Made her cry, unintentionally

Well ok, there is this girl that I have been chatting to on MSN.

And basically, I'd known her in primary school; we lost contact untill just a few weeks ago.

The problem with her is: Her personality is extremely insecure, she is shallow and superficial, and she presents herself as one of those ditzy and stupid mall rats.

Now, whenever I chat with her; she always bring up the subject of:
"MIKE SHOW ME SOME HOT GUYS! I NEED HOT GUYS TO MAKE ME HAPPY!"

Each time I chat with her she will bring up the subject; but then one day I couldent take her childish antics and then I suddenly said to her.

"You are not attractive, and my friends agree. So stop being a stupid girl, everyone thinks you are ugly; you are fvcking rough".

She cried, did I take it too far....I made her cry.

I found it kind of funny, because she lied about how she was going to her 'boyfriends' house....if she had a boyfriend why would she keep asking me to introduce her to hot guys?

She has no good looking friends; shes stupid and ugly and has insecurity issues, just the type of girls I despise.

michaelhctam said:

She has no good looking friends; shes stupid and ugly and has insecurity issues, just the type of girls I despise.

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So why do you care if you made her cry? :woo:

Are you sure you are not the one that is insecure? Most insecure people are the ones that feel the need to insult others.

Skel said:

Are you sure you are not the one that is insecure? Most insecure people are the ones that feel the need to insult others.

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So if a used-car salesman called you up at 2AM asking you to introduce him to ferrari car dealers and bently car dealers and groviling and begging; you wouldent insult them and tell them to fvck off because that would be insecure?

Here's the insecure part:

Your dwindling on bullsh!t you shouldn't be giving a thought to.

Your feeding her cries for attention with your own.

WTF are you wasting your time even thinking about this for?

You are not attractive, and my friends agree. So stop being a stupid girl, everyone thinks you are ugly; you are fvcking rough".

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I need to ask... what the hell were you thinking when you told her this? Why did you feel the need to insult her? Just because you don't find her attractive, it doesn't mean you have to let her know in the rudest way you can possibly think of.

I know apologies are not widely advocated on this site, but this girl fvcking deserves one from you.

Desdinova said:

I need to ask... what the hell were you thinking when you told her this? Why did you feel the need to insult her? Just because you don't find her attractive, it doesn't mean you have to let her know in the rudest way you can possibly think of.

I know apologies are not widely advocated on this site, but this girl fvcking deserves one from you.

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I think he should just cut his losses and move on, he got back in touch didn't like what he got, he shouldn't think twice about it and keep this chapter of his life closed.

No need in dragging around something that isn't really significant.

Desdinova said:

I need to ask... what the hell were you thinking when you told her this? Why did you feel the need to insult her? Just because you don't find her attractive, it doesn't mean you have to let her know in the rudest way you can possibly think of.

I know apologies are not widely advocated on this site, but this girl fvcking deserves one from you.

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I agree. Too much "sucks to be you" and self ego stroking going on, if I were to take a guess. Easiest way to feel better about yourself is to put someone else down.

stinkyape said:

So why do you care if you made her cry? :woo:

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Well if you read the thread name (unintentionally) so I did not purposely make her cry.

And if I am just trying to find some place in my soul to find a reason to apologize to the b!tch.

Desdinova said:

I need to ask... what the hell were you thinking when you told her this? Why did you feel the need to insult her? Just because you don't find her attractive, it doesn't mean you have to let her know in the rudest way you can possibly think of.

I know apologies are not widely advocated on this site, but this girl fvcking deserves one from you.

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You know when you dont find someone attractive at first but they have an amazing personality and then they suddenly become attractive to you, yeah its kind of like that but its the adverse version of that. Basically I thought she was alright at first but then after a litte while she become more and more clingy and more annoying and one thing lead on to another and then she just started becoming the most repulsive thing ever; both extrinsicly and intrinsicly.

I WAS BEING RUDE?!

Ok lets weigh this:

She:

- Calls me 2am, asking for phone numbers of my friends who already told her she was a b1tch because she kept annoying them + c0ckblocking them.
- Perpetually asks me to stroke her ego, "Yehhh you luvv me cuz I am so sexy!", "Its just cuz I am sooo awesome", "Mikey don't fvck around with me!".
- Shes an AW
- Shes shallow and superficial (do not call me a hypocrite, I will explain later)
- She always disregards the things I say by playing dumb, things like: "Can you stop spamming me please, you are annoying me"......"REALLY? Are you just jealous because I am so awesome?!"
- Oh, she spammed me online....with, SHOW ME THE HOT GUYS SHOW ME THE HOT GUYS!!!
- Ruined my best friends relationship by spreading rumors so therefore all my friends dislike her.

Me:

- All I did, was just tell her what she did not want to hear; in a manner to make her stfu for once.

Now, for those who think I only go for looks.

I measure people by their qualities, if she has a bad personality at least she compensates with a good face if she has a bad face she compensates with a good personality. But unfortunitly she has niether.

So do you think she deserves an apology? If so tell me why.

Also, I find it quite hypocritic and ironic how all of you now tell me that the only thing I judge a person with is their looks; whilst half of this website is dedicated to trying to land a HB, also another ironic thing is the fact you guys call me insecure, havent you realised that this website is a compendium of people blurting out their own insecurities?

How is my origional post a representation of my insecurity?

Big-J said:

Here's the insecure part:

Your dwindling on bullsh!t you shouldn't be giving a thought to.

Your feeding her cries for attention with your own.

WTF are you wasting your time even thinking about this for?

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Heres the hypocritical part:

Your dwindling on bullsh!t you shouldent be giving a thought to.

Your feeding my cries for attention with your own

WTF are you wasting your time even thinking about this for?

Yeah, this is a help forum isnt it mate? Then help, cheers.

So do you think she deserves an apology? If so tell me why.

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Because you were fvcking rude to her. That's a good reason.

Basically I thought she was alright at first but then after a litte while she become more and more clingy and more annoying and one thing lead on to another and then she just started becoming the most repulsive thing ever; both extrinsicly and intrinsicly.

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Did you ever think about cutting contact with her? If you're that disgusted with her, why are you keeping contact with her? It's a waste of your time and a waste of hers.

- Calls me 2am, asking for phone numbers of my friends who already told her she was a b1tch because she kept annoying them + c0ckblocking them.

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If you don't like 2am phone calls, either tell her that or cut contact.

- Oh, she spammed me online....with, SHOW ME THE HOT GUYS SHOW ME THE HOT GUYS!!!

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Again, why the hell are you keeping in contact with her if she pisses you off?

- Ruined my best friends relationship by spreading rumors so therefore all my friends dislike her.

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...and why is this your business? That's between her and your friend, not her, your friend, you, and whoever the hell else is trying to stick their nose. Worry about yourself instead of what other people are doing to each other.

- All I did, was just tell her what she did not want to hear; in a manner to make her stfu for once.

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If you want her to STFU, quit talking to her on the phone, on the internet, and IRL. You have no right to bytch and complain about her since you continue to throw yourself into her world. Quit being a goddam drama queen and cut contact with her.

michaelhctam said:

Well ok, there is this girl that I have been chatting to on MSN.

And basically, I'd known her in primary school; we lost contact untill just a few weeks ago.

The problem with her is: Her personality is extremely insecure, she is shallow and superficial, and she presents herself as one of those ditzy and stupid mall rats.

Now, whenever I chat with her; she always bring up the subject of:
"MIKE SHOW ME SOME HOT GUYS! I NEED HOT GUYS TO MAKE ME HAPPY!"

Each time I chat with her she will bring up the subject; but then one day I couldent take her childish antics and then I suddenly said to her.

"You are not attractive, and my friends agree. So stop being a stupid girl, everyone thinks you are ugly; you are fvcking rough".

She cried, did I take it too far....I made her cry.

I found it kind of funny, because she lied about how she was going to her 'boyfriends' house....if she had a boyfriend why would she keep asking me to introduce her to hot guys?

She has no good looking friends; shes stupid and ugly and has insecurity issues, just the type of girls I despise.

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Why are you talking to her to begin with?

ima str8 up pimp said:

Why are you talking to her to begin with?

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Yeah stop talking to her, from what you are saying she seems like a waste of time. There's no need to apologize, she must have bugged you and your friends a lot for you to finally let out the inconvenient truth. Just forget her and move on.

Yep, and I did just that.

Cut contact with her.

Made her cry to prevent her coming back again.

Awesome! You guys are wicked.

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Yep, and I did just that.

Cut contact with her.

Made her cry to prevent her coming back again.

Awesome! You guys are wicked.

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Your either so clueless or a troll.

Here is the story from start to finish: You get this girl on MSN you haven't seen a while but you got the hard on for her. You don't have the balls nor the skills to ask her out on a date but you sit there typing up some MSN bvllsh1t wasting time (thinking this will increase an interest levels of a girl you barley seen or interact with) and getting infatuated with her while she sees you as a novelty act, someone online to entertain her while she is bored. You get p1ssed because you are not getting anywhere with her and you insult her, making you feel as if you won something even though you haven't gained anything nor learned anything.

Chicks have self-esteem issues, its not too difficult to make them cry but its more difficult to make yourself into a casanova, that's the hard part.

Ok, cool.

Close the thread now, I got what I wanted.

DJDamage said:

Your either so clueless or a troll.

Here is the story from start to finish: You get this girl on MSN you haven't seen a while but you got the hard on for her. You don't have the balls nor the skills to ask her out on a date but you sit there typing up some MSN bvllsh1t wasting time (thinking this will increase an interest levels of a girl you barley seen or interact with) and getting infatuated with her while she sees you as a novelty act, someone online to entertain her while she is bored. You get p1ssed because you are not getting anywhere with her and you insult her, making you feel as if you won something even though you haven't gained anything nor learned anything.

Chicks have self-esteem issues, its not too difficult to make them cry but its more difficult to make yourself into a casanova, that's the hard part.

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By the way your wrong about my situation but you are right about the last 2 1/4 line, but I dont want to get into an online fisticuff.

Ego's a bad thing to tamper with.

Desdinova said:

I need to ask... what the hell were you thinking when you told her this? Why did you feel the need to insult her? Just because you don't find her attractive, it doesn't mean you have to let her know in the rudest way you can possibly think of.

I know apologies are not widely advocated on this site, but this girl fvcking deserves one from you.

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Agreed...and sadly, every guy that girl ever gets involved with in the future will end up paying for what he said.

In my 6 years on this site I haven't seen anyone post any girl being so cruel and hateful in comments to the members here.

If you are bothered by someone then don't freaking talk to them, but don't crush them like that. Disgusting...

michaelhctam said:

and then I suddenly said to her.

"You are not attractive, and my friends agree. So stop being a stupid girl, everyone thinks you are ugly; you are fvcking rough".

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lol, you jerk!