Never gonna happen?

So the one girl I have the oneitis for I find out she has a bf...... She was interested in me intially but I never asked her for her # and then I ignored her for a while and she was desperate to talk to me and I didn't and then she stopped wanting to talk to me so I started to talk to her again because I felt she deserved it and now since ive talked to her she's kinda happy about me but I find out she has a bf.... so my question is should I ask her for her # anyway just as kinda like friends to hang out?, to keep in touch? Or just in case something happens in the future w/ her bf and they break up? Or is she a lost cause?

ummm... There's nothing wrong with stealing her away, and if that don't work, you can always move on.

^yea that is what I thought, but I had read somewhere that if you discover that the target has a bf you should not pursue her. But I know this girl and she is interested in me and alsmost intimidated by me.....the only question now is how do I take her away? Anyone got any info?

Just treat it as if she has no bf, and if she brings him up in a conversation, either ignore it or use a bf destroyer.
This is one I got on another seduction board and is pure genious, credit goes to Romeo7 from that board.
HB: I have a boyfriend

PUA: I'm glad that you're straight, If you were a lesbian I would prolly be hitting on you

HB: (CRACKS UP)

PUA: Let me ask you something, Look at me, and tell me, do you think I would make a good boyfriend?

HB: Yes/I don't know/ Maybe

PUA: You see, I bet you your boyfriend is like the greatest boyfriend in the world, he probably calls you 5 times a day to make sure you're ok, to see where you are and with who, buys you roses and chocolates.

HB: Not really...

PUA: Stop hiding it... You guys probably make a great couple, and with no doubt will be married in a couple of months and have handsome kids

HB: I'm not even thinking of marriage

PUA: Yes, you are,

**** ALL OF THAT WAS TO DEVALUATE HER BOYFRIEND'S IMAGE****

**** BUT IT KEEPS GOING *******

PUA: Anyway, getting back to my question,I think i would make a terrible boyfriend

HB: Why you say that?

PUA: I wouldn't call my girlfriend five times a day, I would call her ten (isn't that sweet) *** she laughs**** ok, eleven.... Then I would make fun of her friends and have her cook for me, and finally I would break up with her on Valentine's day

**** ALL PLAYFUL TONE BUDDY *****

HB: HAHAHAH, you're so mean

PUA: Yes, I am

***** HERE COMES THE TRANSITION TO SEDUCTION *****

PUA: So, let's go to eat, you can bring your boyfriend if you want i would love to meet him

HB: really?

PUA: no

HB: hahaha

PUA: we are going to eat, as friends, but of course you're paying

***** THIS IS SOLID, THE "AS FRIENDS" DRIVES GIRLS MAAAAAD ABOUT YOU ******

thats pretty nice

SenorSuave WOW, that sounds golden. I am going to try this, but will this work for sure? Has it been field tested?

does it matter if I asked her if she has a bf? I kinda asked her indirectly by asking where he was? And she answered. So then I said so you do have a bf? Do I just keep acting like she doesnt have one?

I take no credit for that bf destroyer. Like I said, credit goes to Romeo7 on another forum. However, I have field tested this and it works wonders.

ok, I have found another bf destroyer here.....http://www.theseductionbible.com/2006/10/12/cliffs-list-102602/

for future ref...here is an thread on a bf issue...but it is debatable so you should read through the whole post.. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123970

another one that has been tested http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123214

I actually did break up with my gf on valentines day.