older women and porn?

I know normally those things don't go together but here me out. My roommate asked me to use my laptop the other night while I was drunk and she gave me her my mac to use. I promptly temporarily deleted my porn so she can't watch it to see what extremes I go to, even though she'll get an idea from the names that are left in my library on media player since I didn't delete them from there.

But the funny part is when she gave me her mac, she said, don't mind the porn. Well I was too drunk to explore her mac the other night.

So tonight she wanted to switch again. So I snoop around and sure enough I find some porn on her computer. My interest is totally peaked that a 32 year old women would have porn on her computer. I thought it was a very male orientated thing. Although a group of friends half men / half women, use to have Porno Sundays where we'd sit around hung over on sundays and watch porn for some cheesy entertainment.

About a month and a half ago, was at the g/f's place and I had previously downloaded Debbie Does Dallas on the computer but never watched it. So I slapped it on one day while we were eating pizza and the g/f was intrigued. She hasn't seen much porn due to a sheltered life so I mistakenly thought the interest was out of the novelty of it.

However women seem to have some interest in porn. Can anyone explain or provide some insight?

Alot of women are into porn. Alot of women are bigger perverts than men are, they just hide it.

A lot of women are intimidated by porn too. Think about them wondering how they compare to the women in the gang-bang, DPs and general orgies. All us guys have to do is remember that if a Super Mario looking guy like Ron Jeremy can get laid, anyone can!

MacAvoy said:

My interest is totally peaked that a 32 year old women would have porn on her computer.
However women seem to have some interest in porn. Can anyone explain or provide some insight?

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lol c'mon maing, 32 ain't that old =P

Alot of chicks dig porn, but don't want to seem slutty by outright saying it. Sure, there aren't as many girls buying or actively seeking porn as men, but they like it.

I've asked many girls about the type of porn they like and a common theme in their answers is that they like to watch porn where the 'model' gets into the sex or when it appears that the 'model' is enjoying getting routed out. Also, they like the b/b/g & g/g/b (that's boy/boy/girl and girl/girl/boy to you non-industry peeps) it's a big fantasy for alot of chix. Another type that some girls like is gay porn. The reason? The dudes are usually better looking than the guys in straight porn (*cough* Ron Jeremy) and the guys look like they actually enjoy it. They don't look like they're weeping quietly as their soul leaves their body after the 3rd input has been tapped by the 5th guy in line. :cheer:

Francisco d'Anconia said:

All us guys have to do is remember that if a Super Mario looking guy like Ron Jeremy can get laid, anyone can!

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Yea, but the difference is, these chicks are getting PAID to sleep with Ron Jeremy. Whether Ron Jeremy is a DJ in real life, I don't know, but if he is, then he's obviously getting laid by hot chicks outside the porn studios as well.

None of the girls I have dated have liked porn.
But i'm sure their out there.

edger said:

Yea, but the difference is, these chicks are getting PAID to sleep with Ron Jeremy. Whether Ron Jeremy is a DJ in real life, I don't know, but if he is, then he's obviously getting laid by hot chicks outside the porn studios as well.

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I have a friend who's in the industry, (no not like that, he sets up scene locations) and we hung out with Ron and a couple of other "entertainers" for a bit at a convention. Not only is the guy a poon magnet (I was surprised at how many women recognize him in public) but he is also does really well with cold approaches, (starting conversations, getting numbers). I say it's his charisma and his Uncle Luigi look.

I've known several girls who were really into (their words) "older guy younger girl" porn, so go figure. One girl had a serious favorite clip that involved spanking. Hey, it all works for me, whatever.

With women and porn, it's often all about the segue or context... Be subtle and a bit indirect.

Never directly say "oh she's so hot" or "I wanna do that" when viewing porn...
Instead say "hmm that kinda looks like fun" or "wow she seems to actually be enjoying that"... It'll plant the seed in HER mind... :cheer:

Some chicks however, just ain't into new things or finding sex enjoyable - for a multitude of (largely invalid) reasons. If thats then case move on!

I think girls vary greatly in porn interest. One ex GF was so pissed when she found my nudie mags under my bed that she *****ed me out and called me a "pervert" the minute I got home from work.

But my most recent ex gf had more porn than I did. She was into DVDs. She ordered so many porn movies and sex toys from this one place that they sent her free stuff ("frequent flier miles") every few months.

I've also done IT work for several hundred users over the past few years, and I'll tell you one thing, I've never seen porn sites in ANY woman's history folder, or pictures or movies in her e-mail that were obvious porn. This is routine for men.

There were 2 women with naked pictures of THEMSELVES on their hard drives, tho.

bigjohnson said:

I've known several girls who were really into (their words) "older guy younger girl" porn, so go figure. One girl had a serious favorite clip that involved spanking. Hey, it all works for me, whatever.

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Father figure.

Some women don't like porn simply because they can't compete with that. The last thing she wants to see you is watching a girl getting pounded hard in the ass and then take it stright into her mouth (anyone knows why Ass to mouth is so popular these days?? lol)

If a woman ever tells you to stop watching porn because it makes her sick tell her that you will stop watching porn when she stops watching those nauseating Hollywood romance movies because you are feeling sick watching that.

Zactly, if she's "threatened" by porn and doesn't step up to the plate and COMPETE for your interest, you can sure as heck bet she's gonna start trying to limit the "competing" interests or withholding putting out and/or attaching conditions to sex! Yay!

Then, until you meet her demands/limits, neither of which is healthy nor fun in the long run.

Exception being like the real oddball stuff - goats n midgets, choirboy quarterly, etc. That you might wanna keep under wraps! LOL

SO...we're holding REAL women up to the "standards" of PORNO CHICKS these days now, huh? lol

Keep in mind that porn, just like it's PRIMARY fuel----"LUST", doesn't really HAVE a limit.

Know that there's really NOTHING considered off limits or deviant these days. No matter WHAT your brand of fetish is, the purveyors of porn have NO value judgements to use AGAINST you, but rather...just a "category" FOR you. lol

So if you're bent on mixing real life with porn life, better buckle yourselves IN boys, because it could very well be a bumpy ride down an unexpectedly SLIPPERY slope...

I've got a friend who thought it was a GREAT idea UNTIL his girl started fixating on the "actor's" bigger Dyck MORE than she did on HIS "littler" one. lol But to each his own, I guess...

Just don't come back on here a month from now complaining about how your chick dumped you because you DIDN'T indulge HER sexual fetish for puttin' shiny, blunt instruments up your Asses. lol


March on.

I don't think I could ever hang with a chick who has a problem with porn. And it has nothing to do with my 500 DVD collection (KIDDING....I only have a little and what I do have was hand picked by my ex).

Yea, my last LTR had no problem going to the naughty store with me to pick out a video "as long as the girls are really HOT". She was in charge of deciding and that was fine by me cause she had good taste

The girl before that I moved in with (as a roommate). One day she left me a grocery bag with a bunch of mags and videos with a note that said "Happy housewarming! Enjoy the big bag o' porn". Needless to say we were fukkin' like bunny rabbits not too long after that.

Another chick I know makes absolutely no apologies for her love for porn. She even busted some out one day when I was at her house with a buddy of mine and several other chicks. That was a first.

As for older women having a problem with porn....hmmm....I haven't found that to be true. I hang out with a few different groups of women and neither the older nor the younger ones seem to have much of a problem with it.

Matter of fact, I know an adult store doesn't just have porn, but I can't count the number of times the chicks I know start talking about a group of us hitting the adult store so they can pick out a new "toy".

I dunno, maybe it has to do with the kind of company you keep.

I think women who are into porn are a bit rare. They just don't have that raw "detached" drive that we do. I've noticed that most female performers hate kissing, you'll always see them either try to avoid it all together or do it quickly like they just want to be done with that part. They need "intimacy" to get them going, and that doesn't mean "romantic" but if they like you they'll enjoy themselves (or atleast try). I especially hate the women who do lesbian scenes but they are clearly not into women, such a waste.........

I know a lot of people say women are just as driven to sex as men, they just just hide it.......but that doesn't seem to be the case from my experiences. There are always exceptions, but I think in general it isn't the same. Hell, just look at married couples, who complains more about lack of sex, men or women? I know women masturbate, but who do you think does it the most? You also figure men don't have any "cycles" to worry about, we're ready almost at any time, any day of the week.