very, very important fact.

WOMEN ARNE'T MEN!!!!!

For you to say that a woman will tell you if she has a BF if she wanted you to know, that's what a MAN would do, because that's RATIONAL, and as we all know all to well (or at least should) WOMEN AREN'T RATIONAL, THEY ARE EMOTIONAL

with that said... The way the avg woman thinks.. or at least any woman I have met, is that they think that if they tell you they have a BF, or the fact that they DO have a BF, it should make them more desirable to you, because someone else wants them.

however, if they start talking about how good their BF makes them fEEL or feelings that corrolate being with him.. move on, she's not for sale..

example: (casualy brings up) "yeah my BF just called me not too long ago"

She is letting you know that she has a BF, or in a more primal sense, that she is deserable. Proceed like you didn't even hear her

example2: "look what my bF bought for me, I love him so much" or "my BF took me to the movies, I had so much fun"....

move on.HUGE DIFFERENCE

Raikojo17 · May 23, 2007

Dongfu said:
"Women are as faithful to their boyfriends as they are their beauty products. When a better product comes along, they switch to that one. So, obviously when you hear this objection you need to sell her on the idea that you are the better product. The easiest way to do this is by questioning and raising doubts about her current supplier."

i can see that comparison. but really, is it worth all the trouble just for some dumb unfaithful broad?

Dongfu said:
"When a woman says “I have a boyfriend,” what she really means is, “I have a boyfriend… but I’d like to know if you have something better to offer me.”

no, not really. wat they are saying is "im not interested, stop talking to me" "im trying not to be mean, so i'll lay you off easy"" now leave me the F alone"
my current gf uses this line all the time, single or not. then she laughs with me about all the dumb lines guys spew at her to get around that statement, which all fail horribly. seriously you guys should stop over complicating things and take some things at face value. if she says this then she doesnt like you, big deal! just move on to the next chick.

only if she doesnt mention a bf is he irrelevant. if she does, then she obviously likes him better than she likes you.

Dongfu said:
Don't get throttled by one of the easiest objections to defeat

must be pretty hard to get around, and not easy to deal with. because i see a thread about this crap every day.

HaremMasterThomas · May 23, 2007

backbreaker said:
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wrong answer

do more reading and less talking (no offense, but I hate when people spread false information)

People seem to forget a very, very important fact.

WOMEN ARNE'T MEN!!!!!

For you to say that a woman will tell you if she has a BF if she wanted you to know, that's what a MAN would do, because that's RATIONAL, and as we all know all to well (or at least should) WOMEN AREN'T RATIONAL, THEY ARE EMOTIONAL

with that said... The way the avg woman thinks.. or at least any woman I have met, is that they think that if they tell you they have a BF, or the fact that they DO have a BF, it should make them more desirable to you, because someone else wants them.

however, if they start talking about how good their BF makes them fEEL or feelings that corrolate being with him.. move on, she's not for sale..

example: (casualy brings up) "yeah my BF just called me not too long ago"

She is letting you know that she has a BF, or in a more primal sense, that she is deserable. Proceed like you didn't even hear her

example2: "look what my bF bought for me, I love him so much" or "my BF took me to the movies, I had so much fun"....

move on.HUGE DIFFERENCE

I never said woman were men, if a hot babe has a husband or a boy freind and she wants me to fvck her she will not mention him, if she does then she can forget about me fvcking her because I have other options, if woman want to play these types of mind games with me then they can forget about me, there are enough hot babes out there who don't tell me about their boyfreinds for me to fvck without my having to put up with that rubbish, as soon as a hot babe mentions her boyfreind I'm out of there, I can meet hot babes who say nothing to me about another guy.

Dongfu · May 23, 2007

Remember the golden rule: "Penis buyers are liars"

Usually this objection is not the truth. She says she has a boyfriend because it seems to be an easy way to get rid of you. However, if you pro-actively investigate with a low-pressure approach, you can discover the real truth behind the objection. Once you know the truth you can continue to promote your product.

If you bailout, you will loose the sale, so go for it

"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" Wayne Gretsky

Dongfu · May 23, 2007

HaremMasterThomas said:
I never said woman were men, if a hot babe has a husband or a boy freind and she wants me to fvck her she will not mention him, if she does then she can forget about me fvcking her because I have other options, if woman want to play these types of mind games with me then they can forget about me, there are enough hot babes out there who don't tell me about their boyfreinds for me to fvck without my having to put up with that rubbish, as soon as a hot babe mentions her boyfreind I'm out of there, I can meet hot babes who say nothing to me about another guy.

She may not be telling the truth. If you buy the lie you might be really missing out. Why not spend just a moment to investigate a little deeper.

Raikojo17 · May 23, 2007

Dongfu said:
She may not be telling the truth. If you buy the lie you might be really missing out. Why not spend just a moment to investigate a little deeper.

because it's stupid and not worth the trouble.

if you offered random person food and they said "im not hungry"
would you then persist and say" i know you want it" because by chance they might be lying? no, you'd take it and move on

same with chicks, if she uses this line, she uses it with a purpose. tto stop you in your tracks. not to see if you're a real man or watever.

backbreaker · May 23, 2007

lol... live and learn guys..live and learn

HaremMasterThomas · May 23, 2007

Dongfu said:
She may not be telling the truth. If you buy the lie you might be really missing out. Why not spend just a moment to investigate a little deeper.

As far as I'm concerned the hot babes lying to me are the ones that are missing out, they can lie to other guys if they want to put up with that, I am straight forward with everyone I meet and I expect the same in return, I am addicted to sarging, I cold approach as many hot babes as I can, many of them never mention being with another guy, I'll take these woman into my home, I'm not into hearing about imaginary boyfreinds.

Dongfu · May 23, 2007

Raikojo17 said:
if you offered random person food and they said "im not hungry"
would you then persist and say" i know you want it" because by chance they might be lying? no, you'd take it and move on

Unless you knew that the food you had was the best she would ever taste and it was an experience she should absolutely not miss

True penis salesmen do it for the customer, not themselves

And if you deliver as promised, dont you think she would share her experience with friends?

Serialized3 · May 23, 2007

lol man, the best way to deal with the "I have a boyfriend" objections is to JUST IGNORE IT. Change the subject and keep gaming her.

Panties on the floor 30 minutes later, guaranteed

Poonani Maker · May 23, 2007

I've had women who "know I know" they have boyfriends (I've met their boyfriends) and still act all afc towards me when I come around with her saying things like, "Don't you remember me??? (because I'm busy and don't remember her face)." Then she's hooked and starts thinking about me before she goes to sleep and dreamin about me and before I know it she's after me hard. I have one 8 years younger than me behaving this very way today. Her mom and uncle were even with her when she was yelping about how I didn't even recognize her. So funny. I think she should win a t-shirt. I Make women Work for my eye contact. It's like a present or gift for them to get to even have me look upon them. My precious gaze is so rare that I only give it to the women who truly deserve it and even then they will not get it.

rrrrr · May 23, 2007

It can't be any worse than a girl who won't spend time with you alone but acts like you're her boyfriend. I had a girl call me I haven't spoken to in a week or so call me up with some BS reason and says "we haven't talked in a while, did you break up with me?"

HaremMasterThomas · May 24, 2007

Dongfu said:
Unless you knew that the food you had was the best she would ever taste and it was an experience she should absolutely not miss

True penis salesmen do it for the customer, not themselves

And if you deliver as promised, dont you think she would share her experience with friends?

My D!ck is not a servant to hot babes, it doesn't need to be fvcking every pretty girl that I meet, I'm sure that some other guys D!ck will fvck her if mine doesn't, I don't let my D!ck control my life, I don't even care about sex, I'm not obsessed by it, I live in a City of almost two million people, I don't ever meet the friends of the hot babes that I have fvcked, I don't need to meet them, I cold approach several hot babes every day, if I want a fvck I can always sarge and get one, no pretty girls need to have my own D!ck, nor does my D!ck need to fvck their pvssies, my D!ck is not for sale, it is for my own personal pleasure.

djSlvt · May 24, 2007

When a girl says "I have a boyfriend", she also might not say it directly, but still let you know she's not single. It is to test you. You can fail this test immediately.

It's really like asking, "are you clingy, are you into me so much while you don't know me yet, are you gonna go nuts about me, are you a looser that will stalk me", all these things in this one simple statement from her. Keep in mind she might not even tell you that she has one directly. This is to test how hard your nuts are.

Should you think of "I have a boyfriend" as a stop sign, you're wrong. You shouldn't even think about her boyfriend or her not being available. Because she's really asking are you an average chimp? You can answer yes by not saying a single word.

How you handle this depends on you and the girl. You gotta tell her I don't care about you having a boyfriend or not being available, nor will I go after you any harder now that I know you're not available. 93 percent of our communication is non verbal, so you have a way cut out for you there, you don't have to say much at all.

Now, most women have boyfriends or are married, there are very few single girls, and those that are single aren't as good as relationship girls. So macking is all about relationship women, go for the good stuff, if there is a man to love her then she's good, if there isn't one to love her, something is wrong with her. Here is the kicker: if you are coming across as your average joe shmoe, she'll be testing you on this, but if you coming across like someone she just want to fvck the first time she sees you, she might even hide her relationship status, or else she'll very cautiosly tell you she has a boyfriend (uhhh, unfortunately)...

Keep that in mind, as this is probably not the case in your reality. The opposite of that is when she throws that at you in a way to make you insecure. Just another test, pass it and move on.

HaremMasterThomas · May 24, 2007

djSlvt said:
When a girl says "I have a boyfriend", she also might not say it directly, but still let you know she's not single. It is to test you. You can fail this test immediately.

It's really like asking, "are you clingy, are you into me so much while you don't know me yet, are you gonna go nuts about me, are you a looser that will stalk me", all these things in this one simple statement from her. Keep in mind she might not even tell you that she has one directly. This is to test how hard your nuts are.

Should you think of "I have a boyfriend" as a stop sign, you're wrong. You shouldn't even think about her boyfriend or her not being available. Because she's really asking are you an average chimp? You can answer yes by not saying a single word.

How you handle this depends on you and the girl. You gotta tell her I don't care about you having a boyfriend or not being available, nor will I go after you any harder now that I know you're not available. 93 percent of our communication is non verbal, so you have a way cut out for you there, you don't have to say much at all.

Now, most women have boyfriends or are married, there are very few single girls, and those that are single aren't as good as relationship girls. So macking is all about relationship women, go for the good stuff, if there is a man to love her then she's good, if there isn't one to love her, something is wrong with her. Here is the kicker: if you are coming across as your average joe shmoe, she'll be testing you on this, but if you coming across like someone she just want to fvck the first time she sees you, she might even hide her relationship status, or else she'll very cautiosly tell you she has a boyfriend (uhhh, unfortunately)...

Keep that in mind, as this is probably not the case in your reality. The opposite of that is when she throws that at you in a way to make you insecure. Just another test, pass it and move on.

I don't know where all of you guys hang out and live but I live in an appartment in a block of 48 in the most affluent area in a City of nearly two million people, I have lived here for 3 years and there are two HB8's both of whom have very highly paid jobs and I've never seen them with a guy, they are both attracted to men but have become frustrated by them I think, it is complete rubbish that there are no hot babes without partners, there are lots of them around these days, the hot babes who are in relationships all the time are useless creatures, they can't live without a guy, the only thing they are good for is a quick fvck, anyway only half of the hot babes I meet tell me that they have a partner when I'm talking to them, I can't see why anyone would have to bother posting a thread about it.

djSlvt · May 24, 2007

Things you preceive depend on who you are. Clearly you perceive wrong, and require putting all of us guys down and raising yourself to a higher level you think is higher.

It's not about who you are, or what you do, it's about where you're coming from. With what you said, you're coming from the virgin islands. You don't have a clue about women. For you, those tiny creatures are powerful and unattenainable, you want an insurance she will accept you before you can think about looking at one.

Just because girl is in love with this other guy, is not meant to make you insecure.

HaremMasterThomas · May 24, 2007

djSlvt said:
Things you preceive depend on who you are. Clearly you perceive wrong, and require putting all of us guys down and raising yourself to a higher level you think is higher.

It's not about who you are, or what you do, it's about where you're coming from. With what you said, you're coming from the virgin islands. You don't have a clue about women. For you, those tiny creatures are powerful and unattenainable, you want an insurance she will accept you before you can think about looking at one.

Just because girl is in love with this other guy, is not meant to make you insecure.

Sometimes I want to fvck a hot babe, if I'm not out sarging I forget that my D!ck exists, no hot babes are unattainable, they do not have any power over me whatsoever, if a hot babe doesn't want me to fvck her I just move on, it isn't like there is only one gorgeous girl living on the Earth, there are millions of hot babes to fvck, life is like a lottery if you continue to sarge you will fvck hot babes, if you stand back and wait for them to approach you nothing is ever going to happen, so I continue to sarge.

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