GF gettin on my nerves

DJinTraining06 · Feb 11, 2007

I've mentioned this before a few weeks ago. My gf constatly says "why do u know that?" whenever we go out and i say some sort of info that i know. It's not even that obsure usually, soemtimes its just normal stuff that isnt weird to know at all.
And it annoys the hell out of me, cuz everybody knows wat they know, why is that weird? She says boring **** to me all the time, should i just start doin it back to her and make her feel stupid? At first it was cute, but last night i said something totally normal, and she said "why do u know that" like i was so weird. And i told her, "why shouldn't i know that, i aint apoligiizng for knowing sh*t. I forgot i'm supposed to pretend im ignorant when im with u"

And she says "why r u going out with me then, i wont ask u anything anymore."

Can u believe this? I ended up having to apoligize. I love how they turn it around. There was another thing too last night. We were at a restaurant and there was a picture of a map from the 1700's on the wall over our table. I looked at it for a sec to try and figure out where ny was. She says sarcastically "u studying ur history map" As if it was dorky, (cuz she knows i like history)

Should i drop this girl? I really like her normally but then she does stuff like this which i find disrespecful and idiotic. What should i do dump her, or jsut try to see if i can put my foot down and see if she changes first?

gherald · Feb 11, 2007

in the first place why did yu apologize?

you cant change her ways that way...just say what you feel and ofcourse she'll feel bad at first...but stand on your ground...

Mind_Body_Soul · Feb 11, 2007

OK first of all, hardly EVER apologize unless you really did something horrible like accidentally killing one of her cats in the microwave

Secondly, you need to become more of a challenge for this girl. Sounds like she wears the daddy pants. Dude, she's living in your reality and not the other way around. If you don't feel bad about something you did, DO NOT APOLOGIZE. Even if you do feel bad (see cat example), you probably shouldn't. Instead of apologizing, say something like "What is it about what I did that pi$$es you off so much?" and when she explains herself say "OK, I understand." Notice, you aren't saying "I'm sorry", but you are demonstrating that you value her opinion.

Regarding the history map - she was giving you some c&f it sounds. I would have said exactly what I was doing with a gleem of charisma in my eye, "I'm studying that map trying to figure out where NY is (you ignorant b1tch)"

If she says "That's dumb" or implies that it's stupid, DUMP THE B1TCH. No girl on earth should ever think learning or studying or discovering is dumb. Those are MASCULINE characteristics. She should be wet in her little panties that you are curious.

MyOwnKryptonite · Feb 11, 2007

I've never known a girl that didnt enjoy hearing little tid bits of information. I spit them out all the tiem and they love them. For instance, all penguins are left handed

The_Wolf · Feb 11, 2007

How about confronting her with this?

Next time you are alone, and she says that stupid sh!t, ask her with a serious face what is the matter with her, and if she plays dumb ("I don't know what you are talking about..you wierdo..") then tell her, either you stop with this stupid crap of trying to insult me (or what ever it makes you feel) or just stop dating me, b/c I've had it with you.

Because if it's that serious that you brought it up to a forum, I'm guessing you are done playing around.

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

They're all crazy b*tches....

You know what TheLadiesMan says...

If she's acting nuts, put it in her butt.

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

If she's out of line, put it in her behind.

Francisco d'Anconia · Feb 11, 2007

DJinTraining06 said:
...Should i drop this girl? I really like her normally but then she does stuff like this which i find disrespecful and idiotic. What should i do dump her, or jsut try to see if i can put my foot down and see if she changes first?

What did you see in this girl to start dating her? What was it about her personality that attracted you?

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

If she's lacking class, put it in her a$$... see where I'm going with this?

LOL!

If she's not being right, give her a pillow to bite.

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

If she's talking smack, put it in her crack!

gsxtreme1987 · Feb 11, 2007

lmao. those are hillarious.

if she talkin s h i t, fcuk her like a b it ch

hmm sounds stupid but ok ha

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

If she's being a wh0re, slip it in her backdoor!

.. you know what I'm saying?

If she's got no soul, put it in her booty hole!

BBX · Feb 11, 2007

she wont be able to say anything if u put your dik in her mouth

TheLadiesMan · Feb 11, 2007

If she doesn't fetch you a beer, ram it in her rear.

Off to watch my Cavs lose to the Lakers.

gsxtreme1987 · Feb 11, 2007

lmao. .where the **** u comin up wid all those frm

bigjohnson · Feb 11, 2007

DJinTraining06 said:
.... I ended up having to apoligize. ....

Aaaaand now you know why she was doing it. Right? You see, right? She PICKED A FIGHT then MADE you say sorry. Oh wow dude. Ah well,, don't feel too bad - most guys do that once or twice, some never learn. Your mission; make this your once.

DJinTraining06 · Feb 11, 2007

The_Wolf said:
How about confronting her with this?

Next time you are alone, and she says that stupid sh!t, ask her with a serious face what is the matter with her, and if she plays dumb ("I don't know what you are talking about..you wierdo..") then tell her, either you stop with this stupid crap of trying to insult me (or what ever it makes you feel) or just stop dating me, b/c I've had it with you.

Because if it's that serious that you brought it up to a forum, I'm guessing you are done playing around.

i confronted her on the phone this morning, and she got all upset wit me,

"i thought u were over this already. I dunno, if we cant get over little things like this then i dunno."

so i say, i dont mean to make a big deal out of it, i just feel like i cant say anythin without u sayin that, u say it almost every time we hang out at least once.

so shes like "ok i wont ever say, "why do u know that", ever again. I didnt know it offends u.

im like "thats not the point here. its funny when i say soemthign really obscure. I dont mind u sayin it then. but if i mention things that r totally mainstream and normal and ur still sayin that, well then thats not normal, it bothers me cuz wat the hell is "cool" to talk about.

then i ended up apoloiging again like an idiot.

next time i aint apoligizng, i just f'd it up this time.

DJinTraining06 · Feb 11, 2007

Francisco d'Anconia said:
What did you see in this girl to start dating her? What was it about her personality that attracted you?

Well she seemed alot smarter when i first met her. And she is smart dont get me wrong, but now thats shes comfortable with me, she always says "why do u know that" Which is something i never hear anybody say. Who says that?
ive heard people use that expression on each other a few times but only when its somethin so obscure. I'll say normal things and she says that. It riles me up idont know why. Its like the ignorance of it drives me nuts. lol

But i like her cuz shes easygoing, we have alot in common, and were just alot alike in the way we think and wat we liek to do. But now im seeing a different side. I am not dumping her, cuz i really got feelings for her, but im sticvking to this attitude. i aint giving in. im gonna mention as many facts as i want and not let her make me seem weird. if that continues, im sayin goodbye. Cuz i am not a dumb guy, i know some guys who spew out facts like idiots. I am very conscious of not being obnoxisous and hogging convos and saying dorky things. the stuff i say is usually related to the conversaton and minor, not showing off. so it really doesnt apply to me when she says that.

BlackJackal · Feb 11, 2007

If you wanna dump her then dump her.

The_Wolf · Feb 11, 2007

Hey, I understand you man, but take it easy. You have a good way of thinking. Don't let this dumb little sentence ruin your relationship, but still, don't let it slide if it bothers you that much. (and it does sound annoying).

Let us know how it develops...

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